age diference between the fiancees

[meauxna 15]

hi all..i saw the post about the age..and i remembered that i've readed somewhere on a website reasons why a visa can be denied and i saw there that is a maximum age diference between the fiance's...dose somebody know what's the maximum age diference alowed between fiancees? how older can he be than u and to dont have any problems? i know it sound silly but i know that's important also..and my fiance is kinda older than me. thanks

Dora, you have to put it in context: what are the cultural norms for the country in question etc

In some countries, it's a normal for the man to be 20+ years older than the woman.

In some countries, it is very unusual for an older (native) woman to marry a man many years younger, so a US/foreign reletionship that goes against the local grain might be an issue.

In a lot of countries, age gaps make no difference immigration-wise. My husband is 12 years older than I am, but that is not abnormal in our cultures. Your age gap seems more akin to 'normal' for the US--how is it for your country?

When the gap is "very large" or out of step with cultural norms that can be a cue that the marriage might be solely for the immigration benefit.

[Yodrak 7]

Amber&Neil,

Age difference isn't a problem. Marrying a USC to get into America and a green card is a problem.

Yodrak

This is interesting to know because I never even thought of a big age difference being a problem. .....

['my_destiny' 0]

I think in your case you will not have any problems when it comes to age difference. For sure,the consul will questions if a certain couple is more than 50 years older. But if the couple is really in love, age will just be a number. Me and my husband is 10 years apart. Im 32 and he is 42 and we dont feel old.

[Mononoke28 137]

well im 21 soon and my baby is 34...he dosent look at that age and he's young at heart i hope this would not be a problem for them...

Of course he's still young at heart, he's only 34 for crying out loud! It's not like us people who are in our 30s need a walker and a hearing aid at this age.

[dora_david 0]

well im 21 soon and my baby is 34...he dosent look at that age and he's young at heart i hope this would not be a problem for them...

Of course he's still young at heart, he's only 34 for crying out loud! It's not like us people who are in our 30s need a walker and a hearing aid at this age.

i dididnt ment that..lol...but americans and romanians are differite... i said that he is still young at heart because here in romania 30 year old guys are just home, with family, they dont go out, they are not fun anymore.....not like in US...of course not everybody is here like that but most of them are like that...that's why i said my baby is diferite..

[SM&LP 0]

We expect a red flag for the age difference at the interview. He is 16.5 years older than me, he is 44 and I am 27. But there is nothing I can do, my dad is 9 years older than mon, I guess I wanted to exceed that.

[ELW 5]

You will be fine, you don't have that much of age difference.

Men can be a LOT older and not cause red flags. The red flag as mentioned is if the USC fiancée is much older than the non-USC fiancé. However most cases are approved.

I am the USC fiancée age 41 and my fiancé is age 26 (15 years difference), but we got the visa fine (even though in India if the fiancée is aged even a year older it is frowned upon).