Gf working in Bar? Help

[kev_n_jena 89]

ok. i have known this girl since 2012 and she has been always honest about what she do for living and i met her on dating site, the good thing i liked more is her honesty and she is real sweet and never talk trashy or unnecessary, means we love our daily conversation.

ok from then we chat and one day we both know we love each other and i have been in phillipines to meet her for five times now and she still work in bar and i know it, i cant accept that but she needs her living and i cant give her the money she needed.

ok now this is the question, is there a possible that we can grant a fiancee visa?

pls i need an honest answer.

OP, are you petitioning someone from Panama? That's what it looks like from your profile.

[Brassballs 48]

OP, are you petitioning someone from Panama? That's what it looks like from your profile.

I think maybe Panamanian now living in Texas. At least that's how I see it. OP can confirm. And hopefully a USC.

[Al422 221]

Are you asking from a legal perspective or a personal perspective? Waitressing in a bar is perfectly legal work, so I see no problem with that. The interviewer might ask more questions than usual since work like that often does not involve much documentation and there are lots of illegal things that workers in bars get caught doing. But as long as she broke no laws, just answer the interviewer's questions and she will be fine.

From a personal perspective, most ladies I know who work in bars would rather be doing somethng else, but the bar work is good money for them and they need it. Here in the US, I noticed most bartenders are ladies because they draw big tips from the male customers so the bar owner can pay them less than their male counterparts. I would be OK with a lady who does this type of work. My wife was a maid before we married. She would have loved to have been a scientist or doctor instead, but not everyone gets the educational opportunites that they would like. Lots of things matter in the quality of a woman, but her occupation is not one of them.

[hotmom17 3]

OP, are you petitioning someone from Panama? That's what it looks like from your profile.

he said Philippines.

[pfrederiksen 22]

The whole point of the process is basically to a) show you aren't defrauding the government and b) that the petitioner can care for his/her fiance without being a strain on the government.

Her job has absolutely nothing to do with any of this.

[minions2 24]

get to know her better and don't send money other than if its about her petition. don't be that guy who sends money to the whole family of the girl..