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jrmejia   31

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Hello VJRs,

I've read some where in the internet that in the Philippines, usually, it is the girl who breaks up with the boyfriend. Not the other way around. Is that a true statement? How is that possible? I am a bit confused with that reading. I hope some one can add a cent or two.

Thanks.

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  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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♥Muslimqueen♥   2

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No were is it that the girl/boy breaks up with the other. if someone is un happy they break up with the other. has nothing to do with gender.

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Markieboy   104

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I've always heard that men are the pedal and women are the brakes...

I really don't think that's true in most cases.

I think there is an even distribution on who initiates the break-up.

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Tahoma   2,291

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There's no viagra for your backbone. If you want to break up with her, just do it. What are you waiting for?

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James & Julie   1

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There's no viagra for your backbone. If you want to break up with her, just do it. What are you waiting for?

LOVE That Quote ... I'll be using it often ... thanx for the humor !!!

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RVIANE♛   5

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Hello VJRs,

I've read some where in the internet that in the Philippines, usually, it is the girl who breaks up with the boyfriend. Not the other way around. Is that a true statement? How is that possible? I am a bit confused with that reading. I hope some one can add a cent or two.

Thanks.

if you found out that your girlfriend is cheating on you, you gonna wait until she breaks up with you? lmao

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jrmejia Proficient

jrmejia   31

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Guys,

I was curious about that finding. That is why I asked the question. I found it odd too.

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Neal851   3

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I've always heard that men are the pedal and women are the brakes...

I really don't think that's true in most cases.

I think there is an even distribution on who initiates the break-up.

Absolutely right!!

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_Simpson_   250

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No were is it that the girl/boy breaks up with the other. if someone is un happy they break up with the other. has nothing to do with gender.

It would only make sense that if the ratio of woman to men is higher then you're more likely to see more woman breaking up with men then men breaking up with woman. I agree with you on the fact that it really has nothing to do with gender. So many other things play a factor in a break up.

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A and T   82

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Read this about Love and Courtship in the philippines, I believe its true, or has some truths still in modern society

http://www.seasite.niu.edu/Tagalog/love.htm

I think some things can be misinterpreted by Americans at times

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