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    terri_blake got a reaction from STO Overland in Need advice on Egyptian Fiance   
    Please dont call me names. The Moroccan hotel wasnt very tall so 3 stories in Morocco is like 2 in the states. People are shorter there and the buildings architecture mirror the society and culture. Not everyone is big like Americans. Our photos havent been touched up or altered. They are just fine! If i see the word photos one more time my brain is going to explode!!#!
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    terri_blake got a reaction from moemac59 in Cold Feet and Second Thoughts   
    AS many of you probably already know about my situation with my Egyptian fiancee Basim I am now starting to have some second thoughts about the situation. I don't know if it's just cold feet and a temporary feeling or if this is my own personal intuition telling me to change my mind before it's too late. Everyday I learn something new about my fiance and most of the time the things that I learn are not great things. he is told me that he's allergic to different types of animals and I'm an animal lover. He told me that he is now caring for and acting as father to his niece.and now I realize that some of his interest may conflict with mine and is not just religious based. I am sure I am NOT the only one out here who has had these types of doubtful feelings so please if anyone is out there who had cold feet, second thoughts, doubts, or trust issues, please send me your words of wisdom. Thank you, love, Terri. ♡♡♡
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    terri_blake got a reaction from Darnell in Exhausted but Hopeful   
    TY Boiler!
    Very good advice. My my sister did suggest this but right now I do think she is a little bit jealous because the girl wants to stay with me and not her. She's actually never even met this child before and so I think she's a little envious that she and the child are not as closes I am with her. Child's father aka a dirtbag Tony knows she's here and he's very happy. He told my fiance that he plans to come and visit her in the next 2 weeks. Maybe then he and my sister will come to some sort of resolution with their own situation which by the way is very sad. The lady that came to the airport with her passport is not her mother it is a very close relative. Those of you who are skeptical about this entire situation, please do me a favor and take a trip to Egypt and there you will understand. The people there are awesome!!! You will then begin to understand exactly why I fell in love with this man this country and this child.
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    terri_blake got a reaction from hanniel in Exhausted but Hopeful   
    listen, I won't make the same mistakes I've made in the past on this message board. I pretty much know how to maneuver my way throughout these different discussion posts. saying im naive is your personal opinion and you have every right to feel that way. But evidently I'm not that naive if I came on to this website to open up my situation to others and ask for feedback. I admitted to having cold feet, being confused, having second thoughts etc. So I don't think that would describe me as being naive. Maybe a good word to use instead would be helpful, optimistic, or positive thinking. I've always looked at the glass as being half full and people who type things as you have usually don't see the glass at all. your glass is probably shattered somewhere in in a trash bag. why don't you go out to the dollar store and get yourself a glass bring it home wash it fill it up with cold water and have a sip.
    U seem parched.
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    terri_blake got a reaction from Boiler in Exhausted but Hopeful   
    well I went back and looked at some of my previous post and I did mention the little girls name which is Halah so from here on out it's not a problem to refer to her by her first name. Number one Halah being here is not illegal at all. There is no felony involved with a child traveling to another country with a guardian and with permission of her parents and guardians from her home country. American kids do it all the time. When I was little girl about 12 years old I went all the way to Germany for the summer to visit my great grandmother. Big deal!! Children are allowed to travel. Just because somebody's Egyptian doesn't mean they can't come into this country. Some of you referring to that may also be considered racist because of Canadian children come over here nobody said anything. I live near Canada so I would know. halah's entire family knows that she is here and is happy that she is here! she's been legally admitted into this country by an immigration officer at the border. She is here to spend the summer with me in Michigan. and she will be just fine. I'm still getting married to my fiance. We have taken lots and lots of pictures together. We have plenty of proof to support our relationship. Our petition has already been approved. I'm just waiting for the rest of the process to continue. By the way we are being processed at the California processing center. Some of you all are still being processed at Texas. Evidently it was meant to be because we were jumped the head of the line and send to Cali.
