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So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

So agreed with you.... Immigrating to the US is a big dream for a lot of people out there, and such interview processes should not be trivialized or downplayed.

Correct, it is... somewhere in this cyber-world there are interviewers reading these post.

Correct, it is... somewhere in this cyber-world there are interviewers reading these post.

Totally inappropriate....
- looking at her breasts - when she had paid you respect and you do this to the interviewer?

Agreed. The comment about the CO's breasts shows the lack of respect for women and general inappropriateness that, I think, we've all grown to expect from Zagray.
Zagray, while I've tried to be supportive of you, I can see that you really aren't taking this visa seriously. Not only that, I don't feel you take your relationship very seriously either. But it's your life and if your fiancée finds your egotism and misogynous ways charming, well I can't say that I pity her for how this will all play out.

Zagray,
I guess the lesson well learned here is your poor fiance that you claim to love and miss while having the nerves to say you were "looking at the CO's breast" I hope she finds a man to love her and not a man who is a womanizer. You have showed your true colors here today and I hope others don't find your topic cute and funny.
That was your interview by the way...... Don't expect another one

I printed mine using COPY-Paste on word doc.

Really? Damn the idiot that made the movie? Although what he did is just stupid, vandalizing properties and killing people isn't the best reaction. It is disrespectful to our community AND yours. Now YOU can't get can't continue with your visa process in a timely manner. If your mindset is to blame an idiot and not the many criminals, stay in your country then.

Damn the idiots who go on and kill people, that would be more appropriate thing to say....

Wow!! how can you assume this merely because it didn't happen to you. Our petition was submitted in March, complete with G-1145 form. We didn't receive an NOA1, and the check wasn't cashed till May. By then, we were frantic. It has taken some unravelling but it appears that our petition was split up and sent to several places. It HAPPENS !!!!!!!
OP, do not assume that your USC partner is at fault. Get them to follow up and ask to speak to a Tier 2 person at USCIS. There are several other people that have posted recently that didn't get an NOA1, the system is in a mess.
Best of luck... don't automatically doubt your fiance. Also, the Case Status is unreliable. In many cases the status never leaves INITIAL REVIEW. Updating of this is not a priority and many people have been approved and beyond and their status has never changed from Initial review. By all means check with USCIS with a Tier 2 person before accepting what you have been told on this thread. Believe me, its not unusual for this to happen... best with your process..

oh no not your papa....you go girl...do everything to "FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE"....god bless

While doing some research on various personality disorders I found this bit of information that I thought was interesting. It helped me understand a bit more why some people stay in abusive situations.
Hoovering
Definition:
Hoovers & Hoovering - A Hoover is a metaphor, taken from the popular brand of vacuum cleaners, to describe how an abuse victim, trying to assert their own rights by leaving or limiting contact in a dysfunctional relationship gets "sucked back in" when the perpetrator temporarily exhibits improved or desirable behavior.
Description:
The Hoovering metaphor comes from the popular Hoover brand of vacuum cleaners. Hoovering describes how a non-personality-disordered person, while attempting to escape an abusive situation, gets sucked back into the status quo.
Hoovering commonly occurs:
After an emotional outburst, violence or other extreme period of abuse when the victim is most likely to leave, retaliate or seek help from others.
When the victim starts to pull away from the relationship, leave the relationship or establish firmer boundaries within the relationship.
When the abuser internally feels unworthy and fears the loss of the relationship.
A hoovering abuser may shower their victim with gifts, compliments, promises, demonstrations of love and affection in order to persuade the victim to maintain the status quo.
Hoovering is one of the key components of an Abusive Cycle. Without Hoovering, most abusers would be living alone. Hoovering is the "plus side" to many abusers that makes an abusive relationship seem worthwhile to many victims and sustains abusive relationships over the long term.
Hoovering requires two willing parties to be effective: the person doing the hoovering and the person being hoovered, who allows themselves to be abused and then sucked back in.
What it feels like:
Hoovering feels good! And that's the point! When you are being hoovered, your buttons are all getting pushed, your feelings are getting validated, your needs are being met, your wildest dreams are coming true, your opinions matter, you are the most important person in the world to that certain person.
Hoovering often feels like vindication. You might find yourself thinking “Finally! The message is getting through! I’m not crazy after all! Now THAT is what I’m talking about!” But watch out...
When you are starving for any emotional food, just about any kind of personal validation tastes wonderful, but you must remember that not everything that tastes delicious is nutritious.
Manipulative abusers are often adept at giving their victims enough of what they want to keep them where they want them. Even slave owners know that they have to feed them enough to keep them healthy and productive.
But how do I know if a hoover is 'real"?
Many Non-personality disordered people struggle with trying to tell whether a hoover really is a hoover, or if it is a sincere attempt at change by the personality-disordered person whom they care about.
The mistake in that logic is that it assumes that it can't be both. Many abusers and personality-disordered people really are sincere and really are trying when they also are hoovering. People who are hoovering you may not be consciously trying to manipulate you or deceive you. They may sincerely be trying, even hoping, to make it "better this time". They may not be consciously lying when they make promises of change and put them into practice. They may be so convincing because they are so convinced.
You are going to have to be like the adult in a parent-child relationship, who listens to their child's black-and-white promises of great expectations or of "I'll never talk to him/her again" and says "Hmm, we'll wait and see".
If you're not sure if you're being hoovered you should wait and see. Take the long-term view. A person's character is like an average of their behaviors over their lifetime. People can and do make positive changes in their lives sometimes, deciding to change their behavior for the better. Wait a year and see.
Coping with Hoovering:
If somebody who has been treating you abusively starts to treat you well, there's no harm in letting them knock themselves out and give yourself a break, but you must be careful not to take the bait to erode your boundaries, settle for less than you deserve, stop doing things that are healthy for you or stop exercising your own independence.
What NOT to do:
Don't change any of your boundaries or allow them to be broken during a hoover.
Don't relax or give up on any consequences of previous poor decisions for the abuser.
Don't stop any healthy activities or relationships you may be engaged in elsewhere.
Don't assume the hoover will last forever.
Don't use a hoover to bargain for a better life. You are setting up the abuser to break a promise and setting yourself up for a disappointment.
What TO do:
Remember that mood swings are a normal part of a number of personality disorders and that what goes up must come down.
Accept that highs and lows are a part of everyone's emotional life and that, for a personality-disordered person, those may be more intense and lead swings in behavior.
Maintain all your healthy lifestyle habits and relationships with others.
Take the long-term view. Wait a year.
Get yourself off the roller coaster. Position yourself so that your safety and happiness isn't dependent on a personality-disordered person's mood.

She can only get a green card through her husband who filed the K-1 for her.
It would be fraud for her to get a green card at this point as she no longer has a bona fide marriage.
She needs to get a divorce.
She needs to return home.
You need to file for a K-1 fiancée visa.
There is no way for her to become legal by staying and marrying you. She can only become legal through her K-1 petitioner husband.