Jon and I met online in October 2003 on the Shania Twain Fanclub. We talked as friends for a year and then he came out to visit and meet me in July 04. I was married at the time and realized I was having more than friendship feelings for Jon. I told this to my husband..we decided to seperate and I flew out to San Diego California Sept '04 for a few days. We wanted to make sure what we had was real and not just a fluke. I'm glad to say it was very real and we became a couple the same day I flew in. We've been together 13 months now and were engaged May 16, 2005. I'm currently going through my divorce after waiting a year to file from the point of seperation. It should be final by xmas and then Jon and I can file the k-1 visa and begin our journey to being together.