Age difference between Filipinas and americans (Poll)

[David-and-Mae 15]

Actually, big age difference is not really a big deal as long as you understand each other, you get along perfectly and most of all you love each other. It can be a "red flag" in some visa cases but as long as you have more than enough proof to prove that the relationship is not a scam, huge age gap is never gonna be a problem.

What can I do? He was born too early and I was born way too late. At least it's still "US" and "WE" in the end...

Mae

Well said Mae I am completey with you in this!!!

A RELATIONSHIP is not choosing the right person, but creating the RIGHT RELATIONSHIP. It is not how much you LOVE the person from the beginning but how much LOVE YOU BUILD until the END. Love & respect are one of the most significant aspect of a relationship. Don't be a prejudice by a MAY & DECEMBER affair, for which it is one of the dear and wonderful relationship ever made.

And believe it or not, my husband said if he hadn't met me, he'd probably end up being single all the remaining of his days. He's been into many unsuccessful relationships and tired of trying. When he met me and we got married, he said for the first time, he didn't have any regrets, none whatsoever. It's not about how close or far your age gap is, but how you work out the relationship and make it successful. I have never been so happy in my life and so is my husband.

--Mae

Edited June 13, 2008 by David-Mae Forever

[boyceedith 0]

im 36 my husband 37 ...9 months difference

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

i am a filipina.. 28 and my husband from NJ just turned 31..

[LOSTGURL--SOPHIA 2]

i am a filipina.. 28 and my husband from NJ just turned 31..

i am a filipina.. 28 and my husband from NJ just turned 31..

mario.. is turning 22

jonah..is 25

sophie is

Edited June 13, 2008 by lostGurl18

[bluemist 0]

VJ Names---------------------------------------Age------------------------------------------------Partner's Age

TexPamp-----------------------------------------41--------------------------------------------------25

ez2007-------------------------------------------40---------------------------------------------------45

NoelandTintin------------------------------------39---------------------------------------------------30

Gradie and Jane---------------------------------38---------------------------------------------------59

nova71--------------------------------------------36--------------------------------------------------40

jego_ryu------------------------------------------35---------------------------------------------------27

mybabydoll---------------------------------------35---------------------------------------------------46

'my destiny'---------------------------------------34---------------------------------------------------44

chri-lei---------------------------------------------34---------------------------------------------------30

rubchet--------------------------------------------34---------------------------------------------------54

andrew_evelyn-----------------------------------31----------------------------------------------------33

sweetcouple---------------------------------------32---------------------------------------------------43

gurl-------------------------------------------------32---------------------------------------------------53

dbears----------------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------45

sj soulm8ts-----------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------27

timcass 12-----------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------37

alizeyah---------------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------35

lea&ron----------------------------------------------31--------------------------------------------------47

sweetpink-------------------------------------------29---------------------------------------------------39

lady23-----------------------------------------------29---------------------------------------------------56

mamada---------------------------------------------29---------------------------------------------------30

prettypink--------------------------------------------28---------------------------------------------------28

djazzy66----------------------------------------------28--------------------------------------------------33

Rodge&Ninfa------------------------------------------27--------------------------------------------------50

brianmarie---------------------------------------------27--------------------------------------------------32

iluvmychaparra----------------------------------------26--------------------------------------------------27

oOpinkOo-----------------------------------------------26-------------------------------------------------39

Shape---------------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------26

Teena and Joe------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------58

frostysoftyeaton----------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------36

dennisheila----------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------29

lostgurl18------------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------22

shes------------------------------------------------------24--------------------------------------------------24

mrs.vendur----------------------------------------------24---------------------------------------------------58

dora2x---------------------------------------------------24---------------------------------------------------26

mrsartis-------------------------------------------------24---------------------------------------------------34

bluemist-------------------------------------------------23---------------------------------------------------33

ammike-------------------------------------------------23----------------------------------------------------38

jackielibera---------------------------------------------23----------------------------------------------------59

Kandi usa-----------------------------------------------22----------------------------------------------------48

Ronnie and Kris----------------------------------------21----------------------------------------------------50

VJ Names---------------------------------------Age------------------------------------------------Partner's Age

TexPamp-----------------------------------------41--------------------------------------------------25

ez2007-------------------------------------------40---------------------------------------------------45

NoelandTintin------------------------------------39---------------------------------------------------30

Gradie and Jane---------------------------------38---------------------------------------------------59

nova71--------------------------------------------36--------------------------------------------------40

jego_ryu------------------------------------------35---------------------------------------------------27

mybabydoll---------------------------------------35---------------------------------------------------46

