GYnot

Just to finish this story. We received his green card.  No follow up appointment.  Just waited long enough and it arrived. 

Trust me, I didn't want to be in this position, and I wouldn't recommend it for anyone and based on what was said to me here, I was astounded when my lawyer suggested we might still be able to follow up on this process. I absolutely will keep people updated on what happens.  That's why I replied here to start with.

Finally, Finally, Finally...
We got our approval from USCIS on July 29th. And today a call to the National Visa Center gets me my case number. About f'in time.
Tony

Wow, this process is just a bit crazy. After getting an RFE in early July and responding on the 13th. I checked using the case status page yesterday and we've gotten NOA2. One step closer. The mailed notification should arrive sometime next week. Then it's time to gather new paperwork. I'm hoping we'll get through this in two or three more months.

I checked my status this morning and it has been updated to show that they have received the response.

Response was mailed yesterday at 5pm with priority mail. Was delivered to California at 11:15am This morning I assume California time. I'm curious to know how long after the delivery my stats as reported by my case number will change.
Tony

I used my case number on the 15th and saw that an RFE had been generated on the 13th. It arrived at my house on the 20th. My application is in the California processing center and I live in NY. If you live closer to California then mail time will be less.
I have the response complete and expect to mail it today.

Smaller problems then I expected. Two issues, one was I forgot to fill out the murder and mayhem portion of the I-129F saying I was not now and had never been a violent criminal. That was easy, check the right boxes, sign the form part 1 taken care of. Problem 2, although I checked off question 35 with a NO, we did not use a marriage broker. When I described how we met, I just said, "a website". That was enough to override the "NO" from question 35. So I have been asked to identify the web site that we met on, and provide the "attach a copy of the signed, written consent form the IMB obtained from your beneficiary authorizing the release of your beneficiary's personal contact information to you." Well the website we met on was yahoo chat. So, I've written an expanded answer to question 34A to identify the website and then wrote refuting the conditions that describe our meeting. We exchanged personal information directly. No one was paid for the exchange of information. There was no matchmaker or third party involved.
I think that should be good enough. And my posting in the RFE topic of the exact text got a "I wrote essentially the same thing and it worked for me." So now I just need to send it all back in the envelop provided.