So, I did spent 20 days with my boyfriend just now in my city, from the beginning of October to the 20th, and while we wished we could have married, we weren't able to.
A friend of mine did a remote marriage with his fianc on Facebook just now. He is in Australia and she is in my city, she signed the wedding papers necessary and they couriered the documents to him and he signed them when he got them.
I want to know if a similar situation is possible for me and him to do the same? Where he can initiate the wedding from the USA with witnesses and then couriers me the document to sign with a witness and I courier it back to him to begin processing at his local court? I do have a couple of people who can happily sign for me as witnesses.
and yes, before I get the flood of questions. we both talked it through. we both shared the same room. same bed. etc for 20 days. we are completely and utterly happy with each other. I searched every possible loophole i could to try and get a marriage possible here but I couldn't. So before the barrage comes in, we are both comfortable and more than looking forward to marriage.