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    RS_0812 got a reaction from GoodGod in RFE due to insufficient evidence of divorce...   
    Has anyone had an rfe for insufficient divorce proof or supposedly sending in the divorce nisi vs the final decree, which I know I did. What did you do to correct this?
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from ipatientlywaiting in PERU: IMMUNIZATIONS - VACUNAS..   
    for others that might see this thread.. She ended up having her immunizations done the same day of the medical check. Since she had no records they gave her three which cost S/.370.
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from butteredtoast in PERU: IMMUNIZATIONS - VACUNAS..   
    for others that might see this thread.. She ended up having her immunizations done the same day of the medical check. Since she had no records they gave her three which cost S/.370.
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from TnJ in Cancelling sponsorship and feelings.   
    Food for thought, to those that are in a similar situation, as I was.



    NO, I will not post my story here, what brought me to this point. Suffice to say we had many problems as a marriage and we both had our fault, but at some point one needs to decide is it really worth the constant fight(ing), stress and what is best for oneself. I just have this feeling that something was not right and I needed to move on.



    This is coming from my perspective, but it can apply to either gender as a USC sponsor, petitioner.



    You are not a man, woman.

    You have no respect for others or yourself.

    You are gay.

    This was all planned.

    You are a liar.

    You are so insecure.

    God sees this and you will pay.

    Just because the marriage failed you do not need to mess up her/his chances.

    You are a failure, that is why your first/second marriage failed, because of you.

    As an act of good faith, your love for her/him let the visa process continue.



    If you have been told any, all or similar comments as the above DO NOT feel bad for what you are doing. DO NOT feel bad for opening your eyes and deciding to move forward without that person whom you thought was going to be with you for the rest of your life. If you truly know that you did all you could and feel, or even better have proof that the bene was/is just using you for that green card, for access to better schooling, better medical treatment, whatever reason other than being with you, DO NOT FEEL BAD!!!



    You are doing the right thing, first for your own well-being and peace of mind, secondly it IS ILLEGAL/FRAUD if you let the process run its course for any reason, knowing you are no longer with the bene.



    NO one is perfect we all have our faults, one should do ones best to work on the marriage as it does take time, patience and even more-so in our situations,. For me at some point one has to decide what is best for your health, sanity, as hurtful, sad it may make one and, or others.

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    RS_0812 got a reaction from kamw in Cancelling sponsorship and feelings.   
    Food for thought, to those that are in a similar situation, as I was.



    NO, I will not post my story here, what brought me to this point. Suffice to say we had many problems as a marriage and we both had our fault, but at some point one needs to decide is it really worth the constant fight(ing), stress and what is best for oneself. I just have this feeling that something was not right and I needed to move on.



    This is coming from my perspective, but it can apply to either gender as a USC sponsor, petitioner.



    You are not a man, woman.

    You have no respect for others or yourself.

    You are gay.

    This was all planned.

    You are a liar.

    You are so insecure.

    God sees this and you will pay.

    Just because the marriage failed you do not need to mess up her/his chances.

    You are a failure, that is why your first/second marriage failed, because of you.

    As an act of good faith, your love for her/him let the visa process continue.



    If you have been told any, all or similar comments as the above DO NOT feel bad for what you are doing. DO NOT feel bad for opening your eyes and deciding to move forward without that person whom you thought was going to be with you for the rest of your life. If you truly know that you did all you could and feel, or even better have proof that the bene was/is just using you for that green card, for access to better schooling, better medical treatment, whatever reason other than being with you, DO NOT FEEL BAD!!!



    You are doing the right thing, first for your own well-being and peace of mind, secondly it IS ILLEGAL/FRAUD if you let the process run its course for any reason, knowing you are no longer with the bene.



    NO one is perfect we all have our faults, one should do ones best to work on the marriage as it does take time, patience and even more-so in our situations,. For me at some point one has to decide what is best for your health, sanity, as hurtful, sad it may make one and, or others.

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    RS_0812 got a reaction from 888888 in NOA2... A little overwhelmed   
    We had our interview on the 23rd of January and we did not send anything to the Embassy, until AFTER the interview since we were missing the medical results. We brought our paperwork in hand on the day of the interview i.e proof of ongoing relationship(pictures, skype history, emails, hotel and other receipts), current letter of intent to marry one from each of us, copy of my paystubs for the previous 2.5 months, copies of my tax returns for the past 2+ years,i-134, DS156, DS156k forms... As the other poster replied look at the guide, flowchart and FAQs those helped me.
    Take a few DEEP breaths and "enjoy" the final steps of this process, you are almost there.
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from EminTX in New Journey Started   
    Good luck!! If you CAN don't track it soo much it's like watching paint dry it takes time and not always the same amount of time.. haha
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from HollyandSim in New Journey Started   
    Good luck!! If you CAN don't track it soo much it's like watching paint dry it takes time and not always the same amount of time.. haha
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from del-2-5-2014 in marrying at exactly90th day   
    Why put yourself in such a situation with less than a week to file whatever paperwork may be needed to prove your marriage? I just do not see any logical reason for doing so. I would marry at least 14 days before the deadline at the latest, but that is me.
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from Eyitemi in found out my husband has other children....   
    As an innocent bystander, I feel bad for YOU and applaud you for your patience/understanding to say the least! at this point you have invested time, emotions, money, life and whatnot then this springs out of nowhere. This is not the best thing to say, but what else is not being put on the table by your spouse? I wish you the best and well!!
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from Lisamarie in found out my husband has other children....   
    As an innocent bystander, I feel bad for YOU and applaud you for your patience/understanding to say the least! at this point you have invested time, emotions, money, life and whatnot then this springs out of nowhere. This is not the best thing to say, but what else is not being put on the table by your spouse? I wish you the best and well!!
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    RS_0812 got a reaction from N M in found out my husband has other children....   
    As an innocent bystander, I feel bad for YOU and applaud you for your patience/understanding to say the least! at this point you have invested time, emotions, money, life and whatnot then this springs out of nowhere. This is not the best thing to say, but what else is not being put on the table by your spouse? I wish you the best and well!!
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