Both Pet / Ben Divorce complication follow-up

[US_SL 2]

Hi guys,

I posted certain apects of this issue few days back and it had jumped to page 7 of this forum now. But im providing sensitive details below for my colleagues insight and here is goes...

1. Got married in Sri lanka October 2002 (I was a resident)also had grand wedding with lots of fmaily and friends - she was 7 years younger to me

2. Visited here every year for a month until 2005 (3 times)

3. I became a citizen in January 2007

4. She migrated based on approved I-130 in March 2007

5. Too many problems have caused us to reconsider teh marriage and after a big struggle both decided to call it quit before a child in late 2007 (typical family related issues and long seperation is teh main factor)

6. She found a job and i was behind her to every step of the way and we bacme more of brother sister than a husband wife.

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[US_SL 2]

SORRY GUYS I HIT THE WRONG BUTTON. HERE IS TEH FULL POST:

Hi guys,

I posted certain apects of this issue few days back and it had jumped to page 7 of this forum now. But im providing sensitive details below for my colleagues insight and here is goes...

1. Got married in Sri lanka October 2002 (I was a resident)also had grand wedding with lots of fmaily and friends - she was 7 years younger to me

2. Visited here every year for a month until 2005 (3 times)

3. I became a citizen in January 2007

4. She migrated based on approved I-130 in March 2007

5. Too many problems have caused us to reconsider teh marriage and after a big struggle both decided to call it quit before a child in late 2007 (typical family related issues and long seperation is teh main factor)

6. She found a job and i was behind her to every step of the way and we bacme more of brother sister than a husband wife.

7. Offered her a very good settlement as i wanted to her to have those as poor aldy spent almost 5 years with em at teh time.

8. Filed divorce in SL as i got married in SL (Thru Power of attorney)

9. I fell in love with my fiancee in October 2008 but at that time we were still in the same house.

10. My ex moved out in April 2009.

11 My divorce is final in October 2009 (exactly 7 years after my marriage)

12. My fiancee also filed for divorce (she was married to german man and she has travelled exensively, currently have an active schengan visa plus 10 year UK visiting visa)

13. Whe she filed for divorce she was seperating from her husband almost 2.5 years

14. Her divorce finalized in May 2010.

I visited her twice already. Right after my divorce and right after her divorce

15. Filed for K-1 3 weeks ago.

Here is the question: Will teh embassy not give her a visa because i got my ex-wife here?

Thank you all

[pushbrk 14,560]

SORRY GUYS I HIT THE WRONG BUTTON. HERE IS TEH FULL POST:

Hi guys,

I posted certain apects of this issue few days back and it had jumped to page 7 of this forum now. But im providing sensitive details below for my colleagues insight and here is goes...

1. Got married in Sri lanka October 2002 (I was a resident)also had grand wedding with lots of fmaily and friends - she was 7 years younger to me

2. Visited here every year for a month until 2005 (3 times)

3. I became a citizen in January 2007

4. She migrated based on approved I-130 in March 2007

5. Too many problems have caused us to reconsider teh marriage and after a big struggle both decided to call it quit before a child in late 2007 (typical family related issues and long seperation is teh main factor)

6. She found a job and i was behind her to every step of the way and we bacme more of brother sister than a husband wife.

7. Offered her a very good settlement as i wanted to her to have those as poor aldy spent almost 5 years with em at teh time.

8. Filed divorce in SL as i got married in SL (Thru Power of attorney)

9. I fell in love with my fiancee in October 2008 but at that time we were still in the same house.

10. My ex moved out in April 2009.

11 My divorce is final in October 2009 (exactly 7 years after my marriage)

12. My fiancee also filed for divorce (she was married to german man and she has travelled exensively, currently have an active schengan visa plus 10 year UK visiting visa)

13. Whe she filed for divorce she was seperating from her husband almost 2.5 years

14. Her divorce finalized in May 2010.

I visited her twice already. Right after my divorce and right after her divorce

15. Filed for K-1 3 weeks ago.

Here is the question: Will teh embassy not give her a visa because i got my ex-wife here?

Thank you all

None of the above is a reason for denial. It all relates to the evaluation of the new relationship. Your fiancee is likely to face some additional scrutiny of the relationship's bona fides during the interview. She should be well prepared to discuss your relationship and its evolution as well as the circumstances and dates of both divorces.

Your time together in person is the strongest evidence of a bona fide relationship so spend as much time together as possible and make sure it is well documented.

[US_SL 2]

None of the above is a reason for denial. It all relates to the evaluation of the new relationship. Your fiancee is likely to face some additional scrutiny of the relationship's bona fides during the interview. She should be well prepared to discuss your relationship and its evolution as well as the circumstances and dates of both divorces.

Your time together in person is the strongest evidence of a bona fide relationship so spend as much time together as possible and make sure it is well documented.

Great. Thank you.

Another question; I have sent some monies to her for some remodelling in her house (even though she owns it she consider it as "our" house) as i felt home with her since the day i met her. Does those things create problems or make the relationship stronger?

Thank you.

[US_SL 2]

None of the above is a reason for denial. It all relates to the evaluation of the new relationship. Your fiancee is likely to face some additional scrutiny of the relationship's bona fides during the interview. She should be well prepared to discuss your relationship and its evolution as well as the circumstances and dates of both divorces.

Your time together in person is the strongest evidence of a bona fide relationship so spend as much time together as possible and make sure it is well documented.

I already visited her twice since november last year. Travle to that part of the world is very expensive. But i am willing to make another trip just before the interview if you guys agree and think it will make more sense. What would you think if i attend the interview with my fiancee?

[pushbrk 14,560]

Great. Thank you.

Another question; I have sent some monies to her for some remodelling in her house (even though she owns it she consider it as "our" house) as i felt home with her since the day i met her. Does those things create problems or make the relationship stronger?

Thank you.

I would just keep that to yourself. It doesn't help and CAN hurt your case.

[US_SL 2]

I would just keep that to yourself. It doesn't help and CAN hurt your case.

Thank you.

Do you think i should submit a detailed letter explaining why i got divorced with settlement supports and submit with the packet 3 documents OR have that ready in case if the CO ask what happened? Or just not do anything and be quite about it and let my fiancee explain the situation. She can perhaps start with "to begin with they were seperated for 4.5 years after teh marrige" which make the CO thinks it is due to an immigration issue as well (availability of immigrant visas for GC holders spouses)

Thank you so much!

[pushbrk 14,560]

Thank you.

Do you think i should submit a detailed letter explaining why i got divorced with settlement supports and submit with the packet 3 documents OR have that ready in case if the CO ask what happened? Or just not do anything and be quite about it and let my fiancee explain the situation. She can perhaps start with "to begin with they were seperated for 4.5 years after teh marrige" which make the CO thinks it is due to an immigration issue as well (availability of immigrant visas for GC holders spouses)

Thank you so much!

You'll submit your divorce decree in whatever format it comes. Your fiancee should be prepared to truthfully explain and or answer any questions she may be asked. If your circumstances are too complicated for you to analyze and prepare explanations for on your own, perhaps it would be wise to engage professional assistance from somebody with whom you can share all the necessary confidential information and is equipped to adequately guide you.

[US_SL 2]

You'll submit your divorce decree in whatever format it comes. Your fiancee should be prepared to truthfully explain and or answer any questions she may be asked. If your circumstances are too complicated for you to analyze and prepare explanations for on your own, perhaps it would be wise to engage professional assistance from somebody with whom you can share all the necessary confidential information and is equipped to adequately guide you.

Thank you. I think i will need that special insight in this case at least to have someone interview my F over the skype or something with tough questions until that person feels the answer is good.