Paul&Oxana

Vermont service center, 24 Of February 2023

i got NOA on the 25 of February for my parents.

God no! They have everything the same

Oh my God! I wish you guys soon recovery ! Yes she is vaccinated and boosted. 

Hi everyone,
The reason I've decided to post in here is to get more advice from you guys.
I married a USC in 2010. I got my 2 year GC. We didn't date long, like 5 months, before getting married and apparently is my not fortunate part of it. My husband had a divorce 3 years before we got married and he was left all with nothing and in mess. He was working very hard to keep himself in track. We got married because he wanted to start a new life and I was sure this is the one... and all worked out until we start bringing more money home. 2 people working full jobs for sure is better than 1. But more money also changed his behaviors I guess, he started to drink- heavily. He started being verbally abusive when I tried to addresse the issue. Then for a period of time I manage him to calm down after going to rehab classes.
When the 90 days period came, we file the ROC. This was in Feb 2013. Then one day while being at work (I work for a busy resort store out of state for the summer time) I was told by my husband "I found someone else and she's moving with me ". So all this "bs" while you try to make a living. I pushed him to pay the debts on child support, I asked him to fix back his driver license etc....didn't care anymore. Desperate me, and in a situation you don't know what to do, very stressed was hoping something will change. Apparently not. Because soon when I wanted to return to what's called home, he said there is nothing here wainting for me. In the meantime I also received an RFE which my lawyer said we need to respond by certain time and we did.
So all these together feels like the world turnned around against me.
So with the situation created my questions will be as follow:
If I filed for ROC as married and responded to my RFE. What is to do now. Can I divorce him?
In case we are called for an interview, he's not gonna show up (I know for sure) what do I do? Can I go by myself and explain them what happened?
Do people file for a waiver after filling the ROC?
Anybody who knows simillar situations please advice.
Thank you.

Hi everyone,
I'm look for people's opinion/experience with contacting their congressman for help. We are currently 196 days or 6 mo and 14 days, which is clearly past the stated 5 months goal, however, USCIS does not think so. I have already drafted the letter to send to my KY congressman (Rand Paul). My fiancee is worried that asking for congressman help may actually make things worse. Does contacting your congressman really helps? Or are we better off to just patiently wait for NOA2? I really feel helpless here, I want to do something to help our case, but there is just not much you can do. BTW any one contacted Rand Paul office before? are they helpful? outcome?
Thanks everyone!

my heartfull thank you to all who encourage me to this journey! we got approved this afternoon my hubby received a text and I cant stop crying in happiness. Me and my baby will be with my hubby this Christmas.. Indeed God is good!

My wife from Ukraine wishes to change her maiden name on her passport to her new married name.She was told by her mother in Ukraine that she needs to Have an Apostille. Can someone enlighten me on this .....What it is and where to get it. Thanks in advance.