Faithfully03

Yes correct! Sorry. Thanks 😁

Im hoping that someone can share me the list of requirements they sent to USCIS for bringing the spouse and derivative to the US. My mom is filing her petition for my dad and unmarried child under 21 y/o soon. I would like to double check and make sure we have the accurate requirements for the petition. Thanks in advance. Appreciate it!

Thank you guys! There is nothing worse for a parent knowing your child is going to the wrong direction. I have been there and absolutely not wanting my daughter to have the same mistake. I wish I would have listened to my parents and I would have probably finished college. I was with the wrong friends and got pregnant and gave birth at 17. My daughter's dad had no intention with her.
 
There is nothing wrong adapting the American culture I did not really mean it to sound bad. I have chose to moved her here and worked so hard for that to happen. All I'm saying is I want her to know where she came from and not loose respect and be responsible so that when she is on her own she will not have a problem how to take care of herself, keeping a job and such in the future.
 
I posted here because I am hoping that there are people having to deal with the same situation when they moved they child/children here in the US from the Philippines and could tell me how are they coping and dealing with their preteen/teenager. My husband and I are so lost and do not know how to discipline her anymore. We had given her almost everything she asked for. We are not rich but we work so hard to provide for our children. My husband has a 13 y/o son who acts no where near like my daughter. My daughter is either in school or just home that is why I am so shocked where is she learning all these things she is doing and saying to us. She recently took $50 from us without asking so she can get her nails done. I did not find out until 2 days later when I was going to deposit the money and went to ask my husband if he took the money. My daughter told me that her friend's aunt paid for her nails. I was so mad and went after my daughter and sure enough she admitted she took the money and then I took her phone away and came to find out  when she had sleepover that weekend (she barely have sleepover and not having any lately because she has been getting in so much trouble) that she was offering her friend to pay for their nails. The nails that my daughter only kept for a week and take it off. I have been in the US for 7 years and have done my nails here once! They are very expensive! Now we are giving her allowance again even though she is not really doing chores at home so that she will not take money that does not belong to her. But once she have the money she immediately want to spend it for the things that are not necessary and if I get in a way and not let her buy the things she wanted to buy and tell her to save her money for now and spend it for something she could really use later she will get mad at me and we will get in a fight.
 
Yes sending her back home was a thought. I asked her if she wanted to do that, to go to school in PI. All she tells me is "I don't know" I try to ask her what can we do to get this resolved and what does she want and why is she acting the way she does she will tell me "I don't know" She won't give me an answer and will always tell us she don't know.