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    June 2013 I-130 Filers (merged)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

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    My case was transferred month of November2013 and we received an email but its for RFE. We didnt receive the hard copy ,my husband was here in the philippines so we didnt make any move until he came back in US dec 29. They told us they will send the hard copy agsin and wait for 15 days.weve waited and nothing. We called again and they told us to wait fir another 15 days again. 15 days is over again and nothing. I keep on telling to myself to be patient but its so frustrating going through this. Im a Nurse and not working now because of waiting for this visa. sad.png

    Aww :( sad, this is so sad

    Tomorrow is Friday then new Week coming up ! lets Hope for GOod !

    June 2013 I-130 Filers (merged)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

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    There's always going to be challenges and unfair situations (as it may seem) in life and it'll seem like #######, you will feel like #######... Only God knows why things happen the way they do. I agree in that you can not let ANY bad situation consume you. I have been there in feeling crappy. Transferred to CSC 12/9 and still waiting...CSC...who'd have thought... It make me sad, angry, scared, confused, etc...it was consuming me. Can't let that happen though. Spend some time each day to educate yourself on the system, do what you can do, make few calls if you need to USCIS, senator/congressman, write letters, campaign...do what you can and need to...but once done, let it go. You've done your part. Life and why certain things happen is not in our control..it's just how it is. Are you going to live your life depressed, helpless, angry until you get this piece of paper and miss out on what is really important in your life at this point? Your other relationships, your job, the beautiful weather (well cold here lol). There's much blessings in our lives, let's not just get angry that this situation is not going per our timelines. We do what we can...I'm not saying just sit like a duck. But at end of day, let it go. That is what I've learned often in my life...getting angry or depressed that things are not going your way no matter what you do...don't let it consume you. In time, it will make sense. Just have faith. Some of us have to go through a time time, for whatever reason. Learn from it. Use it to learn more about yourself and how to better work through your frustrations, dealings, without loosing sight of big picture and hope. Don't give up and get depressed. Don't let it consume you...

    I am waiting too...Yes every day I have to fight and remind myself not to give in to these feelings...but have to.....

    Agreeed Bro :'(

    Wise words above guys. I know the feeling of not wanting to be helpless; I wanted to do everything in my power, regardless the odds of it making a difference, just so I (and my partner) knew I had done my level best and no stone was left unturned. I needed to be able to say that I tried everything. But at the end of the day, it's important to accept that we do not and cannot control this process. Don't forget that life is still happening, now, every day. It's easy to get caught up in looking toward the future, but you can do things to make the present a happier place. Find what works in your individual lives, and take solace and joy in your spouses. Hang in there everyone -- sending lots of positive vibes out to you all.

    Agreed Bro ! :')

    June 2013 I-130 Filers (merged)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    I understand your angry, but why call them to waste your time? They will only tell you this as this is all they are authorized to tell you....

    They are for sure not at march 8th, this data is 3 months old anyway....

    Eastyo,

    What should we do, ... I am very upset seems like dreams are fading away ...why June was sent to NSC why ??????? who takes this decision ?? Why do they do this why do they have to do this :( .. this is so uncontrollable, Man This is what American Dream is ? ?? my cousin is Permmenet resident and his wife was here in 1.5 years .. it was better to be Perminenet resident, then citizen

    :X

    June 2013 I-130 Filers (merged)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    Ok I called freaking USCIS, and they are like NSC is working to get all the files done, they are currently on march 20 so you have to wait for June ,

    I told the person that July fillers are getting before us and they are like no Sir, CSC at march 8, how can they get before, I

    I can;t explain my feeling right now I pissed mad and Angry I am ... so frustrated ... this is what we call USA ! ... damn :X

    June 2013 I-130 Filers (merged)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    I know I m trying really hard to be calm and try to distract myself as well. But whenever I open July thread 2 3 appovals r there everyday and may and June filers r just waiting without any news at all! It's so frustrating. Only if those idiots do everything in order we could have been on NVC stage by now. It's been one uear since I met my husband. Missed our first anniversary. These r one of the best memories of life. And just because of their broken and messed up system. I am sorry for going on like this but life has just never felt so stuck.

    Hey Samreen we are in a same boat, Hold tight Sista ! we will make it through ! ..... InsHAllah hopes for high ! hope for Good

    NSCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCC DO YOUR JOB OR ELSE I AM NOT PAYING TAXES I SWEAR !

    Nebraska Service Center - 8.5 Month(s) (is it after transfer)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    I got a email from the nebraska service center after I followed up with them which said that it is taking them 60 to 90 days after transfer to process the files. My 60 days will be up next monday.

    Atrain,

    Thats a lot of time brother !

    No no its from the PD date. 60 to 90 days from transfer but even that's a lot sad.png

    Samreen,

    So I have to wait 40 more days Maximum and that is too blindly, with no future ahead :( so tough so so tough !

    Lets hope for Good :(

    June 2013 I-130 Filers (merged)

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    samreen23 and TAandNA as i can see you both are from pakistan may i know what city you guys are located at ?????

    its been 23 days since i got transfer no update yet sad.png should i call them or wait till my 60 days period is over ???? any suggestions ????

    Hey Aka Makaveli, I am from New jersey ! :( and my Spouse is from Hassan abdal ;(

    My Expected Approval date goes to Feb 9 to March 8 ,.... This sucks :'(

    I'm on the same boat brother! NSC feels like a black hole. It will take almost 60 days for an adjudication.

    I hate it I hate it I hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I can feel ya brother, :(

    Same here

    Dear Samreen,

    I can feel yaa :'( My Patience :'( , my dreams, :'( My dreams seems like shattered !

    Same here

    Dear Samreen,

    I can feel yaa :'( My Patience :'( , my dreams, :'( My dreams seems like shattered !

    Same here

    Dear Samreen,

    I can feel yaa :'( My Patience :'( , my dreams, :'( My dreams seems like shattered !

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