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  1. i wrote in my responds some pages ago i been there. 18years young all alone in a strange country and emotional and physical abused.

    so trust me i know how it is and thats why i get offends about it when i think someone makes more to the story then there is.

    earlier i send u links for shelters in cali, and i also wrote that u always can call them and ask them for advice or go see someone they really helpful with everything.

    i also send u a link from the uscis if u wanna file aos on ur own and ur husband abuses u then there is VAWA.

    cuz what u wrote at the beginning sounded like abuse, and then u backed out of it. if u want help and have a better life , change it. help and options are out there.

    if u wrote that u said to them u were 24 weeks pregnant, my bad then. but still u must have had a tiny belly then.

    i offered u to ask my friends about specific military stuff if u have a question about it, but i just got a real weird personal email from u. what should i do with that?

    im out of this now, cuz i dont believe u. i tried to help u, give u links and options. u come up with excuses why u cant do this and that.

  2. So again about this paper with my explanation about the arrest. What if it's not on record? I mean you all probably saw this online site where you can check everybodys records. Just wandering if in any way I should not put the information about my arrest? What's best for me? Or this record can be still seen somewhere even if it's not online? And if I put the explanation, what do I write?? Date, what happened, arrested, let go. Or should I put the whole story (my side or husband's side??). How exactly do I fill that thing?

    u file it honest thats the best way to go with the uscis. always be honest in ur petitions. and explain in a short way what happened : like were arrested charges been dropped.

    u should can go and get the police record for ur arrest. so then u know what it says and can go by that.

  3. yeah i notice and i notice a lot of other things as well. u ask questions and ppl here give u their honest opinion . but with anything ppl give u , u responds with excuses and ur story doesnt add up..so ppl are wondering and ask u about it.

    i wrote that i have a lot of friends in the military and also married couples in the military and if u have specific questions i can go and ask them about it.

    u wrote this : I mean I was 38 weeks pregnant. so that what i went by. so nothing about 24 weeks.

    24 weeks is like 6months not 9months. thats what i mean it doesnt add up.u say one thing and then another. thats why its fishy to me.

    Under IATA guidelines, pregnant women can be allowed to fly depending on their past history, number of foetuses carried and weeks of gestation. For example, an uncomplicated single pregnancy may be accepted in weeks 36 to 38, if the flying time doesn't exceed four hours. . most airlines need a statement from your doctor. cuz its an insurance liability. most of airlines dont even take pregnant woman after 32weeks.

    and the english thing i dont care where u learned it, i just dont like when ppl arent honest.

    honey i learned english real fast and im very well at it. but u cant just learn english by tv and movies . and talking to doctors with medical terms is way more complicated. so u said once ur english was bad and now u say ur english is good. so now u can explain things to a lawyer and cops .

    honestly this didnt even made any sense to me : Yes I already saw one lawyer, after that my husband found out about it because it was navy lawyer, so he called his command to ask why he doesn't give us money. He also said your husband is paying for rent and for food once in 2 weeks so it's no reason to complain. But we didn't have money for diapers and bus.

    cuz what u discuss with ur lawyer is confidential. so u gave ur lawyer the ok to call ur husband???

    so he is paying rent but no money for diapers and bus?? a bus drive in cali cost like around 1.50 or sometimes just 0.70cent for short distance.

    thats what i mean i give u some ideas like with the bus u shut it down with i dont have 1.50 to ride the bus. what about ur friends they could drive u??

    ok call me what u want, but i stand by it that ur story is phony, maybe their is some truth to it.but not the whole thing. i dont mind calling u out on ur BS.

    be straight and honest.

  4. ........................................................................or wife :rofl:

    or that lol... but it would be great if u could update us on it. cuz ppl are here to help and curios how it played out and if their advice was helpful or not.

    i dont know whats up here but thats like the third or fourth thread i read this week,what sounds sooo fishy. whats going on with ppl lol..

    i just know this side is amazing helped me so much thru my k1 process and now aos process.so im more then happy to help ppl when i can. and others are always so helpful here. so i just dont like it when ppl do lie about stuff and are fishy.. not saying he is.maybe or maybe not who knows. (guess vented a lil bit here lol hihihihih uhps sorry lol )

  5. ok OP whats the deal here?? everyone gives you advice on what to do?? other ppl said already be honest on ur petition , so yes say u were arrested.

    ppl gave you advice for what to do if you wanna leave. there are sooo many organizations you can go to ( and u have a computer so you can do sooo much research on it). you can call them send them emails they are really helpful.

    http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=b85c3e4d77d73210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=b85c3e4d77d73210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD

    http://www.womenshelters.org/sta/california

    so why u dont call and ask for more information and what choices you have.. and i never ever heard about a court taking the child away from the mother. they just do it under real hard circumstance. like if you are abusing ur child, are on drugs and stuff like that. so he has to proof to the court of law that u are not a fit mother. not the other way around.

