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JLSBMF

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  1. I know exactly what you mean - we go thru the ups and downs , stupid arguements - lack of patience and wondering day after day when we can finally be together and just start living - sick of the phone glued to my side sick of checking the uscis website. Its 6 1/2 + months since our NOA1 and im so ready for the next stage....

    god help us all

  2. I told her that my life is on hold and I have been offered a new position and cannot make any changes with my employment until i know whats happening with our petition. And I also said if i had a better idea of when to expect the decision I could pin point when to expect his interview and start looking at time scheduling time off. She put me on hold and said she called vermont and we should have an decision by that latest at the end of the month.

  3. If I remember correctly I went thru the automated system first and then stayed on the line and a prompt came up to speak to a customer service rep to report a problem with your case , I spoke to the rep, verified my information and then I asked for a tier two officer , I was given the option of leaving a message or holding. I held for 38 minutes but it was well worth it as the lady I spoke with sounded generally concerned and did not read from a script.

    Good luck!

  4. So I called USCIS and waited 38 minutes for a tier two officer who was so pleasant and helpful - she put me on hold and said she called Vermont and was told my case is with an adjudicator and I should most definitely have an answer by the end of the month.

    I told her which is true i have been offered a new position but do not want to change jobs before I know we are approved and know when the interview will take place so i can arrange my time off.

    today is 193 days - I pray for all of us out there in this boat.

  5. It's completely normal how you feel about it, it's a life changing desicion. I remember how scared I was day night before my then fiance and I submitted our k1 visa. We spent at least a month putting everything together and checking single item. We did this several time just to make sure everything was ok. The night before we prayed holding our package asking God that if this was meant for us, please let us be together as soon as possible. We were concerned cause are case is very special: we are 3rd/4th cousins. I know our blood bond its far but only for being related to each could mean a huge denial for us, but we still kept going waiting for the best. Thanked God everything turned out beyong great, we got our NoA2 4 month later, no RFEs, once our package reached the NVC stage it only took 3 day to be processed and fwrd to the Consulate. It took me 6 month and 3 weeks since we filled our petition until I finally moved to the US. It was quite a journey but you know what? It's worth it. You don't need to ve scared of anything, just be ready. If you notice, since I started my post I always refered the k1 petition as OURS. Actually it's mine, cause my now husband is the USC, Im the beneficiary. But I mean "ours" its because he was as commited as I was to this process. We worked as a team til the end, actually he went to the interview with and he was a great support that day. Im extremly proud of the way we handle al those 6 month and I can granted you this process will make you closer and more commited to each other. There will be times where the whole waiting can be exhausting, but that's when you have to show each other how much you want to be together. Since I started folliwing this website 2 years ago, i'd seen people who made it and people who don't, iron relationships and people where the process, just tear them apart. I think this whole waiting has a reason to be this harsh, so you can know how much you love each other and how much are you willing to risk to be with your loveone. Im not gonna lie to you, it's hard, but the day I ran into my husband arms when I arrived to the airport, that day pay off everything we went through. Now it's been a year since I moved in, and our commitment and our love is stronger than ever. We appreciate every moment together never taking anything for granted. In conclusions, it's ok to be scared as long as your faith remains intact, if you love each other and you are willing to be together, everything it's going to be fine...you will see! God bless you and congratssss!

    your post and story really touched me - I cant wwait for that airport moment - I believe this is a true test of the commitment and faith one can have when they meet that one person who changes everything - as for me in this relationship I have grown so much on every level and finally understand what it truly means to be willing to do whatever it takes to be with the one you love - I just pray for our NOA2 to come soon and for all those out there going thru this journey..

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