Tayri n Tudert

Independent appraisals by a licensed appraiser ... if you need to go that route!

And why is that?

Thread closed for violations, among other things. Goodbye Z.

Not anymore you're not.

Joining the contest won't hurt you. But according to the rules you've stated, you are not eligible until you have a GC.

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

Ok this ia my last post ever to be directed to you ZAGRAY...
For you to imply that you are on my mind all like that is laughable. I havent even been on VJ for some time now but when I seen your actions here today I became sickened by the fact people like you are even allotted interview slots. All the real couple that could have had your time slot well its just sad.

In my opinion, the questions you thought were hard are questions to which you should know the answers if your relationship is legitimate. I don't believe you'd have been issued a 221g just for wrong paperwork. They'd have told you to bring the correct forms in before they can finalize processing your application. It sounds to me like you've received the 221g because the CO didn't believe in the legitimacy of your relationship. My guess is you won't get another interview for quite some time.

Look Zagray since you came to VJ I knew there was something off about you. They way you claim to love your old lady yet try to sneak in little flirty comments. The way you attack people that tried to help you. I m not one of your fan club members and never will be. I just pray for the older lady you have duped into getting you the willly wonka golden ticket.

I wasnt going to comment until I seen this act of desperation... I mean come on ZAGRAY.. you get banned and make up a new name and come in here wishing yourself the best... i mean really???? This is why I stopped commenting long ago to this guy and his topics. Here's a tip for you playa playa next time choose another letter of the alphabet to exploit maybe L for loser. SMH

HA!

Potty?
Did you just call it a potty?
Seriously?

Well, look at it this way: the smell of blood is not something Z and his fiancee will have to deal with much longer anyway, as her "monthly" will stop very soon (if it hasn't already.)

Omg...well inlovewaiting its very entertaining to say the least haha. I can't even get mad. He's very immature. What do we expect lol one thing for sure, I've never read an interview update so interesting haha. Well I'm glad my bloody stink is finished for the month or I'd see this all in a different bitchy light for sure. Well z you def get a medal for craziest person in MENA. A good fiance? On not sure, but keep this up. I'm entertained.

Wow. lots of guests reading this. I wonder if one of them is from Casa? Not a good move talking how you did Z.
As for talking crazy...ha! I am one the sickest jokesters out there, but would I ever joke about a man's ####### in front of my husband (or about looking at one on here)? Nooooo way. I am just saying that as an example of what you said about blood, breasts and sex, etc. You have to clean up your act a little.

We asked for interview details not what you were looking at during the interview. We wanted to know about questions asked, how you answered, how long it was, etc. I don't think anyone here gives 2 sh!ts about whether or not you were checking out the CO's tits.

Woah, not cool.
Part of being a mature adult is accepting responsibility for our words and actions. There's no doubt in my mind you could have left the breastacle part out and nobody would have felt like they missed an important detail. But, you did it, so now you have to accept responsibility for it.
Sorry, but that's life.

Not one person in this thread called you a scammer.

While yes, many if not most men will check out females other than their wife or fiancee, it's unnecessary to share this fact with everyone. That's not being honest, it's being uncouth and piggish for lack of a better word. If your fiancee finds it cute then share it with her, only. The rest of us don't want to hear the details of your wandering eyes. Nor do we appreciate the comments about women smelling like blood? That's pretty repulsive and quite insulting.

Bye bye now...weren't you going to be leaving and act as though you never knew this forum?

Zagray, please read over the Terms of Service for Visa Journey. http://www.visajourn...m/content/terms A few members warned you that your comments were inappropriate, and instead of listening to their advice, you became defensive. You then made comments that included personal attacks on another member and another that was offensive and misogynist (you can look up the word online), both of which violate the Terms of Service (TOS) for Visa Journey.
There is a difference between speaking your truth so that people can hear what you have to say, and speaking your truth offensively so people react negatively to what you are saying - or how they interpret what you are saying. It is a good thing to be honest, but you also have to take responsibility for your words and the reactions they cause. When you claim that you are completely honest, and then become upset when others who are equally honest with you about your 'honesty', well, you can't have it both ways. You don't need to 'sugar coat' things, but there is always a way to speak your truth without becoming insulting or offensive. Many people claim they are just being honest with their comments when in fact they are really just being lazy- too lazy to bother to take the time to work out how to say what they need to say without hurting or attacking or offending someone else in the process.
Please take the time to 'think' about what impact your words might have when you write them - and change them if the impact is not appropriate. I understand you mean some of your comments in a humourous way, but humour that insults another person or group of people isn't a good form of humour and is something you should avoid. Please remember that this website includes men and women from all around the world as members and chose your words more wisely.

Listen it is just my personal opinion ...I get you on this sometimes it is tough on here but is it more beneficial than not to find VJ.
It is at these times you really dont shine!!!
Maybe that is why some people dont take you serious. That is just gross and immature.

Zagray, I will not feed into your bull ####### here anymore. I am done here with you and I hope others will ignore you as well. You don't deserve VJ and all the respect some of the members gave you. Good byeeeeeeeeeeeee

Zagray,
I guess the lesson well learned here is your poor fiance that you claim to love and miss while having the nerves to say you were "looking at the CO's breast" I hope she finds a man to love her and not a man who is a womanizer. You have showed your true colors here today and I hope others don't find your topic cute and funny.
That was your interview by the way...... Don't expect another one

8 months. Thank God for Skype. What I do notice is that since we have been apart for so long, we have spent time talking, lots of talking. So our comminication is even better and we have gotten to know each other very well. Good communication is one of the best keys for a successful marriage. That is the positive we are taking from this situation.