Filling Aos from J1

[Dori5556 0]

Hi,

Ive been reading the forum but couldn't find some answers to my question.

I am an au pair on J1 visa. I met my bf online just before coming to the US and after my arrival we were meeting and become a couple after about 2 months of dates. Its been over 1,5 year together and we are getting married on Nov 22. And it is just before my au pair program finishes. I do not have two year rule residency- this is what my visa says, first Ds form ( second, extension year DS is not filled as I extended the program when being in the US). Just to be sure I searched the list of countries and my country did not show up.

Me and my fiancee dont live together- i go to his place during the weekends ( every weekend or day off ) I cant live with him as I have a contract to live with my host family. We already made a join account, have a phn bill together.

Question: Would be that enough to show the prove ( account and phn) ? Do i really need to try to get a lease together right now even if I dont live with him now but i will as we get married?

Question: When is the best time to do my medical exam? What is the earliest I can do that? I heard it can be done before the marriage. i already got my translation of vaccines from my home country . If I do it just before marriage, can I use my new last name even i wouldnt be married yet?

Thanj you!!!!

[Pitaya 2,577]

~Moved from Fam.-based AOS to WST-based AOS Forum~

~adjusting from J1 visa~

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

You only file AOS after you are married. So once you are married, you say you will live together, so this problem will disappear.

You can do your medical exam before the wedding, but no, you cannot use a future married name on it before you are married. It is okay if the exam is in your maiden name.