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    hopelessforever got a reaction from Nicoco in Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????   
    Okay so I spoke to his parents who have given up on there son blaming them. They want him to grow up and are embarrased hes staying with someone other than family. I don't believe them, they talk to him daily. I closed our bank joint account he had to 17 dollars. Turned off his indian line on his cell phone. Reported his phone stolen cut it temporarily. I had a job interview and start Mondays. he called me 6 times. From his work. I did not answer. Was intern yelled at by family. But I ignored it. Perhaps instead of running away I confront them head on. I cant afford moving. I submitted all of past case records to uscis and to indian embassy keep on file, of his intentions. I am waiting to gather money to file. If he stays in america wont be my issue or concern. I'm done with marriage or guys. Time to focus only on me. Be selfish.
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    hopelessforever got a reaction from Merrytooth in Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????   
    I just want everyone to know, I found an awesome job/career, that will allow me to support myself financially. I closed our joint account, we had no money, he withdrew it. I turned off his phone. It was under my name and was paid for by me. I realized he had ran up the bill, roaming charges were 100 dollars. Ironic how a person left broke he could do such a thing. I'll be honest I've never been religious started attending church regularly. The job I took is 1.5 hours from my parents. I am happily getting situated . Its not easy, but realizing that cutting off the biggest stress in my life was best. I quit taking depression medication, liberating. I dropped my classes. I could not fathom being around so many people that would pull me down. Seems like I ran away from my problems, but I will be honest I Couldn't face them head on, I'd revert back to him.sounds pathetic.
    for those of you that can relate my real life situation to a bollywood movie:this isn't a movie. Its my life. These tears, heart break, Humiliation is real..in bollywood films the actor realizes he cant live without his wife and comes home happily ever after...this did not end such a way... ..I would never wish this on anyone. Its time to focus on me...
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    hopelessforever got a reaction from TBoneTX in Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????   
    I just want everyone to know, I found an awesome job/career, that will allow me to support myself financially. I closed our joint account, we had no money, he withdrew it. I turned off his phone. It was under my name and was paid for by me. I realized he had ran up the bill, roaming charges were 100 dollars. Ironic how a person left broke he could do such a thing. I'll be honest I've never been religious started attending church regularly. The job I took is 1.5 hours from my parents. I am happily getting situated . Its not easy, but realizing that cutting off the biggest stress in my life was best. I quit taking depression medication, liberating. I dropped my classes. I could not fathom being around so many people that would pull me down. Seems like I ran away from my problems, but I will be honest I Couldn't face them head on, I'd revert back to him.sounds pathetic.
    for those of you that can relate my real life situation to a bollywood movie:this isn't a movie. Its my life. These tears, heart break, Humiliation is real..in bollywood films the actor realizes he cant live without his wife and comes home happily ever after...this did not end such a way... ..I would never wish this on anyone. Its time to focus on me...
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    hopelessforever got a reaction from Asia in Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????   
    Okay so I spoke to his parents who have given up on there son blaming them. They want him to grow up and are embarrased hes staying with someone other than family. I don't believe them, they talk to him daily. I closed our bank joint account he had to 17 dollars. Turned off his indian line on his cell phone. Reported his phone stolen cut it temporarily. I had a job interview and start Mondays. he called me 6 times. From his work. I did not answer. Was intern yelled at by family. But I ignored it. Perhaps instead of running away I confront them head on. I cant afford moving. I submitted all of past case records to uscis and to indian embassy keep on file, of his intentions. I am waiting to gather money to file. If he stays in america wont be my issue or concern. I'm done with marriage or guys. Time to focus only on me. Be selfish.
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    hopelessforever got a reaction from TBoneTX in Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????   
    Okay so I spoke to his parents who have given up on there son blaming them. They want him to grow up and are embarrased hes staying with someone other than family. I don't believe them, they talk to him daily. I closed our bank joint account he had to 17 dollars. Turned off his indian line on his cell phone. Reported his phone stolen cut it temporarily. I had a job interview and start Mondays. he called me 6 times. From his work. I did not answer. Was intern yelled at by family. But I ignored it. Perhaps instead of running away I confront them head on. I cant afford moving. I submitted all of past case records to uscis and to indian embassy keep on file, of his intentions. I am waiting to gather money to file. If he stays in america wont be my issue or concern. I'm done with marriage or guys. Time to focus only on me. Be selfish.
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    hopelessforever got a reaction from David & Diana R in Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????   
    Okay so I spoke to his parents who have given up on there son blaming them. They want him to grow up and are embarrased hes staying with someone other than family. I don't believe them, they talk to him daily. I closed our bank joint account he had to 17 dollars. Turned off his indian line on his cell phone. Reported his phone stolen cut it temporarily. I had a job interview and start Mondays. he called me 6 times. From his work. I did not answer. Was intern yelled at by family. But I ignored it. Perhaps instead of running away I confront them head on. I cant afford moving. I submitted all of past case records to uscis and to indian embassy keep on file, of his intentions. I am waiting to gather money to file. If he stays in america wont be my issue or concern. I'm done with marriage or guys. Time to focus only on me. Be selfish.
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