American Men Think They’re Better in Bed Than They Actually Are

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

Eighty-five percent of American men say the last person they had sex with had an orgasm. And yet, only 64 percent of American women say they had an orgasm the last time they had sex. What's going on, guys?

The "orgasm gap"—which is too big to be explained away by men whose most recent sexual encounter was with another man—is one of the findings of a huge new national sex survey, the largest since 1994, undertaken by Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion and published in a special issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine available here.

What are men doing wrong? Besides being really gullible? According to the survey, "women are more likely to orgasm when they engage in a variety of sex acts and when oral sex or vaginal intercourse is included," so maybe, you know, uh, switch it up a little more. You know, in bed. If you catch my drift. Sexually. (Women, if you're looking for a tip, here it is: "Men are more likely to orgasm when sex includes vaginal intercourse.")

From Gawker

[one...two...tree 2,762]

That's pure BS. Look, if American women want to fake their way through a relationship, so be it. Just don't blame us guys for having faith in honesty.

[Obama 2012 1,714]

So did they ask the Same women these guys had sex with?

It's a bit absurd to make any type of assumption without using the same ladies (or guys) that the men/women had sex with last.

[Amby 490]

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Why do American women think they entitled to orgasm with every sexual encounter? Is this some kind of prenuptial agreement?

[tjnielsen 2]

well Considering its around 60 percent of women don't have orgasm from straight ####### intercourse... and over 90 percent of women have faked an orgasm anyway so do they even know what one is.... but if your a man and can't get your women off you might need to change it around.. And its not just American Men. Every man thinks he is good in bed.... if you want the truth don't fake it next time.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

well Considering its around 60 percent of women don't have orgasm from straight ####### intercourse... and over 90 percent of women have faked an orgasm anyway so do they even know what one is.... but if your a man and can't get your women off you might need to change it around.. And its not just American Men. Every man thinks he is good in bed.... if you want the truth don't fake it next time.

Are you male or female?

[^_^ 5,021]

Are you male or female?

Gender ambiguous I bet.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Why do American women think they entitled to orgasm with every sexual encounter? Is this some kind of prenuptial agreement?

I didn't get an orgasm with my last sexual encounter. Why should any woman be special?

Edited May 21, 2011 by Some Old Guy

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I didn't get an orgasm with my last sexual encounter. Why should any woman be special?

Yeah, I'm not sure where this entitlement mentality comes from in the bedroom. What if I felt I was entitled to mind blowing BJ every night, should I start complaining?

[Amby 490]

I didn't get an orgasm with my last sexual encounter. Why should any woman be special?

it doesn't have to happen every time, but if it never happens that's a big problem

Edited May 21, 2011 by Amby

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Yeah, I'm not sure where this entitlement mentality comes from in the bedroom. What if I felt I was entitled to mind blowing BJ every night, should I start complaining?

I am tired of being treated as a sexual object!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I am tired of being treated as a sexual object!

Do what they do to us. Withhold sex until she realizes your POV.

Edited May 21, 2011 by 8TBVBN

[Amby 490]

Do what they do to us. Withhold sex until she realizes your POV.

women just take a lover

[Amby 490]

btw this reminded me of something I read the other day. men can now pejazzle!