I dunno what to do...

[rebeccajo 14]

I also sent that b!tch a message asking her who she was and what did she do with my husband while I was gone...Omg I feel like I'm going crazy!!

I'm not sure if that was a good idea. If he is going to cheat, he's going to cheat. I'd take his word for it earlier until you have convincing evidence that he hasn't been honest about who this girl is.

You think soliciting a friend's girlfriend's phone number is acceptable behavior for a guy?

i have to wonder what the b/f of that girl would think about all of this

...mebbe he likes it?

[wong_watkins 1]

The OP said earlier she didn't trust him. She confronts him & accepts his apology. Now she doubts it & confrotns the girl!

I said I was feeling a little better now but still there's a small part of it I don't believe...SO I still had doubt...

[govols 1]

Nothing worse than the constant worry that someone is being unfaithful. I would recommend that you take care of you. If he is cheating, would you want to stay with him anyway? I remember reading some of your posts before and he sounds as if he could get violent for any reason. Be safe and smart.

[sarah and hicham 3]

She went after trouble. Now she doesn't know how to deal with it. Some people actually prefer to be blind rather than finding out they're being betrayed. I don't know if that's her case or not.

My husband and I don't have each other's e-mail password, not because we have anything to hide, but it is private. We trust each other that much.

wouldn't pure trust mean you have the passwords, but just don't have the need to use them?

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You're right Lisa.

"She went after trouble" is the most ridiculous thing I have read. It's like saying it's her fault that her husband was writing emails/myspacing to another woman. Yikes.

[jundp 191]

Did you get the e-mail address of the lady? Write her a letter and tell her your his wife and you know what's going on. She'll probably message your husband about it. He'll know he was busted!

Do what you think is best.

This is how I met one of my best friends. Only he was my boyfriend (and apparently hers) and it was in the days before email, so it took a lot longer. She and I both dumped him, and we've been best friends for 14 years now. She'll be the maid of honor at my wedding

How is this in any way about beating up the OP over whether or not she should read this butthead's email?

I found that reaction [picking on the OP for looking] strange too. I am wondering who ( if the chance arose) would not look if the email box was open...

You know, my SO and I don't have each other's passwords, though he knows most of mine (because I can't ever remember them) but I wouldn't care if he did. I've peeked over his shoulder while he's chatting online or checking email and he's done the same to me. We don't have anything to hide from each other. He could read any of my emails and I wouldn't care. So yeah, I think picking on Wong is a little odd.

Wong, I wish you luck in this situation.

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

Of course he denied it and instead he thinks I'm being stupid for even asking him those questions.

But what really bugs me is he was going to call her. And she left comments asking him for his work schedule so she can find a good time to call him and get a hold of him.

So she can call him at work? When you are not around?