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i see what ur saying. My problem with him is this...my husband is spoiled i spoil the hell out of him ok. Every hot phone that comes out he got it all the cool looking clothes and shoes and jewelery he rockin it. I always put him first in everything i do. I dont get sh*t from him not even damn card on my bday. Im in JA every couple of months to go see him and his cell phone is up his behind. Ive seen text from girls ive seen a lot of nasty things. He thinks im stupid. How is it that the last time i was out in JA he did a master reset on his phone...does he think im a dummy?? Ive looked for comfort from another man but i just dont have it in me to have another man touch me knowing im married. I would feel ashamed! ive told him a couple months ago i wanted a divorce do u think he gave a fu*k...NOPE! yeah he begged for about a day and that was the end of it. He went on his merry way without fighting for this marriage. Ive told him plenty of times if he cheating rap it up because i dont want nothing from him or anybody for that matter. I do use protection with him when i visit (sometimes)

hi mrsjohnson. sorry to hear that..maybe im wrong ( hope for your case i am) but it sounds like he is a lil gold digger..u pay for everything so he has a good life.he gets everything from you, you bring him to the states and he still can have fun and fool around. so in his eyes it might seem like why change. he doesnt get any consequences for his behavior. just ask urself the question is that a marriage u wanna have?? with the trust issues and thinking he is cheating or maybe he is cheating on u.. and ur health u dont know if he uses protection when he has sex with someone else...

So u wanna send it proof of marriage?? I'm a lil confused with that.do u mean that for ur aos already?? Cuz k1 is just for ppl who going to get married in the usa.if you already married you need to apply for a k3/CR1 visa..

First getting married then apply for aos and ead and ap.u can go to the aos forum and check the guidelines out there.

She just can start working when she got her ead what takes around 3months after u filed for it.

u can show them ur I-797 that u applied for the green card or ur EAD if u have it already.

Yup I'm a former LB resident of 8 years. Lived around the corner from 10th & Redondo.

Had my medical marijuana card and Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf near me .... I miss my life!

I'd recommend going to the LB Gay Pride parade. I can almost guarantee you will have

a great time whilst enjoying the best of California weather

hahaha funny i lived not far from u. i lived between 3rd and broadway,lindero Ave.. hahaha funny..

yeah she def has to go do that and hang out on 2nd street..def should check out legends good food, good drinks, fun people and some fun games to watch

hi mariana...im a former long beach resident... now living in florida but u live in a great beautiful town and ppl over there are really open and friendly and im sure u can find some friends there soon ...

btw jealous u living in the LBC lol

Are u apply for a K1 visa or a K3 visa??

hey june 4th..

u should really think about it what u wanna do about ur marriage. maybe u can talk with her about some issues..

the option u have is that u can pull ur affidavit of support and dont come to the green card interview then its gonna get denied for her.

did u read the guidelines for the affidavit of support???

http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/i-864instr.pdf

please read that. u obligate to support until the immigrant becomes a citizen or has 40 quarters of work. divorce does not end the sponsor ship.

hehe renee i think we read the same threads the last couple of weeks. cuz today i was asking myself that.after i read a new thread.

its totally both sides some usc just bring their gf/bf over here and then decide oh well i changed my mind and dont see that the other person left everything behind. and then there are ppl who lie to some usc just to get a green card .. its just sad..

i hope ppl would get to know ppl more b4 they all decide to get married. cuz maybe when they visit each other more and spend more time together both sides could figure out if thats the right thing. too bad lol

I wanna answer the question why he does not want to marry me. he is a millionaire, he is working for 18 hours a day with no day-offs. I almost dont see him, 10 minutes a day but he says he loves me most thats why Im still staying at his place. After one month I have been here he said that I am a wonderful girl and he loves me. but if to ask him will he marry me, he said that he wont. As I realized he needs a woman who can run his business as well as he does. im trying so hard, I started to run his italian restaurant at Myrtle Beach and it seems like he starts to like things the way they are but still he does not talk about wedding. He said before that in the end of June we will make a decision. or I leave, or we get married. Moreover we got a big difference in age. Im 21, he is 48.

And I wanted to add...I dont wanna marry another person, I love my fiance. If I cant marry him, anyway I wont stay, I will go back home because I respect american laws. Honestly I never wanted to live in the USA, I came in here just because of my fiance, he said that he loves me most and I did believe and still I do believe because he keeps saying this while doesnt show it...

hi Carolina im sorry to hear that. but your best option would really be just to fly back home and start over in your home country. i bet its hard special when u gave everything up but thats the choice you have.

im wondering why ur fiance brought u to the states on a k1 visa when he doesnt wanna marry you.

hi TK... it shouldnt be a problem at all that she visits you. i visited my husband , then fiance, all the time. even spend full 90days with him. just make sure that she shows her return ticket and has to answer some questions, like why she is visiting you and what profession she does back in germany, where she works and that.

and with ur process time its totally normal to wait 5-6 months to get the NOA2. good luck in your process

Hello! I am getting ready to mail all the documents my fiance needs to send to the consulate in Sydney. He is in the process of getting his medical at the moment. I recently requested a letter from my employer stating my annual salary.

