Circumcision

[mawilson 2,133]

Unless hairs it doesn't grow back!!! the pain in the ### it is to trim/shave/tweeze or whatever makes it even, no?

Ever consider permanent laser hair removal?

If you're paying I'll take you up on it. Hope your wallet is deep cause it's EXPENSIVE.

Are you paying for my circumcision?

[babybunny 2]

It does make me think, though, how much of a weight people put on that. I mean, do people actually go 'I'm sorry, I can't love you, your ####### has extra skin on it and it's ugly'. Would that seriously be a breaking point for someone in a relationship if he didn't want to get circumcised and his girlfriend/fiancee' preferred it that way. I'm wondering how many men would put themselves through that sort of thing for someone they love, especially as adults, could you imagine... OW!

In my case, I'm American and our general populace is circumcised. But I fell in love with a man from Europe, where it isn't as wide-spread as it is here. When we were first talking, it never even came up. How often do you ask someone you've never met about their crotch? I didn't discover it until we actually met for the first time, and by then I was hopelessly in love with him so it didn't matter to me. I like him as he is, extra skin and all.

it would be a breaking point in the relationship for me. I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

[Carola 0]

It does make me think, though, how much of a weight people put on that. I mean, do people actually go 'I'm sorry, I can't love you, your ####### has extra skin on it and it's ugly'. Would that seriously be a breaking point for someone in a relationship if he didn't want to get circumcised and his girlfriend/fiancee' preferred it that way. I'm wondering how many men would put themselves through that sort of thing for someone they love, especially as adults, could you imagine... OW!

In my case, I'm American and our general populace is circumcised. But I fell in love with a man from Europe, where it isn't as wide-spread as it is here. When we were first talking, it never even came up. How often do you ask someone you've never met about their crotch? I didn't discover it until we actually met for the first time, and by then I was hopelessly in love with him so it didn't matter to me. I like him as he is, extra skin and all.

it would be a breaking point in the relationship for me. I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

So when you dated men... did you ask the question before having sex?

[babybunny 2]

It does make me think, though, how much of a weight people put on that. I mean, do people actually go 'I'm sorry, I can't love you, your ####### has extra skin on it and it's ugly'. Would that seriously be a breaking point for someone in a relationship if he didn't want to get circumcised and his girlfriend/fiancee' preferred it that way. I'm wondering how many men would put themselves through that sort of thing for someone they love, especially as adults, could you imagine... OW!

In my case, I'm American and our general populace is circumcised. But I fell in love with a man from Europe, where it isn't as wide-spread as it is here. When we were first talking, it never even came up. How often do you ask someone you've never met about their crotch? I didn't discover it until we actually met for the first time, and by then I was hopelessly in love with him so it didn't matter to me. I like him as he is, extra skin and all.

it would be a breaking point in the relationship for me. I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

So when you dated men... did you ask the question before having sex?

yes....

it ranks up there with STDs and AIDs.- Iwanna know about that too.

I want to know about the person that is about to have part of my soul.

I have a twin brother. I rember our adoptive parents taking my

twin brother to get his "dooter" cut. I knew it hurt him but, it had to be done.

Edited August 19, 2006 by babybunny

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

It does make me think, though, how much of a weight people put on that. I mean, do people actually go 'I'm sorry, I can't love you, your ####### has extra skin on it and it's ugly'. Would that seriously be a breaking point for someone in a relationship if he didn't want to get circumcised and his girlfriend/fiancee' preferred it that way. I'm wondering how many men would put themselves through that sort of thing for someone they love, especially as adults, could you imagine... OW!

In my case, I'm American and our general populace is circumcised. But I fell in love with a man from Europe, where it isn't as wide-spread as it is here. When we were first talking, it never even came up. How often do you ask someone you've never met about their crotch? I didn't discover it until we actually met for the first time, and by then I was hopelessly in love with him so it didn't matter to me. I like him as he is, extra skin and all.

it would be a breaking point in the relationship for me. I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

Okay if you have never had it, how do you know it is nasty????? If they weren't supposed to be that way, why are they born that way. I used to think it was nasty, but I was certainly educated.

[Carola 0]

I don't think it's nasty... if the guy is clean I don't see the problem

[Laveau 67]

It does make me think, though, how much of a weight people put on that. I mean, do people actually go 'I'm sorry, I can't love you, your ####### has extra skin on it and it's ugly'. Would that seriously be a breaking point for someone in a relationship if he didn't want to get circumcised and his girlfriend/fiancee' preferred it that way. I'm wondering how many men would put themselves through that sort of thing for someone they love, especially as adults, could you imagine... OW!

In my case, I'm American and our general populace is circumcised. But I fell in love with a man from Europe, where it isn't as wide-spread as it is here. When we were first talking, it never even came up. How often do you ask someone you've never met about their crotch? I didn't discover it until we actually met for the first time, and by then I was hopelessly in love with him so it didn't matter to me. I like him as he is, extra skin and all.

it would be a breaking point in the relationship for me. I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

LOL. Shon, you're a trip!

[beccaogingi 0]

I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

I could see making this comment about a tattooed #######, or about a guy with a bizarre genital piercing...

But something they are born with????? "Something nasty like that"?

[babybunny 2]

I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

I could see making this comment about a tattooed #######, or about a guy with a bizarre genital piercing...

