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Even though my fiancée was approved at his interview last week I was still walking around in disbelief -
I still was in fear that something might suddenly change and he would be put into AP
But this morning when I checked the CEAC website it said ISSUED!!
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Of course I blacked out lots of stuff on our personal chats but I left the bank statements as is - to me I really did not concern myself with what purchases I made - I simply wanted to show I had enough deposits and funds available to support us - you can however ask you bank for a monthly deposit statement - my bank did not offer that and I could not just print it online they wanted it officially from the bank - it costs me like $45 for one years worth of statements -
Hope that helps -
Jen
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My fiancée was approved without ap two days ago this is what I had ready for him
Certified copies of my divorce decrees
Three years certified IRS tax returns
One year of bank statements
A letter from the bank reflecting my balance
A letter from my employer verifying my dates of employment and salary
A certified birth certificate for myself
One year of chat logs ( I just pulled a conversation from each month and highlighted the dates )
Airline confirmations from each trip
Hotel receipts from each trip
Boarding passes / luggage tags
Gift receipts for the IPad and IPhone I gave him
Photos from each visit dated
Plus certified english translations of all his documents
And of course the I864 - affidavit of support
Of course he took care of his part
Medical
Immunizations
Visa fees and forms , police certificates etc
Hope that helps
Good luck
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here is the consular / interview review
So my fiancee went back for his second interview today and was approved without AP - he said that he was there for over 3 hours and that everything moved very slow. His documents were checked , he was finger printed and the consular reviewed all our proof and asked the following questions - one about our age difference not being the norm in the middle eastern culture? about how his family felt about our engagement? had I met his family ? where I lived ? how we met? how many times I had been married before? where I worked? the dates of my first visit and my last visit, when he proposed and my mothers name? he answered all easily.
She said congratulations you are approved and your passport will be ready next week. He said he was really getting fustrated with everything going so slow and felt like they purposely drag it out.
Either way we are both super excited and so happy he does not have AP
thank you lord again -
I am 20 years older than my fiancee and he was approved today without AP
I truly believe if the relationship is real and you have lots of documented proof
than no worries - i think i over did the proof just to be on the safe side.
good luck
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Hi Ladies
He was approved and without AP -
we are thrilled - excited - numb
I cannot believe after one year of this journey
and two years after we met today he is actually going to
be here with me - no more goodbyes - no more airport scenes
have faith you days will come
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I am sooooooooooo beyond happy
What a journey this has been
My fiancées visa was approved with no AP
The consular said he will have his passport next week
Thank you lord for hearing my prayers
Thank you for the patience only you could give me
Thank you for my friends and supporters here on VJ
Without them I would have been lost probably given up
When I first started this journey no one thought with a 20 age difference we would be approved
And now here I am on the official two year anniversary of when we met I also get this awesome news
I'm shaking
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God bless us all - yes it's very hard - as I type this my fiancée is at his interview and I am up waiting on pins and needles for his call - today is our two year anniversary and its been the most beautiful amazing and difficult times of my life - to live apart from the only one you love - not to be able to share simple things couples take for granted is dam hard. Thankfully I have had five visits in two years but its never enough ....
I filed the petition last September - almost a year later I look back on these long months and know our relationship has been tested many times but here I am minutes maybe from approval inshallah -
Be patient ladies - focus on anything to keep your mind busy - pray ... I pray all the time
Inshallah you will all have your hearts desires ....
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Yikes -what do you mean CEO attitude? I really cant take much more of this
I have provided every possible bit of proof you can imagine
Certified copies of my divorce
3 years certified tax returns
Letter from my bank
1 year of bank statements
Letter from my employer
certified birth ceritifcate for myself
Copy of my passport including all entry and exit stamps for my 5 visits
Airline and hotel receipts , baggage tags and boarding passes
One year worth of chat logs
photos from each trip
gift receipts
plus all his documents - certified , translated - you name it we have it...
Yarubiiiiii please let it go smoothly
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So happpy for you
I cant imagine how excited you are
my fiancee interview is tomorrow and I feel a kid before christmas morning
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Just asking everyone out there for a silent prayer ....
my fiancee has his second interview tomorrow
I just want him here .. just want to start our life together ... no more sleeping with the phone attatched to me side
no more whatsapp - viber and tango - no more waking up and going to bed alone...
please lord bless us with your favor
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Im not saying it will be easy by any means but i have seen it happen here
I am 20 years older than my fiancee - age has never been an issue - we have our interview on the 12th
its a folow up interview to the one we had on June 20th - we had a missing document
i was there with him and have visited 5 times in two years -
we have the proof in the world -
as long as the relationship is real/ solid and you have proof - you have a chance
i was told the same things early on that it would be next to impossible to be approved
my best advice to to visit him - take lots of photos - get his families approval
and pray.
good luck
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Our second and hopefully last interview date is September 12th 2013.
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Hi Donna,
First I want to say that you and your fiancee are in my prayers... this journey is so so hard and really tests the strength of the relationship.
