Basic terminology is important in immigration matters....like petitioner, beneficiary, fiance, spouse, visa, petition, etc. In addition, some new users don't know the difference between who is qualified for a K-1 vs who is qualified for a spousal visa. New users sometimes post initial questions in the wrong forum area. IIRC, That particular thread was subsequently moved back to the original forum after a somewhat lengthy discussion about "not being officially married" clarification. IIRC, I, personally moved it, then I moved it back after the OP clarified. I am not a MOD (if you were referring to me). I am an organizer. We, organizers, are tasked with...organizing/moving threads to correct locations, removing duplicate threads, and eliminating the influx of spam threads (although Capt Ewok has done a great job of filtering most of that stuff out). Just my humble, factual observations as an organizer regarding that thread.