The letter states that my income is 18,720 yearly. By looking at the USCIS website I know I need to make at least 18,912.

I have no children, I live on my own, I own a car and have about 900.00 in the bank. I also have my last 3 years of tax statements as well. I made a lot more in the past but I am attending college at the moment so my income has declined.

My question is...is 192.00 going to hinder our visa? I was hoping I wouldn't have to go through the hassel of having a co sponsor. Any one have a similar experience and still been okay with out a co sponsor?

I wasn't sure if I made enough that we could just get in under the radar. lol

Any help is greatly appreciated!

hello and welcome to the forum me and my husband at the same issue. he was just like tiny bit short under the guidance and we didnt got the visa approved when i went to my interview. we had the change to find a co-sponsor what we wasnt able to cuz his family members all have a lot of kids and then counting me to it wouldnt have worked. so i called the embassy and they kept our visa on hold until he got his W2's in january. they hold the visa at the embassy for 4months , then we needed to wrote them a letter with our intend to still get married and that we waiting for our W2's. and we sent the W2's via email to the embassy in january and got our K1 visa approved.

thats an option u can ask for if u dont have a co-sponsor.

hope it all works out for you two

96 with 54% humidity..going to move into the fridge soon

when u file for AOS u send with ur package copies of ur document and bring the original to the interview later on

with the timeline it depends on the case. mostly the EAD and AP gets approved like 3months after filing and the AOS it depends on the cases.

good luck with ur filing

maybe they running mad on power lol hehehehehe j/k

i mean when u start a thread and ask for responds. u should be able to read different kind of answers. its a forum its on the internet. it shouldn't be censored. as long there is no name calling and that its fine.

when some ppl think is something fishy about the thread let them speak it. isnt it freedom of speech??? i think so lol

Yeah this was originally my idea, until I was made aware of the fact I wouldn't have many days left on my i-94 after the wedding and it could have posed a problem

oh yeah when it gets too close u dont wanna jeopardize it .totally understand that u never know with the government offices here

I'm curious what this statement means. No females invest personal times to talk to men unless they have an agenda?

most females dont spend all the time to talk to a guy online just cuz they have an agenda..they want something from him. if it is a friendship or a relationship.. lets face it, me myself as a female know that we females can get really malicious if we want to. we calculated species. so if u dont know the girl dont trust the girl. saves u a lot of backstabbing. hehehehe

she should watch out cuz that girl going to keep doing her thing and going to keep flirting with him.

Applied for an ssn right after the marriage in my married name.didn't wanted to apply and then have to come back and change it and wait for a new card.too much hustle and paperwork.did it all in once

Girl u def didn't overreact.and a good thing u told him.u have to decide what u want.its clear the girl is interested in him,no female invest personal time to talk to a man with no agenda. If I would u I would make him delete her.u his fiance and future wife so u have a right to make him delete her.that was not a joke conversation. that was really lazy flirting.and crossing the line.why u don't go sit down and have a normal serious conversation with him about it. U two wanna get married maybe u should talk about what u expect from a marriage and what is crossing the line.maybe that helps.hope it all works out for u in a good positive way ... If u need a friend to talk to u can PM me anytime..been in a similar situation before.

so yaya it all worked out

Nurenburg, Germany

Nuernberg j/k

yayayaya it worked. last desperate option would have been fill the form out and send it in per mail lol hehehe

did u updated your address for ur cases as well???i mean the other link???

yeah i know right we all could start working for USCIS, oh maybe i apply there lol heheheeh. but then we might be over qualified to work for them, cuz we actually would work and get cases done lol

or work as an immigration service center.

hi Leila,

hmmm sorry to hear that that u had some really lazy on the phone. when i call them i mostly tell them what they need to do so that they dont get confused. take over that phone call lol... i tried it online as well but when i tried to fill the AR11 out and certain sections u dont need to fill out but online it doesnt let u without u filling it out.

so you gonna try online again???

sorry u had a useless experience with them....

Hi.I tried to change the AR11online as well and it was a pure nightmare. Cuz it won't let me skip certain boxes even I didn't had to fill them out,it wouldn't let me complete it. So I gave up after minutes of frustration and called the hotline.so simple and easy ,it was fast done. I would recommend u to call the uscis hotline.

If she starts to work without the EAD or green card, then she works illegal and jeopardize her whole permanent resident process.I would go by what celeste wrote and apply for your EAD with ur AOS.the faster you apply for your AOS and EAD the faster u get it.it takes like 2-3month to have the EAD.