Interview packet

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

So here goes,

During my trip to Haiti, I kind of pre-prepared everything for my honey. You know its a woman's natural nature to take charge. Anyways, I organized the pictures, the phonecall/text info, all of the forms needed to be filled as well as my I-134. When we received Packet 3, I told Ferlay to place everything that they asked for in a separate packet, and keep the remaining stuff for the interview. I think they asked for my I-, DS156,157, and the medical results. The rest of the stuff I wanted him to have handy for the interview, like the pictures and so on. Well, my lovely fiance put EVERYTHING in one thing and handed it ALL to the Haiti Messenger...all of our evidence, pictures, everything!!!! He told me the lady at the Haiti messenger told him to do that. Is that true?? He gave them everything we have, so what does he bring to the interview. Am I going to have to fedex him some more pics and pictures and things....Please Help!

[Enigma11561 336]

So here goes,

During my trip to Haiti, I kind of pre-prepared everything for my honey. You know its a woman's natural nature to take charge. Anyways, I organized the pictures, the phonecall/text info, all of the forms needed to be filled as well as my I-134. When we received Packet 3, I told Ferlay to place everything that they asked for in a separate packet, and keep the remaining stuff for the interview. I think they asked for my I-, DS156,157, and the medical results. The rest of the stuff I wanted him to have handy for the interview, like the pictures and so on. Well, my lovely fiance put EVERYTHING in one thing and handed it ALL to the Haiti Messenger...all of our evidence, pictures, everything!!!! He told me the lady at the Haiti messenger told him to do that. Is that true?? He gave them everything we have, so what does he bring to the interview. Am I going to have to fedex him some more pics and pictures and things....Please Help!

Well first I have to disagree that it is the the woman who needs to be in charge. Talk to any RW and you will see a big difference. You will never see a RUB asking questions here. This is all the man's job. But please do not take offense. Just an observation.Having said that, it appears that you being in charge is a good thing as your fiance looks like he could use the help. I don't know why a messenger would comment on immigration issues but no harm done. I would try to call the consulate/embassy there and speak to someone about this before going and duplicating everything.

[reese1 68]

My brother in law did the same thing. He even included a card that had $200 in it. And at the interview my sister said they handed everything back to them even the card and the money was still in it. So you will get it back at the interview.

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

Thank you Reese. As for Enigma1156, I am not sure of where your country is, but your statement was rude. I did not ask for observations, I asked for the help of what we should do. Asking to not take offense after you offended does not make the statement better. but just to be clear, I said we women have the natural nature to...taking care of children, the household, the being a WIFE part. My sweetheart was just following protocol of what they asked of him. But thank you for your comment on consulting the Embassy. I will do that.

[selavi 0]

Laura, what Haiti Messenger told your fiancé is correct. It's better they have that evidence before the interview so there's not too much time reviewing that type of stuff at the interview. When my fiancé took the papers to Haiti Messenger, they gave back things we included that they didn't need (duplicate copy of I-134 for example) and kept everything they needed, including evidence of ongoing relationship. There's no need for you to contact the embassy. It's okay.

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

Thank you Selavi, you have been a tremedous help. Do you think I should bring evidence in his hand just in case?

[selavi 0]

No problem. I know how anxious you feel and how easy it is to second guess everything. I'm sure like me, you're trying to do everything right so they don't have a reason to deny the visa and it is approved.

It won't hurt for him to have additional evidence with him, but from what I've read, they may not look at it. Not sure if you'll go to the interview or not, but I'm going and I'm bringing with me phone records, texts, emails, pay stubs for September and October, and copies of everything we submitted just in case.

[reese1 68]

Thank you Selavi, you have been a tremedous help. Do you think I should bring evidence in his hand just in case?

If you are not going to be able to attend with him I would. Otherwise my sister said they gave them stuff back i.e tax transcripts, divorce decree after they made copies, card, some other stuff too, can't remember if it was the pics. Best of luck to you both!

[Chynna/gapamix 11]

Don't fret this is a good thing. What they have will be strong evidence of your relationship and they will give everything back at the interview.

Best of luck.

Chynna

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

Thank you everyone. We are patiently waiting for when they set our interview.

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

Hey Guys, My interview is one week from today!! CRAZY!!!

[Chynna/gapamix 11]

That's great!