i-134 in Vancouver - isn't the form enough?

[ninadrianna 1]

In reality, what do they actually ask to see? It doesn't really say that tax forms are required (unless self-employed), so i'm curious if anyone out there has gone into the interview just with the form filled in and with an employer's letter, not tax stuff.

Curious if anyone out there has gone thru Vancouver with this experience.

Thanks.

Also I make enough to support myself, and will as soon as i get there, so what's up with them needing my future husband to support me? Can't they just get on my ### instead of his? He's a private person who doesn't want to share info about his financial stuff (and here i am telling you all about it ) Maybe I should just ask a friend instead to co-sponsor?

This is the worst part of the process for me cuz I'm so independent and hate asking people for help. And i have zero intention of ever relying on state support.

I just want to love my man already.

Thanks for letting me vent.

funny, vj censored a synonym for bum

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[Sweetmelissa 82]

I didn't bring any tax stuff to my Vancouver interview a few weeks ago. I had the i-134, employer letter, pay stubs for the last few months and bank statements for the last 6 months (printed off). They did not ask for w2 or income tax transcripts.

I also brought information declaring my own liquid assets but they weren't interested and didn't take those documents.

Even if you do get a cosponsor your fiance will still have to fill out and sign the i-134.

[pro_star 52]

That fun bit comes in around aos time.

Your hubby to be may be all private and you may be all independent but...

There will be a time period you can't legally work. Oh yes. This sucks. Even asking my fiancé for $60 while we were waiting to go to the bank to get me added to the account so I could have some money for groceries and the like...sucked.

The government will want proof or evidence that your hubby to be can support you. If he can't, they'll still need to know his info plus whoever you use as a co sponsor.

Yes we all know the irs has that info somewhere in their archives but since when did different government entities (of any government!) play nice and communicate?

I went in with tax forms from my fiancé. They didn't really pay them too much attention. Make sure you have the statement of intent dated within 30 days of your interview from both of you though!

[NikLR 13,227]

Tell your future husband that the people looking at this information are highly trained and screened US government employees. They could look up this information without his permission if they wanted to, but they don't. The only time you should use a co-sponsor is when you need to (he doesn't make enough.)

Also as it has been mentioned, when you file the AOS [$1070] (which will need a new affidavit of support - I-864 or I-864EZ, a legally binding contract, unlike the I-134) you can apply for work authorization. it takes about 60-90 days to get this so for 2-3 months, you will not be working. You will either need savings, or you will have to ask your future partner in life for help.

I get how you feel, I'm the same way, but I've learned that it's okay to get help from your spouse. Sharing, giving, and all that good stuff.

[Rob & Monika 87]

I was trying to hold my tongue..but to me it wasn't clear if his issue was a US government agency seeing the info (which they likely already do see), or his fiance. Since the former seems silly, I was thinking his issue was with her seeing the information. Or the fear that while it's in her possession, someone else might see it...idk the OP will have to clarify before I make any comments on keeping secrets from your fiance/spouse...

If he's attending the interview with you, he can hand it over without you seeing it. But I would make sure that since you are going to be financially dependent on him for a while, that you guys aren't going to start out a marriage fighting over finances... ok back to holding my tongue.

[ninadrianna 1]

Thanks guys.

That's helpful feedback. Looks like the best route is to have a friend co-sponsor just in case they ask, and for the future. But not offer the info straightout at the interview unless they ask.

Also re work, I plan to keep my job that I currently have here in Canada. That way I will have income right away. Yay for internet and phone-based work!

To be clear to Rob & Monica, we share everything between us, it's just beyond that where sometimes privacy is preferred. And I appreciate your honesty anyways

[NikLR 13,227]

You technically need your EAD to work in the USA, even if you're working for a foreign country. At least that is how I understand it.

[Flames9_RN 358]

You technically need your EAD to work in the USA, even if you're working for a foreign country. At least that is how I understand it.

Depends who you ask.....sort of a grey area when it comes to work one can accomplish online......I think a lot depends on whom ones clients are....if they are not American, one is probably safe.....but I'm no expert on that. With regards to keeping ones privacy, I can assure you, people at the Consulate could truly care less...But if they don't have the required paperwork, well one will not be getting the visa.

[thatangela 134]

A friend just went through her first U.S. tax return and advised me to give up everything work-related when I leave, even my freelance clients. She had to pay double taxes and said having the money and that independence from her husband just wasn't worth it.

I'm already collecting EI so giving up work won't be an issue. Relying on my fiance for everything will be difficult, but that whole "asking for help" thing has been a huge part of our relationship.

After a lifetime of working non-stop, Independent Career Girl is rather looking forward to housewifing for a few months.

[NikLR 13,227]

Canada has a tax treaty with the USA. No double taxes should be paid. Form 2555 covers any income made outside of the USA by an LPR or USC up to 97k per year. If she makes over that, well, then I can't help with double taxation.

[LiliBurd 85]

A friend just went through her first U.S. tax return and advised me to give up everything work-related when I leave, even my freelance clients. She had to pay double taxes and said having the money and that independence from her husband just wasn't worth it.

I'm already collecting EI so giving up work won't be an issue. Relying on my fiance for everything will be difficult, but that whole "asking for help" thing has been a huge part of our relationship.

After a lifetime of working non-stop, Independent Career Girl is rather looking forward to housewifing for a few months.

I completely agree! It is a scary thing to think that I won't have an income for a few months. I have not relied on anyone since I was 18 years old, and sometimes it makes me anxious to think that I will have to depend on him completely. He's really good at making feel comfortable with it though, we are partners and have to rely on each other when it comes to money or other issues.

I also look forward to housewifing for a while, anyways the final stages of wedding planning will be more than enough to keep me busy for the first few months .

[thatangela 134]

I completely agree! It is a scary thing to think that I won't have an income for a few months. I have not relied on anyone since I was 18 years old, and sometimes it makes me anxious to think that I will have to depend on him completely. He's really good at making feel comfortable with it though, we are partners and have to rely on each other when it comes to money or other issues.

I also look forward to housewifing for a while, anyways the final stages of wedding planning will be more than enough to keep me busy for the first few months .

I'm plannning on building a blog website to chronicle my journey into housewifery. I've already claimed land in the backyard for my garden. It's going to be so much fun!

At least that's what I'm telling myself right now. Haha!

[Sweetmelissa 82]

I'm plannning on building a blog website to chronicle my journey into housewifery. I've already claimed land in the backyard for my garden. It's going to be so much fun!

At least that's what I'm telling myself right now. Haha!

Not gonna lie, I am kind of looking forward to a break from work and "housewiving" so to speak haha. I have been watching Madmen for tips

<3

[LiliBurd 85]

Not gonna lie, I am kind of looking forward to a break from work and "housewiving" so to speak haha. I have been watching Madmen for tips

<3

Lol! I might even start watching Soap operas