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You should be blaming the parents who came here illegally with their children in tow. Children who grew up here, went to school here, and are here by no fault of their own. These children want the opportunity to remain in the only place they know as home. Our government has a conscience...I find no fault in that. Obviously you don't know the first thing about this legislation. You are being selfish because it may take your case a month or 2 longer to get through USCIS, oh boohoo. Your case and check being lost has zero to do with Deferred Action.

I don't think you'll have a problem doing the K1 visa. If it would have been a problem, the officer would not have suggested it. In addition, if you were banned completely from the US, they would have told you as well... So no worries, you'll be reunited to your fiancee soon.

Your friend should print any proof of what that woman is doing (FB posts, etc) and as others said get a restraining order or go to police station. If they are not sure of what to do, they should see a lawyer to get legal advice of the best way to proceed with this.
When your friend's husbands ex GF gets the restraining order or sees this is getting out of control...She will cool off.
Hope things calm down.

You friend should take the treats and go to a local court and ask for a restraining order. If the woman doesn't respect it then have her arrested. Usually criminal charges encourages someone to move on.