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Another idea that may work for others. I have excellent credit (826) and a fear of unsecured debt 😅 When my husband joined me in the states I added him to my Discover card as an authorized user. His credit skyrocketed to the 730's in a couple of months. Not all cards report for auth users, so check with yours if this is something you're looking to do. We will add our boys when they get older, too, so that they get a good kick start. Do know that if removed from the auth user status they lose the benefit.

Honestly, I'm not sure - I've had absolutely 0 luck contacting anyone at the Embassy. I believe there's a contact number on here (when logged in); https://ais.usvisa-info.com/en-gb/niv
 
Somewhere which will get you through to the Department of State, I'd say that might be your best bet

Just email them - you can't get through to anyone at London on the phone. The other alternative would be to contact Department of State. They can sometimes help with matters like this I believe. 

So sorry you had to go through this, but happy you're taking care of yourself now. Sending lots of love and positive energy to you. All the best

Thanks for all the opinions. I have taken them into consideration. Don't worry I've taken care of this problem he's already returned home & wont be coming back!!! You can close this thread now. I am in counselling and working on my recovery from this sad situation. Thanks again everyone!

I have to agree with everyone on here; he won't change, he is a danger to you and your family, and is a danger to the country.
I've been in a similar situation, just not with the terror threats and my ex was American. They are really good at putting on a false front, part of being a sociopath. And the threats, it always starts with casual comments. Then it escalates. The fact that he 'knows' what ISIS requires is a bad sign.
You need to call the authorities about the threats, and you need to divorce him. I've read that the visa is only good as long as you're still married, but I'm certain you can find out for sure. You will go through a mourning process because you did lose a man you loved, whether he was real and genuine doesn't matter, because in your heart he was. But, if you don't take action now it will likely have a very bad outcome. I'm so sorry for your situation ?

I have to agree with everyone on here; he won't change, he is a danger to you and your family, and is a danger to the country.
I've been in a similar situation, just not with the terror threats and my ex was American. They are really good at putting on a false front, part of being a sociopath. And the threats, it always starts with casual comments. Then it escalates. The fact that he 'knows' what ISIS requires is a bad sign.
You need to call the authorities about the threats, and you need to divorce him. I've read that the visa is only good as long as you're still married, but I'm certain you can find out for sure. You will go through a mourning process because you did lose a man you loved, whether he was real and genuine doesn't matter, because in your heart he was. But, if you don't take action now it will likely have a very bad outcome. I'm so sorry for your situation ?

I have to agree with everyone on here; he won't change, he is a danger to you and your family, and is a danger to the country.
I've been in a similar situation, just not with the terror threats and my ex was American. They are really good at putting on a false front, part of being a sociopath. And the threats, it always starts with casual comments. Then it escalates. The fact that he 'knows' what ISIS requires is a bad sign.
You need to call the authorities about the threats, and you need to divorce him. I've read that the visa is only good as long as you're still married, but I'm certain you can find out for sure. You will go through a mourning process because you did lose a man you loved, whether he was real and genuine doesn't matter, because in your heart he was. But, if you don't take action now it will likely have a very bad outcome. I'm so sorry for your situation ?

I have to agree with everyone on here; he won't change, he is a danger to you and your family, and is a danger to the country.
I've been in a similar situation, just not with the terror threats and my ex was American. They are really good at putting on a false front, part of being a sociopath. And the threats, it always starts with casual comments. Then it escalates. The fact that he 'knows' what ISIS requires is a bad sign.
You need to call the authorities about the threats, and you need to divorce him. I've read that the visa is only good as long as you're still married, but I'm certain you can find out for sure. You will go through a mourning process because you did lose a man you loved, whether he was real and genuine doesn't matter, because in your heart he was. But, if you don't take action now it will likely have a very bad outcome. I'm so sorry for your situation ?

On the immigration front I don't think there is much you can do besides divorce and move on.
On a personal level, what you are feeling is normal for victims of abuse. I've been there, many of us have been there. He isn't going to change because he goes to classes and he isn't going to change if you change either. The way he has been talking to you is the first step in what will be a steep slope of abuse if you get back together. It is how abusers knock down the self esteem of victims so that they don't leave as it escalates.
It will escalate if you get back together, maybe just towards you, but also maybe towards your children. Don't get back together with this man. Divorce him and maybe get some counseling or join a group of other women who have also been abused to get some support.