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Novembro

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  1. Still digesting my meal, waiting to eat pies later on. Hubs drinking beers with friends.

    Deciding which under armour color hoodie to buy.

    we went to the outlet mall in eagan today. woof. even though it was later on, still too much for me to handle.

  2. Not as much up on the horoscopes as Darnell, but believe in them to a certain extent.

    I have only dated one British guy ( not a Scorpio), and was in a relationship with a Japanese Scorpio. Bottom line, both were bad at expressing their feelings. Is this to do with nationality or their horoscope signs?

    Bottom line, IMO , most men are dumb, and don't know when they have it good.

    Take a break. Most Scorpio males are extremely jealous and won't go to therapy, due to pride.

    If you want him back, you will get him. Here endeth the sermon.

    He's not a scorpio, I am. Problem one. Problem two? He makes me hate him to the point where I don't want him back.

  3. n-bro - I suggest to you - he's not adjusting well, if'n at all, and is using some soporific method of character presentation to tell all that he's in a snit about it.

    Sometimes, these things get smoothed over by having a gang of Britons nearby, for the friendsies. Does he have any Britons nearby, at all?

    Darnell I have tried my goddamnedhardest to surround him by British people and British things and things he likes and pubs and sports games and food. He actively tries to make me feel bad about this.

    He is only happy when he is on ps4 with his friends from home.

  4. I don't know anything about legal separation, as Texas doesn't have it [my breadth and depth of knowledge on divorce is for Texas, only]

    If'n yer state allows for legal separation, well, study it ! youse a pooter, and the google.

    Sorry you having the probs. I wouldn't wish my probs on anyone, even we share the same birthday !

    I don't want any of it. I'm being rash. But some days, I really can see myself alone. I don't think that's what you're supposed to feel in a marriage.

    I hope you've had a good day though, my dear.

    despite popular belief, people do change over time.

    People change, sure. He doesn't.

  5. Well at least there isn't a kid to throw into the equation.is he willing to move out? How about a trial separation? The holiday season can be especially trying. Take a breather and see how it works out. At least you are in your own country so you will have a better support network than he will.

    Your husband will take time to adjust to a new country, but only you can know whether it is worth your time to put in the extra effort. Marrying someone from a different country is tough. I hope you make the right decision for yourself.

    This makes a lot of sense and reaffirms my thoughts that he is depressed. I don't know what to do though. I am who I am and he is who he is. I'm willing to go to therapy for myself and for us, but he isn't. He won't ever come out-right and say he hates it here.

  6. I only meant somewhere else inside of yer county. You must file within the county where you live, if'n you want continuation of hellfire unleashed (aka divorce)

    I have zero plans to move. This is my home now. This was supposed to be our home. It's bullshite.

  7. Umm. You feel lonely? You get pissed when the other finds a rebound before you do?

    On the other hand you realise how much you really love each other?

    How far a separation are you talking? Separate bedrooms, or different countries?

    I'm about ready to throw the towel in. I know I can't not try to fix it, but I'm so done with it. He's obtuse, rude, and judgmental and I'm pig-headed, independent, and selfish. It's not meshing very well.

  8. That is way better than the constant stream of ones I'd get while going to school in New Haven.... it would be like "girl was pulled into a car this morning and sexually assaulted by several men", "50th time this year a student was held up at knife/gun point". Super safe. You know it is a classy place when the city has installed "gunfire microphones" that send an automatic message to the police every time a gun is fired out on the streets.

    ummmm ####### :wow:

  9. This is the best email to get before 9am:

    Good morning,

    I am writing this morning not to scare individuals but to share recent news information and ask everyone to be on high alert when coming and going from your cars and office buildings.

    Apparently, over the past 10 months (since Feb 23), with the most recent happening late Saturday noc, there have been 3 attempted sexual assaults in the Maplewood and North St. Paul area. (The story is in today’s Star Tribune – Metro section, page B5.)

    In each instance, a man enters the passenger side of vehicles driven by women and brandishes a gun. He then orders the women to drive to a remote location, orders them to undress and then he masturbates, apologizes, and then walks away.

    The suspect in Saturday’s incident is described as a white or light-skinned male, about 30-50 years old, with a thin build. He was wearing a dark-colored hooded sweatshirt and pants, and a dark-colored ski mask with a white stripe. Maplewood police suspect the individual may live in the area.

    PLEASE make certain to lock your cars and make certain to thoroughly scan your environment when walking to and from your car or office building. If possible, walk with another colleague and make certain you are both safely in your vehicles or buildings before departing. If you see anyone suspicious, please call the Maplewood police immediately and then notify your supervisor.

    Thank you,

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