problems with wife in the US

[raven52 233]

I would offer this, if communications do no improve very soon, I would seek a "counselor" whom both of you respect and have faith in.

If this is not "slowed" or stopped, it can only get worse.

Good luck and hang in there, you both can do this, do not ever take your marriage for granted. Work together on it.

[luviscoming1 14]

I can tell you really love your wife....and that you feel like a stranger in a new country...and you shouldn't take her actions seriously because no condition is permenent. Play cool and calm anytime that she's acting that way. You must learn to have a little bit of tolerence and patience. You two will be fine and back to normal.

[Successk 0]

You just have to be prayerful and patient cause some of the women in this country are so difficult to satisfy. Am also in ur situation I came here last year match 2014 and got married to a different woman from the one I knew,just three weeks after she took knives for me bcuz we had this argument that I wanted to eat I was hungry she said am not a babe but I was stay new here didn't know my way around, she have three children which I considered mine kids I love them and they show me love their father don't care to even call to say hi but I takes care of them now she said I love her kids more than I love her.She never listen to anything I tells her cause she said she not used to taking instructions from Men. My wife is very emotional she put me out of the house every two to three weeks because am not working I can't leave cuz I was denied green card due to affidavit of support cause she have change about five jobs in the short time I been her due to her attitude at job. Now am just sitting home for almost two years because we can't even get the money to refile for green card for adjustment from K-1 Visa. My brother I think your wife is better plz work things out and my my situation has left from zero to hundred bcuz my wife is pregnant she abuse and insults me even threatened to call police the day I try to hate back at her. What a Life brother

[rlogan 2,036]

Hormones make it difficult to assess this.

My wife turned into a ###### loon and I had just told her: this is it, you've gone too far, this is unacceptable behavior and I won't stand for it... What could possibly make you act so crazy?!

Oh. Oh yea. Pregnancy. Sure thing, that;s what it was. But knowing that helped both of us keep that kind of behavior in check.

Mine told me she was going to leave me because she didn't deserve me, lol.