canusa920

Hey all,
Just needed to vent... Lately I've asked a few questions (which I didn't think were THAT stupid) and I get snotty, and sarcastic replies... I believe this website is here to H-E-L-P people through immigration. Just because you aren't a "Newbie" on VJ doesn't mean you somehow have the ability to treat people like they are lower than you. If you can't respond with a nice, polite response - don't respond at all??? We're all here and in this together, there is absolutely no need to be rude to anyone on here...
Rant done.

You need to first remove you and your children from the situation, google shelters in your area and go to one - explain your situation. Shelters are very welcoming.
Do not tell your husband where and when you're leaving, as this could be dangerous and he could be even more abusive. The important part is getting out!
If you have all the proof of the abuse, definitely file a police report and get a restraining order so he cannot come after you, OR your children.
If you need to talk, I am an abuse counsellor and can talk with you further through private message.
PLEASE get out now, do not wait in worry about your childrens immigrant status - that wont be helpful if something bad happens to you or those kids.

You need to first remove you and your children from the situation, google shelters in your area and go to one - explain your situation. Shelters are very welcoming.
Do not tell your husband where and when you're leaving, as this could be dangerous and he could be even more abusive. The important part is getting out!
If you have all the proof of the abuse, definitely file a police report and get a restraining order so he cannot come after you, OR your children.
If you need to talk, I am an abuse counsellor and can talk with you further through private message.
PLEASE get out now, do not wait in worry about your childrens immigrant status - that wont be helpful if something bad happens to you or those kids.

You need to first remove you and your children from the situation, google shelters in your area and go to one - explain your situation. Shelters are very welcoming.
Do not tell your husband where and when you're leaving, as this could be dangerous and he could be even more abusive. The important part is getting out!
If you have all the proof of the abuse, definitely file a police report and get a restraining order so he cannot come after you, OR your children.
If you need to talk, I am an abuse counsellor and can talk with you further through private message.
PLEASE get out now, do not wait in worry about your childrens immigrant status - that wont be helpful if something bad happens to you or those kids.

You need to first remove you and your children from the situation, google shelters in your area and go to one - explain your situation. Shelters are very welcoming.
Do not tell your husband where and when you're leaving, as this could be dangerous and he could be even more abusive. The important part is getting out!
If you have all the proof of the abuse, definitely file a police report and get a restraining order so he cannot come after you, OR your children.
If you need to talk, I am an abuse counsellor and can talk with you further through private message.
PLEASE get out now, do not wait in worry about your childrens immigrant status - that wont be helpful if something bad happens to you or those kids.

Great tips everyone thank you, and good luck to you all too!!! eeek one step closer

Hahaha thanks Darnell!
I'm thinking a Canadian poutine to celebrate my culture with my American man

Hey all,
Just needed to vent... Lately I've asked a few questions (which I didn't think were THAT stupid) and I get snotty, and sarcastic replies... I believe this website is here to H-E-L-P people through immigration. Just because you aren't a "Newbie" on VJ doesn't mean you somehow have the ability to treat people like they are lower than you. If you can't respond with a nice, polite response - don't respond at all??? We're all here and in this together, there is absolutely no need to be rude to anyone on here...
Rant done.

It is fraudulent with entering with the intention of marrying. It's another thing if she arrived and he popped the question. Arriving with intentions to stay permanently on a visitor visa is fraud. You're essentially applying for a visitor visa to cutt corners on doing things the proper way in accordance to the law.

This seems so wrong and against personal decisions...I just had a newborn and then found out I have a genetic heart condition and have decided it is not worth it to risk having further children since they could end up with the same heart condition...My point is - its a personal decision that is best for you...I would have probably not taken that question lightly, and I'm sorry you've had to deal with that. That is just ridiculous.

This seems so wrong and against personal decisions...I just had a newborn and then found out I have a genetic heart condition and have decided it is not worth it to risk having further children since they could end up with the same heart condition...My point is - its a personal decision that is best for you...I would have probably not taken that question lightly, and I'm sorry you've had to deal with that. That is just ridiculous.