divorce

[dmartmar 1]

If she wants to become legal, she will have to leave the US, and apply for another visa.

Will his marriage fraud allegation leading up to having his petition withdrawn in any way be taken into consideration if she attempts to come back on another visa from her home country, after leaving?

[UmmSqueakster 54]

I don't have anything useful to add, just wanted to say that I'm sorry to hear about all the trouble you've been in. Thank you for your service to our country.

[portsaid 0]

I will tell you what I did, but my ex came on a K-1. I filed for divorce and since his AOS was still pending, I made an InfoPass appointment and went to the office where the interview would take place. I took a letter, which I had previoulsy mailed infoming USCIS of the divorce and told them I wanted to report marriage fraud. I had prepared a detailed log of dates and events just in case I got nervous and couldn't remember. I spoke to an Immigration Officer and an ICE agent in the same day. I had copies of previous USCIS correspondence, such as I-129f, I-485, EAD, his passport, social security card, our marriage license and a letter from the post office for his change of address. Since the I-485 was still pending, they had me write a letter stating I wished to withdraw my affidavit of support. They were so nice to me, much more so than I expected. After receiving the final divorce decree, I returned to provide a copy of that. Again they were very nice to me and this time the woman at the window told me she was going to let me talk to the Officer in Charge. He too was very nice, he told me that since I had withdrawn my support of my ex-husband's petition it was now between him and them and he could not tell me anything further about the case, but he did say he was going to request his file from Vermont and they would make a decision on his AOS case. After that, I went online to check the status and there was a message saying last written correspondence was returned by the post office as undeliverable. I guess that means he never updated his address with USCIS.

Now, I know you didn't ask for this, but please try to read what I'm about to say with an open mind. What my ex husband did to me was terrible. I loved him with all my heart, in some ways still do and probably always will. It hurts more than anyone could ever imagine to find out you've been used by someone you loved enough to marry. If you are like me, you could easily let this consume you. Your emotions may range from deep sadness to bitter anger. Try to do whatever you need to do to get over her. I don't know what that is, everybody is different. You didn't do anything wrong and don't beat yourself up for not seeing some sign that everybody will point out to you. Remeber love is blind. You loved her and you shouldn't blame yourself for being human.

I think her immigration process will be difficult since you never filed for AOS, she will have to explain herself to USCIS in terms of her failed marriage with you and any other future marriages she enters. I don't know if you are the father of her child, but I'm assuming you're not and that might be best so you can really separate from her.

I wish you well. If you want to ask me additional questions, feel free to PM me.

[Peggy 1]

Wow. What great advice from dmartmar and portsaid.

[denali_1963 0]

i was gonna say the same thing dmartmar seems to have the best advice yet. I would follow that and also check with your lawyer.