I just like you fell completely and totally in love after meeting my fiancee who is 20 years younger than me online...
six weeks later I headed to Jordan and I have been there a total of 5 times since we met. We started the K1 visa journey last Septemeber and our second interview will be on the two year anniversary of the day we met September 12th.
I faced many many obstacles to get this far and just like you I met many wonderful people on this site who until today still offer support me and pray for us.
when I first posted here about our situation I was bombarded with people telling me there are two many red flags - not to get my hopes up - but i refused to give up and trust me when I say it has not been easy - not financially, emotionally, or mentally but the heart wants what it wants and I truly believe in the end it will be worth it because a love like this comes very rarely.
Without a doubt I could have my pick of men but he is all that I want - the total delight of my heart.
It wont be easy and I have no doubt of the sincerity of your emotions and pray he is just as sincere...but must not take anything lightly, listen to your gut instincts and if you even have one tiny shred of doubt - dont ignore it. I am half middle eastern and it is very rare to find an unmarried man at his age
especially if he is employed - its just not common.
Gather as much proof as possible and if there is anyway - anyway at all you can get to Jordan do it - even one visit can make a huge difference and I totally believe that online - over the phone - web cam - email is fabulous but actually being able to see and spend a few days together will give you the strength needed for the rest of the journey and you will know if your feelings are the same.
I have a friend on this site that only met the man in Jordan who later became her fiancee once for a few hours I believe back in 2010 - no one believed their petition would be approved but it was and their interview will be in early septemeber.
I know its expensive and very far and I dont know the extent of your disability and I understand your fear of a foreign country - but the jordanians are very kind people , the new airport is very easy to manage.
Please feel free to message me if you have any questions or just need to talk - I am here for you...
god bless you
Jennifer
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I just wanted to give everyone an update - it feels like forever since i have been on this site.
Our interview had to be rescheduled becuase my fiancee did not have the correct poilce certificate/document he needed.
It really upset me that he didnt double check everything before i arrived in Amman , he had been sick with a bad chest cold and I guess just was out of the loop.
this whole process has been very stressful on us - our relationship has been tested to the max but I know we will make it.
our interview was on June 20th and they were very friendly and kept the majority of the documents we submitted, he never got to speak to the consul directly.
the first interview appointment they had open is September 12th - that really surprised me but I guess in the summer months the embassy is swamped.
the good news is Septemeber 12th is our two year anniversary so I am hoping it will be good luck.
I wish everyone luck on their visa journey and cant wait to update our timeline as approved
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Our interview was scheduled one month after the consulate received our case so just keep checking to see when it arrives in Amman.
Good luck to you both .
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not true at all, I know several in amman that did not have AP. Their passports were kept at the interview, and sent back within days with the visa. I get a kick out of people who comment about an embassy or country they know nothing about
Hi honey - I got a kick out of it too - some people think they are complete experts when every case is unique .... Your advice has always been on the mark ...will post good news inshallah tomorrow .
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Hi there jlsbmf .. yeah sure i will keep you both in my prayers and hope your interview will be going fine and yeah hsmza is mt best friend and i was the onr who helped him so much to get his papers done and yeah he was approved on may 15th and hes there in the states now and they both so happy and glad for tgem both .. and thanks for the reply and for the positive words .. keep us updated as i will keep you all updated when my ap is over ..
I'm so happy to know he is in the states and they are happy - I will update everyone tomorrow with good news inshallah - today just getting all our papers in order - dont lose hope inshallah all will be well .
Hi there jlsbmf .. yeah sure i will keep you both in my prayers and hope your interview will be going fine and yeah hsmza is mt best friend and i was the onr who helped him so much to get his papers done and yeah he was approved on may 15th and hes there in the states now and they both so happy and glad for tgem both .. and thanks for the reply and for the positive words .. keep us updated as i will keep you all updated when my ap is over ..
I'm so happy to know he is in the states and they are happy - I will update everyone tomorrow with good news inshallah - today just getting all our papers in order - dont lose hope inshallah all will be well .
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Kristina and I stayed in contact and yes they were approved without AP - and with having an age difference .just good luck to us all ..
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If you look at recent amman approvals you will see Kristina and hamza were approved on a K1 may 15th with no AP.
it's all in gods hands ....
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God bless you both - I will pray for you - I cannot fathom waiting that long - it puts so much stress on the relationship -
Don't lose hope - trust me your time will come - and when it does your will feel a happiness unlike anything you can imagine -
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I am back with my love in Amman for his interview - so excited - so happy - so thankful to god to have this time with him - he is my world - praying and asking for all prayers that we are approved without AP.
after reading the last post about an interview at the consulate in Amman - I'm really nervous ...
We are so prepared ....I'm going to be strong - have come so far on this journey ...
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I'm so sorry you had this experience - our interview is in two days - I am praying all goes well with your case an your AP is not long .
As for us I am putting all my faith in god - he knows our hearts - this is my 5th trip to Amman since we met in September 2011 -
Allah Kareem - inshallah Khair for all of us -
Coping with the separation
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His visa was issued today
Im so happy - cannot imagine what I would have done if he was put in AP.