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    puffers got a reaction from Neevs&day in EAD waiting time after RFE for initial evidence   
    Thanks guys!
    That timeline does help, gives me a little hope that it's not gonna be another 90 days.
    But I guess all I can do is wait.
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    puffers got a reaction from Neevs&day in EAD waiting time after RFE for initial evidence   
    Hi everyone,
    I couldn't really find much about this and I'm getting really frustrated so I'm hoping to find some people who had the same problem I have. I applied for AOS/EAD in early June, got a NOA 1 with the receive date of June 10th, had my biometrics June 30th and in July, I got an RFE for my AOS (initial evidence). I sent the requested documents to USCIS and the update online says they received it July 31st.
    In August (after 75 days) I put in a case inquiry (through the USCIS website) for my EAD, and I got a letter that says:
    "Your case is within our current processing time. [...] Our systems show that we received your response to our RFE on your form I-485 on 7/31/2015. Your form I-765 will be processed within 90 days of the receipt of the requested evidence."
    So basically, it can take until November... Now, I'm hoping to find people who had the same problem, and I'd like to know if there is anything I can do, like put in another case inquiry, or if I really just have to wait.
    Thanks,
    puffers
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    puffers got a reaction from usmsbow in Failed to find a job in San Diego !   
    You shouldn't be treated like this. Seriously, what kind of "husband" does that?
    I'm always amazed how people bring their spouse to this country and then turn out to be complete ########.
    What did he marry you for? For you to make money? Or because he loves you?
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    puffers got a reaction from diegoandtyler in I feel horrible I need advice   
    There's a lot of red flags, and as soon as she enters the country, he has a lot more control over her than he already has. That's dangerous. She comes here, she'll depend on him in different ways. He's the one who would give her a home, give her money, bring her to the hospital, and if she's sick or something is wrong with her or the baby after she gives birth, it's him who has to take care of them.
    From what she's telling us right now, he doesn't sound like he wants to or can do that, and that is a problem. That's a problem if she's just her fiance, but it's an even bigger problem if she brings a child or gives birth to a child that also depends on him.
    There are other cases on this website where women came here and once they were married, their husbands "changed" and became abusive. That's what we want to protect her from. And the child, too.
    He can prove that he wants to be a good father and husband, she doesn't have to be in the US for that. If he's serious about this relationship and being a father, he can go to Serbia right now and prove it.
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    puffers got a reaction from Boiler in Failed to find a job in San Diego !   
    Why not retail? I know it's no ones dream to work in retail but it's money. As long as you're still looking for something else, why not?
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    puffers got a reaction from PerditaD in I feel horrible I need advice   
    There's a lot of red flags, and as soon as she enters the country, he has a lot more control over her than he already has. That's dangerous. She comes here, she'll depend on him in different ways. He's the one who would give her a home, give her money, bring her to the hospital, and if she's sick or something is wrong with her or the baby after she gives birth, it's him who has to take care of them.
    From what she's telling us right now, he doesn't sound like he wants to or can do that, and that is a problem. That's a problem if she's just her fiance, but it's an even bigger problem if she brings a child or gives birth to a child that also depends on him.
    There are other cases on this website where women came here and once they were married, their husbands "changed" and became abusive. That's what we want to protect her from. And the child, too.
    He can prove that he wants to be a good father and husband, she doesn't have to be in the US for that. If he's serious about this relationship and being a father, he can go to Serbia right now and prove it.
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    puffers got a reaction from MrsAwakened in I feel horrible I need advice   
    There's a lot of red flags, and as soon as she enters the country, he has a lot more control over her than he already has. That's dangerous. She comes here, she'll depend on him in different ways. He's the one who would give her a home, give her money, bring her to the hospital, and if she's sick or something is wrong with her or the baby after she gives birth, it's him who has to take care of them.
    From what she's telling us right now, he doesn't sound like he wants to or can do that, and that is a problem. That's a problem if she's just her fiance, but it's an even bigger problem if she brings a child or gives birth to a child that also depends on him.
    There are other cases on this website where women came here and once they were married, their husbands "changed" and became abusive. That's what we want to protect her from. And the child, too.
    He can prove that he wants to be a good father and husband, she doesn't have to be in the US for that. If he's serious about this relationship and being a father, he can go to Serbia right now and prove it.
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    puffers got a reaction from usmsbow in I feel horrible I need advice   
    There's a lot of red flags, and as soon as she enters the country, he has a lot more control over her than he already has. That's dangerous. She comes here, she'll depend on him in different ways. He's the one who would give her a home, give her money, bring her to the hospital, and if she's sick or something is wrong with her or the baby after she gives birth, it's him who has to take care of them.
