kozuls

Dear ...
Your I130 approved in 40 days mine still not approved since December 2014, many peoples are like me who are waiting for their NO2 and you are crying over your NVC process sounds funny to me.

You had an affair with a married man for 14 years, that should show you right there what his character is. Why would you ever want to marry someone who did this to his family, and what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you? I can tell you right now he never intended to marry you, he was lying to you as much as he was lying to his wife and children. You need to accept the reality of the situation and move on. Now that he is divorced he is enjoying being single and doesn't want to commit to anyone. At least he was honest(for once), Move on, you cannot force someone to want to marry you. He is a jerk for stringing you along for 14 years and for lying to and cheating on his wife. This man is dirt.

It's all well and good saying you want you your family there, you want to give a lot of notice, you need it for school and so on and so forth. That doesn't change the fact that nothing is set in stone. Likelihood of him going into AP, probably isn't very strong. However that doesn't give you the right to just go off on members who are here to try and help. Understandable if somebody was rude but nobody was. You may not like/agree with the answers you get, you just need to realise that theses members are just trying to prevent you from setting yourself up for a fall!!
This is the first very small step in the K1 journey. Let's just hope that from here on out you're able to do this process all but yourself and you do not have any questions. With this attitude there aren't gonna be many that would help. Yelling at people and acting as if you're the only person who wants their family to be at their wedding is not the way to go.
Don't listen to anybody's opinion on here, like you said, your opinion is the best one. How about just listening to the U.S. Embassy, they tell you not to make any wedding plans or non refundable travel plans until you get your visa in hand.
But hey, you know best! Your opinion is best.
Everybody is here to help, no put you down.

And none of the rest of us have families, that are important to us? Wanted them at our weddings? Sometimes, that isn't what happens, in spite of what we want. The Immigration process doesn't give a fiddlers what you want, what you've planned, and they are in no way obliged to meet your timetable. If they decide he is going into AP, that that is where he goes.
You have to try and understand, people here are trying to help you avoid a very costly mistake. If you prefer to believe there is anything whatsoever logical about this process, or that in any form common sense is involved, then off you go.
Sometimes people do not get the answers they want on VJ. Sometimes people are told the correct answers to their question, and that is not what the want to hear, or choose to believe. When that happens they lash out at the very people who are trying to help them. Good luck to you.
And no, if he goes into AP, there is no congressman aid for that, no lawyer can assist, no way to expedite.

Yes, 'we people' give you correct advice not to make plans until visa in hand. Don't post questions if you don't like the correct answers.
You are way over the top calling the members here bitter, judgmental and pessimistic and yelling in caps.
You clearly don't understand what can happen and has happened to other members in your exact situation.
Chances are there will be an approval soon but it is not written in stone.
You can kindly say you will take your chances instead of being so accusatory.
Good luck trying to get help on the rest of the immigration journey with that attitude towards helpful members here.

Yeah I just received an email from Congressman Carter's office that they are transferring a bunch of petitions, so maybe our efforts to raise awareness worked! Who knows, but at least some transfers are taking place, which is a good thing!