Waiting...

[Nicole-N-Nattoy 24]

I will tell you that the closer it got to the end of the process the more higher were the stress levels and anxiety. Just don't give up and know it is completely natural. I petitioned for the love of my life Natoy despite all the heat I was taking from family and friends worried he was no good. The minute I saw him at the airport all the worry was all gone and replaced with bliss. He is here and I couldn't be happier. He is the best man I ever had and I am having the best time of my life. So hang in there. It is very scary and it really is a journy but if you reach the finish line you would have already overcome so many things together!!! I'm looking at my fiance right now and I appreciate everything we went through for me to beable to look over at him whenever i want. Hug him! Kiss him! cuddle with him! This process is not easy, we had fights and miserable moments, but worth it to be with someone who loves you as much as you love them

[ThomKimQC 14]

long distance relationship needs a lot of patience,sacrifice,trust to one another and hard work

my fiance also dont have patience sitting infront of pc bcoz he got easilly tired typing he rather pay thousands US dollar talking me on the phone but im really glad we survive the ups and down of having long distance relationship and here we are now over 1yr getting much stronger!!!

ABSENCES makes the heart grow more founder

Edited March 23, 2011 by ThomKimQC

[wendie and sam 4]

I wonder if Skype will sponsor all of our weddings because it seems like everyone, including us, uses Skype as one of their primary means of communication.

My SO and I do skype and chat and call each other and write love notes and emails, etc. etc. But we also try to see each other every 3-4 months, even now during this process. We are both very blessed with jobs that will allow us to keep up this schedule, he was here in February, will be here in the US again in May and I will be in the UK visiting him in early September.

We also try to meet up in the middle to extend our 'vacationship', just so he's not coming here a million times or me going there a million times we've met in France, Ireland, Mexico, Puerto Rico... etc. etc.

I think the diversity of meeting up in other countries/locations has helped us focus on each other rather than daily life where either one of us live.

Hope it all works out for you!! Keep up the communication like everyone else suggested!

[jpidgley 9]

hey.

i'm in england and my fiancee is in california. we skype everyday....and its still tough as hell.

after about 3 months i just resigned to myself that it was going to take forever, and i needed to just forget about the visa unless i was physically doing something with it (like filling in forms).

The 8 hours difference (7 at the moment due to DST) is a killer but this is what we do. I get up at 3am and we talk till i have to get ready for work. when i get ready for work she goes to sleep (btween 11-midnight CA time) i go to work and she sleeps, then when she goes to work and i come home i go to sleep at about 6-7pm. then she gets home form work and i wake up at 3am and repeat. Not much of a social life there, but its the way we have found it easiest.