'my destiny'---------------------------------------34---------------------------------------------------44

chri-lei---------------------------------------------34---------------------------------------------------30

rubchet--------------------------------------------34---------------------------------------------------54

andrew_evelyn-----------------------------------31----------------------------------------------------33

sweetcouple---------------------------------------32---------------------------------------------------43

gurl-------------------------------------------------32---------------------------------------------------53

dbears----------------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------45

sj soulm8ts-----------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------27

timcass 12-----------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------37

alizeyah---------------------------------------------30--------------------------------------------------35

lea&ron----------------------------------------------31--------------------------------------------------47

sweetpink-------------------------------------------29---------------------------------------------------39

lady23-----------------------------------------------29---------------------------------------------------56

mamada---------------------------------------------29---------------------------------------------------30

prettypink--------------------------------------------28---------------------------------------------------28

djazzy66----------------------------------------------28--------------------------------------------------33

Rodge&Ninfa------------------------------------------27--------------------------------------------------50

brianmarie---------------------------------------------27--------------------------------------------------32

iluvmychaparra----------------------------------------26--------------------------------------------------27

oOpinkOo-----------------------------------------------26-------------------------------------------------39

Shape---------------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------26

Teena and Joe------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------58

frostysoftyeaton----------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------36

dennisheila----------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------29

lostgurl18------------------------------------------------25--------------------------------------------------22

shes------------------------------------------------------24--------------------------------------------------24

mrs.vendur----------------------------------------------24---------------------------------------------------58

dora2x---------------------------------------------------24---------------------------------------------------26

mrsartis-------------------------------------------------24---------------------------------------------------34

bluemist-------------------------------------------------23---------------------------------------------------33

ammike-------------------------------------------------23----------------------------------------------------38

jackielibera---------------------------------------------23----------------------------------------------------59

Kandi usa-----------------------------------------------22----------------------------------------------------48

Ronnie and Kris----------------------------------------21----------------------------------------------------50

[bluemist 0]

hi...everyone,, im just curious lang para malaman natin kung sino sino ang tatawagin natin ate or bunso dito sa vj....im sure im ate coz im 35 years old....and my fiance is only 27..............ANN

Hi Ate Ann.Ate pala kita.Kala ko kc same age lng tau.Natawag tuloy kita Ann before.Anyway,u dont look trenta singko nman eh

[Maty 0]

My hunkie pie is 24 and I am 24.. Same Age.. but he's more mature for his age though..

This is a very nice poll..

Good luck to all my Pinays and Pinoys kababayan.

[dumaguete 0]

Filipina ( 24 )

American ( 58 )

Age Difference 34 years and we been Married for 3years

and going strong!

Right on

[IzelNAl 0]

I am 55 and Izel is 26.

I tried 2 marriages to American women that were my age and both failed. Now, I am trying a new approach. The great thing is that Izel understands me better than both of my ex's put together.

Edited July 4, 2008 by IzelNAl

[frostysoftyeaton 6]

I am 55 and Izel is 26.

I tried 2 marriages to American women that were my age and both failed. Now, I am trying a new approach. The great thing is that Izel understands me better than both of my ex's put together.

amen been there done that twice married women my own age twice divorced ady understands and loves me more than both of them put together what makes a sucessful marriage is not age or race it is what each partner is willing to put into it if you put all your love in and she puts all her love in then you will be sucessful but if you or her withhold part of yourself you will fail it is always easy to blame your partner but remember you are partners and therefor you are equally responsible for any problems and equally responsible for fixing those problems............. and ady when you read this later tonight mahal kita sobre ady ko

[Yiyi and Chris 0]

Both 28

IT'S UR BIRTHDAY TODAY!!!

[xylide 2]

hi... im 23 and my hubby in Colorado is 22...Ü

[baxxy 0]

By "Americans", are you referring to Filipino-Americans?

I've seen age gaps as much as 40 years. The only advice I received many years ago is that it is best to marry a Filipina that is close to 30 or older - I got that from a Filipino Pastor and friend of the family before I even began to consider marrying a Filipina. Generally you don't see huge age differences between Filipinos who live in the Philippines - I am assuming that would probably also be true between a Fil-Am and a petitioned Filipina.

In my particular case both times the difference was about 15 years.

Interesting, why did he say that?

[smiley888 0]

By "Americans", are you referring to Filipino-Americans?

I've seen age gaps as much as 40 years. The only advice I received many years ago is that it is best to marry a Filipina that is close to 30 or older - I got that from a Filipino Pastor and friend of the family before I even began to consider marrying a Filipina. Generally you don't see huge age differences between Filipinos who live in the Philippines - I am assuming that would probably also be true between a Fil-Am and a petitioned Filipina.

In my particular case both times the difference was about 15 years.

Interesting, why did he say that?

im 29 (pinay) and hubby 30 (white)

[richo 0]

ME (pinay) 26 and hubby(pinoy in white man's body ) 34