DutchmansLady

I text my husband but it's pay as you go and they don't send logs I sent them via e-mail and it didn't show dates, time etc.
The pictures are great we have very few, you can ask your family and friends to write a letters saying they know you both are married have talked on whatsapp like your parents and his (would have to be translated) if hey don't speak English and dated, notorized if you wish but they don't ask for this. I think your good but start doing screen shots now to show something and just explain as you did here. Take everything you can tickets from trips etc, letters, cards everything.
To do a screen shot on your keyboard you will find usually nextto Scroll Lock the key with Prt Scrn/Sys Rq click on that bring up Paint click on Paste left hand top of Paint the screen shot will show up. It will look big if you wish you can make it smaller by clicking Resize where you see Horizontal put in 25 or 50% smaller if that is what you wish then click OK , to save Click above save box will open go to save as, go to Jpeg click on then put it in a folder where you will find it even it it's your desktop. You can send then print it out. Hope that helped.

Soloenta, on 24 Feb 2015 - 05:50 AM, said:
Thank you my precious friend for your lovely words I'm grateful for you. I know I didn't even think of this I was so worried about AP and I think AP would have been so much better. And I feel really horrible that I have driven away people because one they don't know what to say or how to help me and others maybe don't want this bad luck rubbed off on them. I know it's true I've seen them posting on other threads and thats ok as long as they don't need this thread and I'm keeping them away.
Depending if this thread is still needed I'll repost it next month and if not then this is it. No reason to continue a thread just for me if you know what I mean.
Hey lady....we need YOU and the Rant Thread. I think that people are jut busy trying to make sure they have everything right for thier own interviews. From my perspective...I was devastated for you and also thought...ohhhhhhhhhhh %&$# if this can happen to our wonderful supportive Soloenta it can happen to me or any of us. I actually have a shingles outbreak and am not feeling well so that is my reason for not posting so much at the moment. The stress of immigration processes is so hard on everyone and I am not the best at handling it. My body is rebelling and I can just imagine how you are on the edge yourself.
Please dont stop posting and reaching out...you ARE this thread...we need you and you need us so HA!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You have given us sooooooooooooooooooo much please stay and allow us the blessing of being able to support you too .

Soloenta, on 24 Feb 2015 - 05:50 AM, said:
Thank you my precious friend for your lovely words I'm grateful for you. I know I didn't even think of this I was so worried about AP and I think AP would have been so much better. And I feel really horrible that I have driven away people because one they don't know what to say or how to help me and others maybe don't want this bad luck rubbed off on them. I know it's true I've seen them posting on other threads and thats ok as long as they don't need this thread and I'm keeping them away.
Depending if this thread is still needed I'll repost it next month and if not then this is it. No reason to continue a thread just for me if you know what I mean.
Hey lady....we need YOU and the Rant Thread. I think that people are jut busy trying to make sure they have everything right for thier own interviews. From my perspective...I was devastated for you and also thought...ohhhhhhhhhhh %&$# if this can happen to our wonderful supportive Soloenta it can happen to me or any of us. I actually have a shingles outbreak and am not feeling well so that is my reason for not posting so much at the moment. The stress of immigration processes is so hard on everyone and I am not the best at handling it. My body is rebelling and I can just imagine how you are on the edge yourself.
Please dont stop posting and reaching out...you ARE this thread...we need you and you need us so HA!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You have given us sooooooooooooooooooo much please stay and allow us the blessing of being able to support you too .

I wish I could like your post a million times, DutchmansLady!!!
Soloenta, sweetheart, please don't think you have driven everyone away. Everyone loves you so much, and you should know that! Look how many people came back to check in on you, some even months after they have completed this process. You have made a difference and have touched the hearts of so many people. You are truly a special kind of person, that despite your own heartbreaking setbacks, are still able to support and encourage others, not allowing what has happened to you make you bitter or resentful to those that pass through this nightmare of a process with little difficulties. I think many people are not sure what to say to you right now to comfort you. I think a lot of people's natural instinct is to express their sympathies, then allow you some space to process everything as no one wants to upset you more. I also think this thread has become quiet as of recently due to many people finally getting through the NVC process. I can't speak for everyone else, but I can say, that for me, what has happened to you has impacted me more than you would ever know. Having just received our case complete, I am beside myself with joy, yet at the same time, I can't help but feel wrong for it. How can I be happy and feel relief, when you, my sister, are suffering in such great anguish? This has left me with intangible melancholy.
While it may be quiet now, don't worry, I am sure it won't be long before a new group of frustrated spouses will arrive. Just know, there is no pressure for you to continue this thread if you don't feel up to it. I think we would all understand it you withdrew yourself for a while. To be honest, I am very surprised you are still here and up for this after what you have just been through. Yet another reason you are such an amazing woman! If only I had half of your strength and courage! I don't think I would be strong enough to continue to do what you do if I was in your situation. You are a true inspiration to others!

