luv2uallday

yea just send a letter to the uscis office that u sent the petiton to for a withdrawl of your petition... if you withdraw the petiton your wife will have to leave the US and return to thailand.. In order to have any chance of an approval u have to keep the petition active. and your wife must demonstrate the marriage was in good faith.... but thats hard depends on lots of factors

but i would like to say this to you.... If u want to divorce her cause of fraud then i say go for it. but if you want to divorce her cause you two can't get along I say have some patience.... I have some experience in this matters... bringing your love to this country is a very hard and trying thing... lots of adjustments to be made lots of pain to go through.... There is always alot of fights and conflicts.. cause u have your mindset she has hers... and often it's hard to find comprimise.... I assume she has just arrived in the states... U know if you two still have love for each other there is a chance.... It sucks to go through this visa process and invest all your emotions in it to just throw it away.... love is always worth fighting for...... I wish the best for you.... and I hope you find happiness... heres a quote... divorce is rarely the solution but almost always one more problem....

whatever you choose to do just let your heart decide..... best wishes to you

If it's been over 3 years since you've seen him, it's possible they didn't believe the relationship was bonafide.

I didn't get a chance to go there, i was studying.

that doesn't matter.... if you were studying or fishing. in order to overcome the visitation requirement you would have to have a real bonafide reason as to why you should be exempted from it (for which there isn't much of reasons to list)

if you are really interest in this girl and studying gets in the way of seeing her i suggest you drop out a semester and concentrate on her... if you are not that interested in her i would suggest continue studying and drop her... Your choice....

well in your country it may be of legal age but here it is not..... the legal age is 18 as the last time i checked... and this is a free country.. you have your right to think your way everyone has their right to think the other.. and there is a line here that has been crossed. what you are doing is sick.. its wrong.. and i do have to right to point that out just cause you don't like it doesn't mean you don't have to face it.... Just cause you have support of the family doesn't change the morality of it all.. I saw something utterly disgusting that was posted and you expect me to look the other way? don't think so. until she is of legal age i don't think you deserve our help or our support.... after that age then you can deserve it....

we should not contribute to your perversion. we should condemn it....

Wow, errrm, yeah that was honest, not helpful regarding my questions, but honest!

To answer you, my fiancee's entire family together with my entire family are all behind us. They have given their full support to the both of us and are very happy for us. Her father has custerdy of her and has given his full permission for us to get married.

To be honest you have no right to lecture me about my relationship, so I suggest we stick to helping me with my questions if you could.

Regards,

Phil

I hate to sound mean and cruel.. But i am gonna post something that is HONEST..

you are almost 24 yrs old she is 17 yrs old. can't you find somene of LEGAL age to date? I don't think we should help or support anyone who is pursuing uderage children.... I hope and pray your visa is denied. That you are forced to be seperate or at least till she is OF LEGAL AGE... when did you meet her? when she was 15 or 16? I think you are sick. have a nice day. I do hope and pray she will recover from her illness. cause cause it is a hard road to travel on... take my advice look for women not girlz...

I hate to sound mean and cruel.. But i am gonna post something that is HONEST..

you are almost 24 yrs old she is 17 yrs old. can't you find somene of LEGAL age to date? I don't think we should help or support anyone who is pursuing uderage children.... I hope and pray your visa is denied. That you are forced to be seperate or at least till she is OF LEGAL AGE... when did you meet her? when she was 15 or 16? I think you are sick. have a nice day. I do hope and pray she will recover from her illness. cause cause it is a hard road to travel on... take my advice look for women not girlz...

Hi guys,

I was wondering about the I-134 Affidavit of support. As my fiancee (US citizen) is currenly umemployed as she is 17 and currenly at an Eating Dissorder clinic. Her grandma, who she lives with, has said she will be her co-sponsor and I've checked with her and she earns over $25,000 so can support her, my fiancee's father who also lives in the house, my fiance and myself. I've heard that both my fiancee and her grandma as the co-sponsor both need to fill our seperate I-134's, is this true? As my fiance is currently unemployed, has no bank account and no savings, what would be the point in filling out an I-134? What would she put on it?

Her grandma, earns part of her $25,000 from her job and the other from her Social Security, is this going to be a problem? Where would this be put on the I-134?

