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Hey VJmaniacs..

Since its now 4months that my lady and I have been waiting for NOA2, I've decided to start a mini-opinionated topics on a weekly basis (or regularity could change depending on how much participation I get) or at least until I get my NOA2 or until VJ guards complain.

Let's just say these topics would circle around things you have thought about or read that you decided not to express how you really felt. Now, I'm not trying to offend anyone, but on the other hand, this is how I'll be expressing my frustration on waiting rather than crying/pouting.

Like Eminem will sing or the late Bernie Mac will joke,"I'm only saying the things you feel but hesitant to express." So if you have some sense of humor, join me and comment on both or any topic I post. Let's kick it off.. with two topics this week. Have at it and make it HOT!

1)I think - it's funny when we blame or frustrated at USCIS for not responding to our petitions yet or when we feel it's not a first come, first serve basis. Meanwhile, this is what we do on a regular basis in our lives. For example, when we go to the store, we ignore the products that are about to expire, and reach back for the ones with further expiration date. Which the you think the stores would like you to purchase first? Or even at our jobs, we work on the easier or less hectic tasks first as long as we have flexibility.

2)I think - it's frustrating when you read people asking "can i file k-1 visa or switch from a tourist visa? I came into the U.S for some reason, and then i met the man/woman of my dreams. So it wasn't my "true" intentions." Really, really? You never once thought there is a chance you could meet someone when you relocate to another country for a length of time? LOL. It's so unfair that these people don't have the intent, but at least they get to still hang around the person they love... but we that admit we have intent from the start, we have to wait for a long period of time to be with our loved ones!

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Hey VJmaniacs..

Since its now 4months that my lady and I have been waiting for NOA2, I've decided to start a mini-opinionated topics on a weekly basis (or regularity could change depending on how much participation I get) or at least until I get my NOA2 or until VJ guards complain.

Let's just say these topics would circle around things you have thought about or read that you decided not to express how you really felt. Now, I'm not trying to offend anyone, but on the other hand, this is how I'll be expressing my frustration on waiting rather than crying/pouting.

Like Eminem will sing or the late Bernie Mac will joke,"I'm only saying the things you feel but hesitant to express." So if you have some sense of humor, join me and comment on both or any topic I post. Let's kick it off.. with two topics this week. Have at it and make it HOT!

1)I think - it's funny when we blame or frustrated at USCIS for not responding to our petitions yet or when we feel it's not a first come, first serve basis. Meanwhile, this is what we do on a regular basis in our lives. For example, when we go to the store, we ignore the products that are about to expire, and reach back for the ones with further expiration date. Which the you think the stores would like you to purchase first? Or even at our jobs, we work on the easier or less hectic tasks first as long as we have flexibility.

2)I think - it's frustrating when you read people asking "can i file k-1 visa or switch from a tourist visa? I came into the U.S for some reason, and then i met the man/woman of my dreams. So it wasn't my "true" intentions." Really, really? You never once thought there is a chance you could meet someone when you relocate to another country for a length of time? LOL. It's so unfair that these people don't have the intent, but at least they get to still hang around the person they love... but we that admit we have intent from the start, we have to wait for a long period of time to be with our loved ones!

Glad u have a sense of humor thats really cool!.... sure glad and thankful my pouting and whining is over I would cry every time I called USCIS OR NVC... (returned petitons are the worst) nearly a year before it got back to the states then when I would call each one would say the other had the petition I looked like a racoon I has so many sleepless nights ... I was missing my honey like crazy not mention I was pregant during that stressful time... wish I could"ve played it cool like your doing instead of worrying and stressing ...

[Darnell 8,479]

these things show up in the monthly progress report topics for both I-130 and NVC processing.

Have you joined a monthly forum, yet?