US Immigration from Malawi

Two years ago, I was given a criminal citation for failure to transfer a car title. Bought a car and didn't change the title to my name in time. The prosecutor mailed the citation and a date to appear in court. Call the prosecutor and was told to change the title and she would dismiss the case, I changed the title, and the case was dismissed. I was not arrested and didn't enter a plea.

Now am filing for N400 and need help in how to answer the below questions. I think i need to answer yes to question number 3 but am not sure if i need to answer yes to 1 and 2.


1, Have you EVER committed, assisted in committing, or attempted to commit, a crime or offense for
which you were NOT arrested?

2, Have you EVER been arrested, cited, or detained by any law enforcement officer (including any
immigration official or any official of the U.S. armed forces) for any reason?

3, Have you EVER been charged with committing, attempting to commit, or assisting in committing a
crime or offense?

I have a question..im in us.my fiance is in africa..Whats easiest way for us to get married..

We filed the i-129f in September 2020 and received an NOA1 on September 8, 2020. We were supposed to receive an NOA2 in early April, but that did not happen. This week, I got something in the mail that appeared to be an NOA2 (it's labeled I-797c), but from looking at it, it says "Notice Type: Receipt Notice." It has a June 2021 date on it. The form looks different than the initial form that we received, but it doesn't say "approval" anywhere; instead it describes the processing times and says they have received my payment of $535 (which the first form had already said they received). It says it can't tell how quickly things will be processed. On the first form, my fiancee didn't have an A-number and on this one she does. I tried to Google images of NOA2 forms and they don't look exactly like this one, but I can't tell if maybe they're just older forms. Both forms having the same official title makes things even more confusing. Additionally, on the USCIS, website it says that there hasn't been any update since September 8th. So somehow I got this letter without it updating in the system. I plan to call tomorrow, but I was wondering if anyone has had this happen before? I have no idea if they took 10 months just to accidentally send a form that they were supposed to send in September or if there is some sort of mistake or what. Any help or advice would be great.