    From what she's telling us right now, he doesn't sound like he wants to or can do that, and that is a problem. That's a problem if she's just her fiance, but it's an even bigger problem if she brings a child or gives birth to a child that also depends on him.
    There are other cases on this website where women came here and once they were married, their husbands "changed" and became abusive. That's what we want to protect her from. And the child, too.
    He can prove that he wants to be a good father and husband, she doesn't have to be in the US for that. If he's serious about this relationship and being a father, he can go to Serbia right now and prove it.
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    puffers reacted to Ebunoluwa in I feel horrible I need advice   
    That is very wrong advice.
    http://www.babycenter.com/0_group-b-streptococcus-screening_1647.bc
    http://sogc.org/publications/group-b-streptococcus-gbs-infection-in-pregnancy/
    A very sensible solution for all involved.
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    puffers reacted to Michael and Ganna in I feel horrible I need advice   
    I would like to chime in here. There are many factors that have not been discussed here, which in my view I consider important. First off I am an older gentleman. If my wife was ill, i would be on the next plane to Ukraine. If I didn't have the money I would beg, borrow, steal or pick up cans on the side of the road. A pack of hungry wolfs could not keep me away from her. Besides being my wife, she is my best friend and lover We treat each other with respect and understanding. With a foreign spouse you have to try, give, and have patience with each other. Everything is more difficult, but the out come is blissful and more rewarding than you would ever think possible.
    I lived with her, and i know first hand about the issues....many times I had my bags packed to come home. I was home sick! I miss my friends, family and son. I was in a country where no one spoke my language, food tasted different, transportation was different, I did not know how to shop in the market, I did not know what products to buy, the country smelled different, people were different.....every thing in my life was different. My now wife worked very hard to make me feel comfortable. I was a problem for her, and that made me feel sad....but we worked TOGETHER and got through it.
    Right now you are stressed to the bone, and about to have a child. You are not even here yet.
    It saddens me to say, your man is a game player
    You will have a child.....very stressful
    You will have a wedding....stressful
    You will have tons of paperwork to file....stressful
    Taking care of your newborn...WOW...stressful and very costly
    Adapting to your new country....beyond stressful
    A husband that is not employed....stressful
    where is money coming from...stressful
    He will be going to police academy.....stressful and costly
    He won't have a lot of time to spend with you....and believe me, you will need it.
    He already shows signs of abuse, and he clearly doesn't support you or your feelings.
    Also it is fact that police officers have a high rate of Domestic Abuse.
    Is this the way to build a foundation to a lasting and loving relationship? You have many issues and problems to over-come just with in the foreign relationship...Then you throw all the additional stress factors in..... I would doubt that the relationship could survive....I know I could not do it.
    I am just being real here and don't want to upset you....but these are thing to think about
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    puffers got a reaction from Idy Fdez in I feel horrible I need advice   
    He's an ####### for trying to pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with. Even if there wasn't any risk for you or the baby, who is he to tell you what to do and threaten you like that?
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    puffers got a reaction from trublubu2 in I feel horrible I need advice   
    Sorry but he doesn't sound like a good husband or father.
    If he acts like that NOW, what do you expect to happen once you're here in the US and he has even more control over you, your life and your baby's life?
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    puffers got a reaction from trublubu2 in ?★ Deported for aggravated felony, living here on a CAT. Now Im told I can apply for 212(h) in 7th circuit. Is this true?   
    You don't need to hire a lawyer to find out if there is still a chance for you to get a green card. Make an appointment, some lawyers even offer free consultation, most charge $100 or something like that.
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    puffers got a reaction from trublubu2 in I feel horrible I need advice   
    He's an ####### for trying to pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with. Even if there wasn't any risk for you or the baby, who is he to tell you what to do and threaten you like that?
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    puffers got a reaction from Advanced Aardvark in How to attach photos to I-130? and more...   
    For my K1 we put like 4 - 6 photos on one page (Word/PDF) and printed it afterwords on normal paper. It was still a lot of pages so one photo per page would have been reaaallly expensive lol. We brought real photos to the interview but no one even cared
    We did this for all our evidence, like plane tickets etc. - we took photos and printed it on normal paper. It was fine for K1.
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    puffers got a reaction from Cheezees in How long is the wait after the RFE?   
    You can check current processing times of your office on the USCIS website
    https://egov.uscis.gov/cris/processTimesDisplayInit.do
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