With regards to question 11 on the I-134 which asks if the person filling out the form intents to make specific contributions to support the person stated in question 3 (which would be me? or when her grandma fills it out would that be my US fiancee? But then when my US fiancee fills it out would that be me? confusing, or is it just me?? lol) or not to make contributions, what is normally put for this?? By earning the money she does, she could support us for a small amount of time, but we has planned on moving to be nearer to my US fiancee's mom. So what would my fiancee/fiancee's grandma put here? My finacee has no money to speak of so she would probably has to put that she does not intent to, but her grandma can, although she won't be as we will be moving after we get married. So it would look BAD if her grandma checked the "do not intent" box, so should she say that she will be giving us say $200 a week for board and food for 3 months?

Oh, one final thing. With my US fiancee being at an Eating Disorder clinic, I know I can mail the form to her to fill in, sign and mail off to myself, but needs to be how is she going to get it notorized? Could she mail it to her grandma, who could get it done by a Doc or at a bank or something (not sure where to get them done in the US as I'm from England), then her grandma can mail it to me. Or does my fiancee have to be present when the form is notorized? Possibly in which case she could get someone from the clinic to do it, one of the psychiatrists or possibly go to the hospital next door and get a doc from there to do it.

Any help would be most appreciated!

Regards,

Phil

i'm about to lose my job.. my wife's interview is a few months away. I know i will be hurt alot for this loss My dad is co sponsoring me he has a job and pension total income is 100k plus a year... will that overcoe my lack of income?also if i'm unemployed by the time of my wife inteview will my dad's income overcome my absense of income? any advice would be apreciated

hiya i got a question....

yes i filed for my wife in philippines we got married (in the philippines(in 2005. we were engaged since 2002.

i have been there to see her four times so far. but my question is this I have been previously married and then divorced... i filed her papers to become a LPR. but it didnt work out she left me for another guy... will this affect my wife's chances to get a visa? Also i'm planning to attend the interview with her in Manila will this help my chances as well? any information would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.....

Some of you know that David's best friend, Gerry, has been very ill... he died today at 12pm Eastern time.

He was a kind and gentle Irish soul who lived a good life and was loved by many people. I was honored to have been a small part of his life for the time that I knew him.

It is SO hard to be away from David right now... it has been difficult these last few weeks to be truly joyful about our wedding plans with all of the conflicting emotions due to Gerry's condition. David has been with him almost every day since he was hospitalized. Our grief is somewhat balanced by the fact that he went peacefully and was in no pain. He was spared much suffering, and for that we are truly grateful.

For those of you who believe in prayer, please remember Gerry's family and friends during this difficult time.

Jen

sorry to hear about your tragedy i know its hard when someone you love or know is very ill.... it is one of the hardest and lowest moments of your lives... there is nothing that can try you more than that trust me i have been through it too. i wish you the best wishes and may this pass from a sad moment to a wonderful memory of a really great person.....

ok this is confusing to me, how do i calculate the household size

ok here is the breakdown

i'm living with my parents in my house which consist of

me

mother

sister

i am divorced, i previously petitioned for my exwife. also i have a son who doesn't live live with my i don't claim him on my taxes but i do pay child support do i claim him as a dependent?

so far i have my dependents as four.. the document says only claim other members of house only if they are sponsoring jointly but the websites say different i'm totally confused anyone have help on this.

also on part 5 #21 letter c it says if you are currently married enter 1 for your spouse.. well if i'm sponsoring my wife do i put zero in this field? if i put one in that field it would be counting twice it looks like to me any help on this matter,.

also lastly employer letter what are the information that they need to put on it.

Thank you for your help in this matter

hi everybody..

I am in USA with k3 visa and I came here last december.

I have a serious question here... Today I came to know from one of my friends that if I dont file AOS before 90 days of my stay here that I wont get GREEN CARD but I can just stay... This is really confusing... I cant understand this 90 DAY thing.. Can anybody explain this to me....

its really urgent..

Ok i'm not sure about the 90 day rule but i do know this, when your k3 visa expires and you have not filed a AOS petition USCIS will deny you an extension, and you will be forced to go back to your home country.

reason

by not filing an AOS petition you show no intention of persuing a green card thus USCIS will deny your k3 visa extension...

what you need to do is immediatly have your spouse file the I-485 petition for you and before your k3 visa expires (i think 90 days before) apply for a extension for your k3 visa so you can wait till your AOS petition is completed processing. Also, try getting help from an immigration lawyer He or she can assist you better in determening the right actions for you to take but be sure before your k3 visa runs out you have that AOS petition filed or you will be in serious trouble