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good day everyone,It sucks i've got RFE in the mail today :crying: don't know what are the lacking evedence they were asking for :( I"ve gotta wait for the official noticed in the mail and I'm going crazy thinkin' what it could be:(

I'm hoping that it isn't something to do with the AFFIDAVIT OF SUPPORT coz when we are preparing for the papers,I have my husband's copy of his STUFFS related to the affidavit of support I asked him if all that they requested are here he told me that he included verything that he HAD in hand,I asked him what were those papers he said that all he knew is he photocoppied everything his paperworkS.He was kind of getting pissed with all those paper works stuff we are preparing and he is not really explaining every papers that he photocoppied,I don't know nothing about his papers as my husband quiet private with his stuff.So I'm praying that this RFE hasn't something to do with his papers coz if it does I'll be hurt and don't know how to deal with it.

Also we don't have any Joint account,or whatever joint stuffs that most couple has.All we have is the car insurance,that shows my name in it too.I don't want to keep pushing him about having a joint account or anything that will make him feel uncomfortable.I'm just thinking that if he is really interested on getting me more involved to his life being his wife he knows what to do,and what we need to do.I tried to avoid about discussing something that involves money as I don't want him feel uncomfortable,as before we got married he open up the prenuptial agreement,which for me he is protecting himself financially,but I don't signed anything because I know that my intentions on marrying him is genuine so we got married without any pren up.I LOVE HIM SO MUCH and that's all I care when I decided to marry him.I know he loves me so much too and that's the thing that hold us up to now.It just hurt me when I felt that he is very private person even to me,he is in control of everything and I'm prety much depending him and our marriage,sometimes I don't feel any responsibility being a wife.He paid bills,he open up his own mails,and everything,he don't even shows me the bills if I don't ask.He went groceries for us sometimes we did it together.I wanted to help him lessen his responsibility when he was single.what I can't do anything as I don't have any source of income rightnow.I mostly go to his work everyday help him answering phonecalls but I don't have any salary from there as I'm his wife and I'm happy to help him out there for free.He got some workers and it makes me felt better thinkin I help him in any way I could.sometimes I just felt frustrated when I don't have any money to buy something for the house and for him,and needed to ask him it feels embarrased.

Sorry guys I should stop now.I just felt crying out my emotions...

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good day everyone,It sucks i've got RFE in the mail today :crying: don't know what are the lacking evedence they were asking for :( I"ve gotta wait for the official noticed in the mail and I'm going crazy thinkin' what it could be:(

I'm hoping that it isn't something to do with the AFFIDAVIT OF SUPPORT coz when we are preparing for the papers,I have my husband's copy of his STUFFS related to the affidavit of support I asked him if all that they requested are here he told me that he included verything that he HAD in hand,I asked him what were those papers he said that all he knew is he photocoppied everything his paperworkS.He was kind of getting pissed with all those paper works stuff we are preparing and he is not really explaining every papers that he photocoppied,I don't know nothing about his papers as my husband quiet private with his stuff.So I'm praying that this RFE hasn't something to do with his papers coz if it does I'll be hurt and don't know how to deal with it.

Also we don't have any Joint account,or whatever joint stuffs that most couple has.All we have is the car insurance,that shows my name in it too.I don't want to keep pushing him about having a joint account or anything that will make him feel uncomfortable.I'm just thinking that if he is really interested on getting me more involved to his life being his wife he knows what to do,and what we need to do.I tried to avoid about discussing something that involves money as I don't want him feel uncomfortable,as before we got married he open up the prenuptial agreement,which for me he is protecting himself financially,but I don't signed anything because I know that my intentions on marrying him is genuine so we got married without any pren up.I LOVE HIM SO MUCH and that's all I care when I decided to marry him.I know he loves me so much too and that's the thing that hold us up to now.It just hurt me when I felt that he is very private person even to me,he is in control of everything and I'm prety much depending him and our marriage,sometimes I don't feel any responsibility being a wife.He paid bills,he open up his own mails,and everything,he don't even shows me the bills if I don't ask.He went groceries for us sometimes we did it together.I wanted to help him lessen his responsibility when he was single.what I can't do anything as I don't have any source of income rightnow.I mostly go to his work everyday help him answering phonecalls but I don't have any salary from there as I'm his wife and I'm happy to help him out there for free.He got some workers and it makes me felt better thinkin I help him in any way I could.sometimes I just felt frustrated when I don't have any money to buy something for the house and for him,and needed to ask him it feels embarrased.

Sorry guys I should stop now.I just felt crying out my emotions...

sounds like he wanted a maid and not a wife

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ya, the email notification usually not say 'what its for', just a notice that ya got an RFE

wait for the postal mail, it may be something not related to the I-864, ya never know.

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ya, the email notification usually not say 'what its for', just a notice that ya got an RFE

wait for the postal mail, it may be something not related to the I-864, ya never know.

@flustered,thanks for the reply,I don't really feel him that way he is not like that,I am not force to do anything in the house or in the office,so I don't really feel that he treat me like a made,what I am saying is I don't feel like having a wife's responsibility as he took care everything from paying bills,planning the changes of the house and going to a grocery store sometimes we did it together though.we havent had a joint account at the bills or at the bank,he is planning that few months ago but we havent done anything yet.maybe he is just a very private person,he doesn't want me to open mail that adressed to him.which I don't open anyway unless he asked it just I always open to him every single detail of my life and happenings.

@Darnell,yea am waiting for it,I felt better that I voiced out my feelings here in vj.

 
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