    im just curios do u want ur child to grow up in a hostel environment?? dont u want the best for ur child and happiness??

    im going to be honest here with you. i dont believe you. cuz if you wanna stay with ur husband why u talking evil of him here then?? you said u have friends and they believe ur side, why they not helping u then??? if he didnt helped you to file the aos papers in 2 years he wont do that. u never thought about it earlier that he doesnt wanna help you. and u said he cheats on u and didnt care if u leave. so why should he care now and be worried you could leave when u have ur status. it doesnt make sense. he gives you a computer so he knows u can find out stuff bout ur situation. he lets u go out with friends and let u go the doctor alone with ur child. so u could leave any minute. again doesnt make sense. and really u not allowed to fly after the 8months of ur pregnancy. cuz the pressure can bring u in early labor. what airline let u on the plane???

    i lived for some years in cali what base is he working for?? i have a lot of friends in the military and i easy could go and get some advice for you how the law is with military.

    you wrote on one of ur post : I just hope I can fill all the papers and then have one of his friends around to show it to my husband and ask him to sign what he needs to sign. He will not say no to this in front of his friend. This is my secret plan.

    so why u dont do that then. if you have already a secret plan??

    im curios if u have any contact to his family??? if so they maybe they willing to help u with it.

    you also wrote is hard to get to appointments with a lawyer , does it mean u went and saw a lawyer already or talked to one??

    with ur english its fishy cuz in some post its so freaking perfect and that, u dont learn from watching tv and movies. and then in others u make simple mistakes with the grammar and spelling. strange dont u think???

    this is a study who has been done by thomas and collin.

    1. Students ages 8 to 11 years old with two to three years of native language education took five to seven years to test at grade level in English.

    2. Students with little or no formal schooling who arrived in the United States before the age of 8 took 7 to 10 years to reach grade-level norms in English language literacy.

    3.Students who were below grade level in their native language also took 7 to 10 years to reach the 50th percentile. Many of these students never reached grade-level norms.

    These data held true regardless of the home language, country of origin, or socioeconomic status.

    they did it on kids cuz the brain is more capable of learning new things and languages FASTER then from grown ups. if u not a freaking genius with an IQ of 150 to 200 or be a mensa genius.

    i went to college in the states took professional english classes in school, i worked in the states b4 in a office where i had to use proper english, i had also, back in germany, for many years english classes. and still sometimes its hard to use the right grammar and spelling in the proper way. if u learned that good english from tv and movies u one for the books.

    you also can apply alone without him for a SSN and can open a bank account alone with no GC in cali. all u need is ur visa , passport and ssn. u also can apply for a driver license without him. i have done it in cali in the past. u also can go and use the bus if u have to leave the house, since u have a computer u can check the schedule online.

    why u dont just come forward and be honest?? ppl here still would help u.

  6. i dont know if ur story is true or not.i honestly have some doubt. cuz u asked for help and many ppl here gave u some advice and links and ideas what to do. and somehow u come up with an excuse in every reply.

    emotional and physical abuse is something serious and nothing to joke about. i was in an abusive relationship b4. so i know it is when someone takes ur freedom away from u.

    but there is always help.

    so if its true then go take ur child and leave go to a woman shelter there are sooo many in cali. they can help u with laws, translation, everything.

    so i dont quite understand why u dont leave him???

    and with ur english , that's a tricky one i came to the states when i was 18. with a really bad school english and took some esl classes at a college.

    and now im writing in slang and shorts. so it takes a really long time to learn proper english, even with professional help.

    so if its all true i don't doubt anyone wouldn't want u to help here.. everyone in this forum is very helpful. if its not true really shame on u for wasting our time and making up a story with something this serious.

  7. hi again..

    i was curios about something. when u get the letter from ur I-765 for your biometric appointment. do they send your right a appointment or do you have to call them and make one??

    and when do they send you the appointment with a letter what is kinda the time frame on getting the letter to the appointment? do they give you some time between the letter and the appointment or is it on a short notice??

    thank you for your input :):) :)

  8. hi lene.

    also dein verlobter reicht den antrag bei uscis ein. er fuellt die I-129 aus

    hier ist der uscis link: http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=a10e4154d7b3d010VgnVCM10000048f3d6a1RCRD&vgnextchannel=db029c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD

    lest euch bitte ganz genau die instructions durch :)

    hier ist ein step by step guide von dieser website : http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1guide

    dort steht halt alles ganz genau was er braucht um die petition abzuschicken. :)

    hoffe das hilft dir ein bisschen weiter :)

    kannts mir sonst auch gerne schreiben wenn du fragen hast :)

    viel glueck

  9. I only put " U.S. Department of Homeland Security " in the pay in order to line on money order.

    hi we send out money order as well, and on the uscis webiste it says : If you live in the United States or its territories, make the check or money order payable to U.S. Department of Homeland Security (not "USDHS" or "DHS").

    so it should be all fine with ur money order :)

    good luck on ur process

  10. When/If you change your address to a PO Box just make sure to make it very clear that you need everything send o the Po Box.