I don't post a lot here but I agree this thread needs to continue!!!!!
I will be honest, it does feel totally ungrateful and insensitive to rant about my 60 day wait when I see the struggles so many others face in this long immigration battle. I do like to read and pray for the families who are hurting, and chime in when I can. It helps pass the time to join others in the joys and in the pains.
Soloenta you are an angel for your concern for others during such a trying and difficult time. I think people will continue to encourage, rant, and complain on here but the shock of your news has us all feeling a little blue and we want to respect your thread. That is the most important thing at the current moment! In a few days we'll move on to March, and I hope you'll continue this forum

Soloenta, on 24 Feb 2015 - 05:50 AM, said:
Thank you my precious friend for your lovely words I'm grateful for you. I know I didn't even think of this I was so worried about AP and I think AP would have been so much better. And I feel really horrible that I have driven away people because one they don't know what to say or how to help me and others maybe don't want this bad luck rubbed off on them. I know it's true I've seen them posting on other threads and thats ok as long as they don't need this thread and I'm keeping them away.
Depending if this thread is still needed I'll repost it next month and if not then this is it. No reason to continue a thread just for me if you know what I mean.
Hey lady....we need YOU and the Rant Thread. I think that people are jut busy trying to make sure they have everything right for thier own interviews. From my perspective...I was devastated for you and also thought...ohhhhhhhhhhh %&$# if this can happen to our wonderful supportive Soloenta it can happen to me or any of us. I actually have a shingles outbreak and am not feeling well so that is my reason for not posting so much at the moment. The stress of immigration processes is so hard on everyone and I am not the best at handling it. My body is rebelling and I can just imagine how you are on the edge yourself.
Please dont stop posting and reaching out...you ARE this thread...we need you and you need us so HA!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You have given us sooooooooooooooooooo much please stay and allow us the blessing of being able to support you too .

Soloenta, on 24 Feb 2015 - 05:50 AM, said:
Thank you my precious friend for your lovely words I'm grateful for you. I know I didn't even think of this I was so worried about AP and I think AP would have been so much better. And I feel really horrible that I have driven away people because one they don't know what to say or how to help me and others maybe don't want this bad luck rubbed off on them. I know it's true I've seen them posting on other threads and thats ok as long as they don't need this thread and I'm keeping them away.
Depending if this thread is still needed I'll repost it next month and if not then this is it. No reason to continue a thread just for me if you know what I mean.
Hey lady....we need YOU and the Rant Thread. I think that people are jut busy trying to make sure they have everything right for thier own interviews. From my perspective...I was devastated for you and also thought...ohhhhhhhhhhh %&$# if this can happen to our wonderful supportive Soloenta it can happen to me or any of us. I actually have a shingles outbreak and am not feeling well so that is my reason for not posting so much at the moment. The stress of immigration processes is so hard on everyone and I am not the best at handling it. My body is rebelling and I can just imagine how you are on the edge yourself.
Please dont stop posting and reaching out...you ARE this thread...we need you and you need us so HA!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You have given us sooooooooooooooooooo much please stay and allow us the blessing of being able to support you too .

Soloenta, on 24 Feb 2015 - 05:50 AM, said:
Thank you my precious friend for your lovely words I'm grateful for you. I know I didn't even think of this I was so worried about AP and I think AP would have been so much better. And I feel really horrible that I have driven away people because one they don't know what to say or how to help me and others maybe don't want this bad luck rubbed off on them. I know it's true I've seen them posting on other threads and thats ok as long as they don't need this thread and I'm keeping them away.
Depending if this thread is still needed I'll repost it next month and if not then this is it. No reason to continue a thread just for me if you know what I mean.
Hey lady....we need YOU and the Rant Thread. I think that people are jut busy trying to make sure they have everything right for thier own interviews. From my perspective...I was devastated for you and also thought...ohhhhhhhhhhh %&$# if this can happen to our wonderful supportive Soloenta it can happen to me or any of us. I actually have a shingles outbreak and am not feeling well so that is my reason for not posting so much at the moment. The stress of immigration processes is so hard on everyone and I am not the best at handling it. My body is rebelling and I can just imagine how you are on the edge yourself.
Please dont stop posting and reaching out...you ARE this thread...we need you and you need us so HA!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You have given us sooooooooooooooooooo much please stay and allow us the blessing of being able to support you too .