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    terri_blake got a reaction from bluebook14 in Cold Feet and Second Thoughts   
    good evening everyone. Here is my latest update about the situation between myself and my fiance:
    He has been calling me and trying to Skype with me all day long. I finally gave in and spoke with him and explained to him how I was feeling. The conversation did not go well. After a long hot bath a cup of tea and slice of banana nut bread, I decided to speak with him one more time before the end of the night. we talked for about an hour on Skype and it was a really great conversation. I think he gets it now. after begging me for over an hour, I finally gave in and agreed to fly out and meet with him this Friday. I will be meeting him in Hurghada ,Egypt and we will finally meet face to face on the same ground to talk this out in person. I hope I'm not making a mistake but something deep inside my soul tells me I'm not.
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    terri_blake got a reaction from Unidentified in Cold Feet and Second Thoughts   
    just who do you think you are trying to analyze me and sum up my life by reading a few posts on a message board? Get real! You don't know me you don't know my situation you're nothing but a judger! ask a few questions first before you jump to conclusions when you're absolutely wrong! get over yourself.
    1.I am a Christian. I am a proud Christian. I was raised to be a Christian and believe in my Savior the Lord Jesus Christ! If I want a shoutout Jesus Christ name when I feel I need to call upon Him, that's what I shall do! It's not up to you to be the judge and jury on how much faith I have in my religion. Who do you think you are? Are you even religious? Have you even studied Pentecostal Christianity? I don't think you have! I think you are nothing but a person on here who is looking for a problem and you think that you have found one in me. Get over yourself!
    2. my name is not Terri-Blake. those two names are part of my real name. Do you think I would be that much of an idiot to come on here and put out my real name? Get over yourself and get your facts together.
    3.are you really putting a score on my love life? Let's talk about your love life shall we. It must not be so great since you're on here trying to read and judge mine. Where's your other half? Where is your spouse? Where is your soul mate? Evidently, they must be missing in action because you're on here trying to judge Terri Blake, a person you claim to be a troll and fake and using a fake picture. Some life you have!
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    terri_blake got a reaction from Unidentified in Cold Feet and Second Thoughts   
    good evening everyone. Here is my latest update about the situation between myself and my fiance:
    He has been calling me and trying to Skype with me all day long. I finally gave in and spoke with him and explained to him how I was feeling. The conversation did not go well. After a long hot bath a cup of tea and slice of banana nut bread, I decided to speak with him one more time before the end of the night. we talked for about an hour on Skype and it was a really great conversation. I think he gets it now. after begging me for over an hour, I finally gave in and agreed to fly out and meet with him this Friday. I will be meeting him in Hurghada ,Egypt and we will finally meet face to face on the same ground to talk this out in person. I hope I'm not making a mistake but something deep inside my soul tells me I'm not.
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    terri_blake got a reaction from Shauneg in Cold Feet and Second Thoughts   
    good evening everyone. Here is my latest update about the situation between myself and my fiance:
    He has been calling me and trying to Skype with me all day long. I finally gave in and spoke with him and explained to him how I was feeling. The conversation did not go well. After a long hot bath a cup of tea and slice of banana nut bread, I decided to speak with him one more time before the end of the night. we talked for about an hour on Skype and it was a really great conversation. I think he gets it now. after begging me for over an hour, I finally gave in and agreed to fly out and meet with him this Friday. I will be meeting him in Hurghada ,Egypt and we will finally meet face to face on the same ground to talk this out in person. I hope I'm not making a mistake but something deep inside my soul tells me I'm not.
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    terri_blake got a reaction from sandinista! in Red flag over religious differences?   
    And by the way, let me recap for eveyone confused by the convoluted sarcasm:
    1. Im engaged to the best guy in the world.
    2. Despite our cultural differences we know we are soul mates.
    3. We will start a family next year as he keeps dreaming he'll have a son born in 2016.
    4. All Muslims are not the same. There are multiple sects based on different schools of Islamic jurisprudence.
    5. All Christians aren't the same, either.
    6. I know a bigot when I smell one.
    7. Romance and chivalry are alive and well in my guy's heart.
    8. I am excited to marry into an affluent Egyptian family.
    9. I have a big family niw which will double in size in a few months!
    10.I hope some of you butter souls fjnd someone half as nice as my Basim.
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