    We can't receive mail at our physical address, so we already had the PO Box anyway. Apparently we didn't make it clear when we sent the paperwork in, so the first few things were sent back to USCIS as undeliverable, which caused us quite some stress and (as far as I can tell) a bit of a delay inthe whole process.

    PM me if you have any more questions :-)

    hi ines. yeah we did it now a little different. because we werent sure if the uscis sends documents to a po box. so our mail office herein town holds our mail for 30 days ,we can pick it up anytime and after the 30days we can add another 30days. and by then we moved to a new place were we both on the lease and give the uscis our new address...but thank you for ur responds :)

  11. hi ppl..

    i have a quick question. so we send out our aos and got today out email notification that everything is in progress and that we gonna get our noa1 and information for the working permit via mail .

    so the issue we having is that my husband has still a valid apartment lease until july we cant move out cuz they charge us crazy much, they ( the apartment management) dont wanna put me on the lease, they wanna charge us double of rent.

    some of the mail when it addressed to both of us gets in the mail and when it just addressed to me it sometimes gets sent back. the postal service doesnt put the mail in the box, they leave it with the apartment management and they out it in the mail boxes.

    so im a lil worried that they send the mail back from our visa. and i was thinking about since i have my case number to call the hotline and try to explain it to them if they could address things in my husbands and mine name.

    does has anyone some experience on that?? we moving this summer new place both on the lease.

    i hope i didnt wrote it too confusing.. hope someone can help me with it..

    thank you for the responds and help :) i appreciate it

  12. Hi Tinchen,

    Ich bin zwar nicht deutsch, aber ich spreche ein bisschen Deutsch. ;) Ich bin US citizen, und meine Frau kommt aus Prag. Wir haben gerade vor einem Monat geheiratet, und wir haben vor zwei wochen oder so das AOS beantragt. Nun muessen wir halt warten, und das macht uns beide ein bisschen verrueckt. Was fuer einen Job haettest du gern? Vielleicht kannst du schon mal suchen. Wo wohnst du? Sicherlich muss es irgendwas interessantes dort geben womit du dich beschaeftigen kannst. :D Viel glueck und ich gratuliere dir zu deiner Hochzeit, was gestern muss gewesen sein :)

    hi ...danke fuer die glueckwuensche. ja hochzeit war am montag und war richtig schoen.nun muessen wir nur noch auf unsere hochzeitsurkunde warten und dann koennen wir endlich unser aos beantragen.

    jaalso mit dem job da hab ich keine probleme, weil ich in los angeles zur uni gegangen bin und auch dort schon gearbeitet habe und auch beim disney schiff fantasy mit gearbeitet habe, habe ich einige kontakte bei disney und im event bereich,( wo ich halt herkomme ), daher hab ich schon einige job angebote auf dem tisch liegen.warte halt nur noch auf meine arbeitsgenehmigung.

    mache in der zwischen zeit halt wohltaetige sachen. tudor in deutsch, englisch und gesichte. aber es fehtl halt so der taegliche ablauf. ich bin halt ein arbeitstier und vermisse es richtig zu arbeiten....

    also bei euch dauert es ja nicht mehr so lange bis hier die EAD habt..habt ihr denn schon eine SSN???

  13. Weiss irgend jemand eine preiswerte Telefonkarte, um Mobiltelefone in Deutschland anzurufen?

    Wir benutzen derzeit die IDT 500 minutes, gut fuer Festnetzanschluss, aber nicht fuer Mobiltelefone.

    hmmm ich weiss nur das man bei t-mobile und sprint fuer ca.10-15 dollar im monat sms und tele kann nach deutschland. ich bin bei sprint und hab den extra service muss dann nicht immer vor dem computer sitzten sondern kann mal schnell ne sms oder einen anruf machen :)

  14. hallo alle deutschen vj's...hab diesen topic gerade erst gesehen uhps lol and finde es cool sich mal mit deutschen ueber sachen aus zutauschen...

    mein verlobter und ich werden am montag heiraten und dann endlich koennen wir aos beantragen und meine arbeitserlaubnis. denn mir ist sowas von langweillig.

    wie habt ihr denn so die zeit rumbekommen bis ihr die EAD hattet?? irgendwelche guten tips??

    dankbar fuer alles

    :) :)

  15. the form I-134 has to be original signature. and the tax return and w2 should be original as well but from my fiance he just had his online ( even his payment check from his job) so he send it to me via email and i printed it out, that was ok for the embassy. but its different with the country. do you have a direct contact person yet at the embassy?? if so u always can call them or send them an email and ask with ur case number if its ok to have copies or print outs.

    you find the contact information http://podgorica.usembassy.gov/ here.

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