Soloenta, on 24 Feb 2015 - 05:50 AM, said:
Thank you my precious friend for your lovely words I'm grateful for you. I know I didn't even think of this I was so worried about AP and I think AP would have been so much better. And I feel really horrible that I have driven away people because one they don't know what to say or how to help me and others maybe don't want this bad luck rubbed off on them. I know it's true I've seen them posting on other threads and thats ok as long as they don't need this thread and I'm keeping them away.
Depending if this thread is still needed I'll repost it next month and if not then this is it. No reason to continue a thread just for me if you know what I mean.
Hey lady....we need YOU and the Rant Thread. I think that people are jut busy trying to make sure they have everything right for thier own interviews. From my perspective...I was devastated for you and also thought...ohhhhhhhhhhh %&$# if this can happen to our wonderful supportive Soloenta it can happen to me or any of us. I actually have a shingles outbreak and am not feeling well so that is my reason for not posting so much at the moment. The stress of immigration processes is so hard on everyone and I am not the best at handling it. My body is rebelling and I can just imagine how you are on the edge yourself.
Please dont stop posting and reaching out...you ARE this thread...we need you and you need us so HA!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You have given us sooooooooooooooooooo much please stay and allow us the blessing of being able to support you too .

Soloenta sweety ...is the denial based on the fact that you only have one photo???? You have been married for 4 years and lived with him in his country for 2 of them....this is so awful and I cant wrap my brain around it.
I keep checking back and hoping it was a big mistake
Please try hard to not get dragged down into despair..there has to be a way to make this right .Praying for you still...(((((hugs)))))

Soloenta sweety ...is the denial based on the fact that you only have one photo???? You have been married for 4 years and lived with him in his country for 2 of them....this is so awful and I cant wrap my brain around it.
I keep checking back and hoping it was a big mistake
Please try hard to not get dragged down into despair..there has to be a way to make this right .Praying for you still...(((((hugs)))))

My Dearest Sis Soloenta. My heart is broke in two. I was searching all over for you. I just want to run to your house and rock you in my arms until your pain goes away. I am so so sorry. I just don't have the words to say. ...........Just tears falling form my face. This one truly hits hard.

Praying for you and your husband Soloenta....keep the faith girl !!! I cant wait to hear the news .....APPROVED !!!!

Praying for you and your husband Soloenta....keep the faith girl !!! I cant wait to hear the news .....APPROVED !!!!

Is your husband going to be able to call you as soon as he is done? I don't want you to wait any more than you have to!! I was telling my husband all about you guys tonight and saying how nervous/excited I am for you, and how I can only imagine how I'll be when our time comes, and of course he sends his best to you guys too.

Soloenta im not sure if im more excited about your process or mine.. lol I peek in and out of here and the interview thread just to see how things are going with you.. im patiently waiting for your husbands interview and praying!! just wanted to say there are more people rooting for you on the sideline as well :)

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh E&G thank you so much for remembering and stopping by I'm so honored to see you and MoBar two that no longer had to deal with this come back for me/us. Thank you so much for your prayers I'll keep this thread open to let everyone know the out come I just hope I don't fall on my face and all goes well.
I must say so far it's been a couple of days full of miracles, first my husband took his new Police Cert to have it translated and noticed they put down the wrong ID number, he got that fixed in an hour and another half hour for translation, he almost hahaa forgot to pick up the hospital records because he was so focused on getting that fixed and today just a little bit ago he went to the place we had are one and only wedding picture together from Oct 2011 and OMG they had it and it's lovely heheheee so, so far so good we have been very blessed and I know it's because of all of your prayers every single one of you. You will all be in my prayers for EVER! Love you all.
Girl love you long time!

Soloenta...you must be one big bundle of nerves, anxiety,happiness and excitement right now. I want you to know that I am praying for a great easy peasy interview and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AP.
You are in my thoughts and prayers....hang in there you are almost done with this craziness.

Soloenta...you must be one big bundle of nerves, anxiety,happiness and excitement right now. I want you to know that I am praying for a great easy peasy interview and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AP.
You are in my thoughts and prayers....hang in there you are almost done with this craziness.

Soloenta...you must be one big bundle of nerves, anxiety,happiness and excitement right now. I want you to know that I am praying for a great easy peasy interview and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AP.
You are in my thoughts and prayers....hang in there you are almost done with this craziness.

Soloenta...you must be one big bundle of nerves, anxiety,happiness and excitement right now. I want you to know that I am praying for a great easy peasy interview and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AP.
You are in my thoughts and prayers....hang in there you are almost done with this craziness.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I don't know how I would have made it through this process if it wasn't for my amazing husband and your continual words of encouragement! <3

Our CEAC Status changed to READY at the US Amsterdam Consulate finally ! I would jump up and down but I am a sickie today...crawling back to bed now ....ugggh.

Check the news... A judge has blocked Obama's executive actions on immigration (temporarily until a lawsuit against him is resolved). So USCIS and NVC will not get backlogged by tons of new cases of illegal immigrants any time soon. No more Feb 18! Hopefully they can now concentrate on the legal immigrants.

Wow today is exactly one year ago that we mailed our Petition off to USCIS ....unbelievable that it has been a year. Our interview is March 5th....and that day cant come fast enough