K1 visa problem with the petitioner

[Sagot 1,548]

Simula po nung nandito kami di rin naglalabas ,lalabas kami pag my bibilhin needs here pero wala rin akong makausap na kapit bahay di nmn lumalabas .. Pag nasa ship siya 28days siya dun pag balik niya saka lng kami maka LABAS like walmart restaurant kakain pero alam mo yong nasanay ka na may ka usap kapit bahay may kalaro anak mo kami lng tatlo ng anak ko,grabe po pinaglilimitahan niya din ako mag Internet kasi mahal daw bayad at 10mins lng international call in a day

Wala po akong nakikitang pinoy dito taz

Chat doesn't use much internet, as long as it doesn't have video with it. Same for messenger on FB, doesn't use a lot of internet if there is no video.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

local libraries are also a source for internet access, many cafes, starbucks Panera also have free wifi

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[xmaricrisx 25]

Simula po nung nandito kami di rin naglalabas ,lalabas kami pag my bibilhin needs here pero wala rin akong makausap na kapit bahay di nmn lumalabas .. Pag nasa ship siya 28days siya dun pag balik niya saka lng kami maka LABAS like walmart restaurant kakain pero alam mo yong nasanay ka na may ka usap kapit bahay may kalaro anak mo kami lng tatlo ng anak ko,grabe po pinaglilimitahan niya din ako mag Internet kasi mahal daw bayad at 10mins lng international call in a day

Wala po akong nakikitang pinoy dito taz

Ganyan po talaga pag nagimmigrate ka... may bagong buhay ka na. Gawa ka ng paraan para masanay ka na dyan kasi kung hindi mas lalo kayo magaaway ng fiance mo. Pwede ka pumunta sa library o sa Starbucks o sa Panera kc may free wifi dun... pwede ka magskype o magchat sa Facebook. Pwede mo rin dalhin ung mga anak mo sa park para makapaglaro sila at bka may mameet kayong kaibigan dun, malay mo. Hindi lng nman pinoy and pwede mong magiging kaibigan... kung tutuusin mas maganda kung hindi pinoy. Ang happiness mo dyan, dependent sa pagiisip mo... ok lng nman na mamiss mo ung pamilya mo sa pinas, pero kung un lng lagi mo iniisip, jusko mas lalo ka madedepress. Nagbigay na po ang mga tao ng suggestions para sayo... na sa inyo na po kung makikinig ka sa mga suggestions nmin o hndi.

(Translation: That's how it is when you immigrate... you have a new life now. You need to do something in order to get yourself used to being here, otherwise you and fiance will continue to fight. You can go to the library, Starbucks, or Panera because they have free wifi there... you can use Skype or chat on Facebook. You can bring your kids to the park so they can play and maybe you can even meet a friend there, you never know. You don't have to necessarily find a Filipino friend... if anything, it's better to find someone who isn't Filipino. Your happiness there is dependent on how you think... it's ok to miss your family back home, but if that's all you think about the more you will really be depressed. People here have given you many suggestions... it's up to you if you will listen to the suggestions or not.)

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

You came here for love or a better life or opportunities for your kids, your reasons are your own. Give it a chance. I would be devastated if Yuni wished to return home. I made sure I reached out to local pinays so she had some people she could relate to, she has new friends she hasn't met yet. It's an adjustment for him too, especially you have kids. Find something you like and take your mind off what you did not

[Myl69 0]

thanks po sa inyo nagkasakitan napo kami ng fiancé ko not physically po .. Kaya gusto ko nlng umuwi Ito nlng po tanong ko sa ako hihingi nga tulong wala nga po siyang pera pamashi samin

[xmaricrisx 25]

thanks po sa inyo nagkasakitan napo kami ng fiancé ko not physically po .. Kaya gusto ko nlng umuwi Ito nlng po tanong ko sa ako hihingi nga tulong wala nga po siyang pera pamashi samin

Lahat po ng relationships may hardships; magaaway kayo, tas kung ano ano pa sinasabi nyo sa isat isa pag galit... normal po yan. Pero kung talagang mahal nyo po isat isa, kaya nyo po lampasin tong problema nyo. Kagaya ng sinabi ni Randyandyuni, nagaadjust din ung fiance mo. Parehas kayo naiistress at nagaadjust. Wag ka gumawa ng life-changing decision porket galit ka o nagaaway kayo. Pagisipin mo ng mabuti kc hndi lng ikaw ang involved dito; pati ung mga anak mo.

Kung ayaw mo na talaga at nagdecide ka na na uuwi ka, either hingi ka ng pera sa family mo o hingi ka ng tulong sa nearest Philippines embassy dyan sa inyo.

(Translation: All relationships have hardships; you will fight, and then you will say anything when you are mad at each other... that's normal. But if you really love each other you can fix this problem. Just like what Randyandyuni said, your fiance is also adjusting. You're both stressed and adjusting. Don't make a life-changing decision just because you are angry or you are fighting. Think about it very well because you're not the only one involved here; your children are too.

But if you have really decided that you don't want to be here anymore and you want to go home, you can either ask for some money from your family or go to the nearest Philippines embassy.)

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

thanks po sa inyo nagkasakitan napo kami ng fiancé ko not physically po .. Kaya gusto ko nlng umuwi Ito nlng po tanong ko sa ako hihingi nga tulong wala nga po siyang pera pamashi samin

Just make sure your decision is what you wish to do and you have thought it through. You worked hard to come here and sacrificed much, do not make a choice you have regrets, once you leave it is the end of the relationship

[zuluweta 250]

Simula po nung nandito kami di rin naglalabas ,lalabas kami pag my bibilhin needs here pero wala rin akong makausap na kapit bahay di nmn lumalabas .. Pag nasa ship siya 28days siya dun pag balik niya saka lng kami maka LABAS like walmart restaurant kakain pero alam mo yong nasanay ka na may ka usap kapit bahay may kalaro anak mo kami lng tatlo ng anak ko,grabe po pinaglilimitahan niya din ako mag Internet kasi mahal daw bayad at 10mins lng international call in a day

Wala po akong nakikitang pinoy dito taz

Di ba unlimited ang internet niyo sa bahay? O sa phone lang kayo nakakapag internet? Kung sa phone lang, may data limit nga. Pero kung may internet/wifi sa bahay, dapat unli yun. At kung unli ang internet niyo sa bahay, pwedeng-pwede kayo makipag chat sa video o kahit tawag sa Viber sa mga kakilala at kamaganak niyo sa Pilipinas.

Bago ba kayo nagpunta dito sa US, inalam niyo ba kung saan nakatira ang fiance niyo? Siyempre iba ang nakasanayan niyong buhay sa Pilipinas at iba rin ang buhay dito sa US. Kelangan niyo mag adjust sa buhay dito kung talagang balak niyo na tumira dito sa US bilang asawa ng US citizen.

Kung homesick kayo, natural yan sa lahat ng nangingibang bansa. Punta kayo sa library at mag research dun kung paano kayo makakapag adjust sa buhay sa US. Maghanap kayo ng bagong kaibigan sa internet - Facebook, Craigslist, marami pang iba.