But something they are born with????? "Something nasty like that"?

actully my ex husband had a piercing down there ..AFTER we married

I divorced is azzz. really fast. I would not even allow him to touch me!

but, being uncut is against my religon its also against my belife. if you wanna be with someone

that can give you nasty infections that YOU. I refuse.

It does make me think, though, how much of a weight people put on that. I mean, do people actually go 'I'm sorry, I can't love you, your ####### has extra skin on it and it's ugly'. Would that seriously be a breaking point for someone in a relationship if he didn't want to get circumcised and his girlfriend/fiancee' preferred it that way. I'm wondering how many men would put themselves through that sort of thing for someone they love, especially as adults, could you imagine... OW!

In my case, I'm American and our general populace is circumcised. But I fell in love with a man from Europe, where it isn't as wide-spread as it is here. When we were first talking, it never even came up. How often do you ask someone you've never met about their crotch? I didn't discover it until we actually met for the first time, and by then I was hopelessly in love with him so it didn't matter to me. I like him as he is, extra skin and all.

it would be a breaking point in the relationship for me. I never dated a man with something nasty like that.. oh hell no..

Okay if you have never had it, how do you know it is nasty????? If they weren't supposed to be that way, why are they born that way. I used to think it was nasty, but I was certainly educated.

I dont have to sleep with a man to know that something - UNCLEAN is on his body.

I know early on that being uncut is NASTY! thats why its supposed to be done when they are babies.

this is something certainly me and my husband will make sure our sons are CUT.

I realized something is all white people that like that UNCUT. cant relate - I am not white. - that explains it..

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

actully my ex husband had a piercing down there ..AFTER we married

I divorced is azzz. really fast. I would not even allow him to touch me!

but, being uncut is against my religon its also against my belife. if you wanna be with someone

that can give you nasty infections that YOU. I refuse.

I dont have to sleep with a man to know that something - UNCLEAN is on his body.

I know early on that being uncut is NASTY! thats why its supposed to be done when they are babies.

this is something certainly me and my husband will make sure our sons are CUT.

I realized something is all white people that like that UNCUT. cant relate - I am not white. - that explains it..

If I were purple, I would still feel the same.

As far as religion:

114 32:7

"He is the One who PERFECTED everything He created, and started the creation of the human from clay."

1 Corinthians 12:18

But now God has set the members, each one of them, in the body, just as he DESIRED.

I suppose with any religion you can take out the bits and pieces you want and apply it to your life.

I suffered infections from a circumsized ex-husband but not once from my uncircumsized husband.

This isn't about black, white, blue or green. It isn't about religion because you can find in both the Quran and Bible the statement that God created man perfectly. What it is about is lack of knowledge, basing ones facts on what they are taught or what they think they know.

The flip side of this, I could say that if you want to marry someone who is to lazy to keep themselves washed appropriately to the point they need to remove a portion of their body more power to ya. What you are implying is that an uncircumsized man is going to be a carrier of disease. I strongly disagree with this simply because it is implying my husband is going to run around screwing everything in sight bringing infections home. Medically your husband (circumsized male) could bring home an STD at the same rate my husband (uncircumsized male) could, and if your husband or mine doesn't wash their wee wees you are going to get infections as well as I would. I guess you and I both could continue to believe what our mothers and grandmothers taught us, but my thought on this .............THEY DIDN'T HAVE PENISES........so I don't consider them experts.

We can prefer what we want to prefer, but I still feel like this choice should be left to the male. IMO neither cut or uncut is disgusting, what is disgusting is a man or even a woman who can't keep themselves clean enough to prevent infections. I am not attempting or even going to attempt to change your mind, but at least educate yourself on the good and bad of something before making a one sided assumption, might I suggest a Google? You say you knew early on it was nasty, you knew this how?

Edited August 20, 2006 by Tim and Bethanie

[PlatyPius 5]

Bethanie sez:

"You say you knew early on it was nasty, you knew this how?"

The ####### Faerie told her when she was just a wee tyke......

Edited August 20, 2006 by Cian

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

Sorry I couldn't resist. I find them both equally tastey!

[mary&tom 0]

What I find nasty is a close minded attitude. I am ok with religious choices but to just flat out state that something natural is "nasty" sounds nasty to me.

I voted that I don't care either way. If I love someone and he loves me then circumcised vs uncircumcised is a non-issue. To reject someone based on whether or not he is circumcised just doesn't make any sense to me. Saying it is unclean also makes no sense to me... we do have bathtubs and showers and sinks.

mary

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

What I find nasty is a close minded attitude. I am ok with religious choices but to just flat out state that something natural is "nasty" sounds nasty to me.

I voted that I don't care either way. If I love someone and he loves me then circumcised vs uncircumcised is a non-issue. To reject someone based on whether or not he is circumcised just doesn't make any sense to me. Saying it is unclean also makes no sense to me... we do have bathtubs and showers and sinks.

mary

Or you could always toss a little dirt on it!

When it's time to pray and you have just used the toilet or touched a woman, be sure to wash up. If you can't find any water, just rub some dirt on yourself. 5:6

Just hope if you were the woman he touched, he doesn't come back and touch you again. Would put a new meaning on making mud pie!

[Jenn! 918]

Sorry I couldn't resist. I find them both equally tastey!

Banana peels don't taste very good...