up for the interview: the first time vs. the second time

[CoolHand2x2y2z 0]

From my timeline below you can see that we are up to bat in some short days.

The first round, I recall knowing that this whole process was difficult but I was so innocent about the fubar way things are set up over there at that compound we call the US Consulate.

My wife and I were so hyped and convinced that we would be approved that the denial took us to the depths of despair, as I am sure so are a lot of people who leave those doors each day.

Since then, we both have become sort of immune to the whole thing. I guess when you reach a certain level of emotional tolerance that you can't go any further. Now, we are up to bat again and this time the evidence is 100% better but our spirits are not high; we just don't want to get our hopes up.

There aren't enough words for me to say how I feel about the immigration process to sponsor a spouse out of Vietnam...

So, I encourage my wife as the days get closer and as she's preparing for the interview. I try to keep things upbeat. But deep down, I have no idea how it will turn out.

I only know of one thing: My wife will come here or I'll be leaving everything behind and moving to Asia.

We will both find out soon enough!

[Bernie C 24]

Your dedication and endurance is a testament to your love

Wish you the Best and hope everything works out!

[sachinky 464]

I just wanted to wish you all the very best. Good luck!

[Kevin and 10]

From my timeline below you can see that we are up to bat in some short days.

The first round, I recall knowing that this whole process was difficult but I was so innocent about the fubar way things are set up over there at that compound we call the US Consulate.

My wife and I were so hyped and convinced that we would be approved that the denial took us to the depths of despair, as I am sure so are a lot of people who leave those doors each day.

Since then, we both have become sort of immune to the whole thing. I guess when you reach a certain level of emotional tolerance that you can't go any further. Now, we are up to bat again and this time the evidence is 100% better but our spirits are not high; we just don't want to get our hopes up.

There aren't enough words for me to say how I feel about the immigration process to sponsor a spouse out of Vietnam...

So, I encourage my wife as the days get closer and as she's preparing for the interview. I try to keep things upbeat. But deep down, I have no idea how it will turn out.

I only know of one thing: My wife will come here or I'll be leaving everything behind and moving to Asia.

We will both find out soon enough!

Good luck! Just prepare for the interview. Everything else is done. No worries you're getting a pink sheet.

[ScottThuy 140]

Agreed... it would take an aweful lot to get denied a second time... If you are all prepared and have everything in order.. there should be no issues... Kevin is a good example of that...

[BinhJerome 14]

Good luck, hopefully you wont have to be my neighbor I am sure this time all will work out, the first time was a wake up call, one that you should not have had to make, so this time everything should run as smoothly as possible. Just go there prepared (I am sure you are VERY prepared already) Good luck and God Bless Jerome and Binh

[CoolHand2x2y2z 0]

Good luck, hopefully you wont have to be my neighbor I am sure this time all will work out, the first time was a wake up call, one that you should not have had to make, so this time everything should run as smoothly as possible. Just go there prepared (I am sure you are VERY prepared already) Good luck and God Bless Jerome and Binh

If I move to HCMC, the first dog is on me! While there, I saw THREE pooch restaurants right by each other. You buy the beers and I'll load us up with eats! LOL

[BinhJerome 14]

If I move to HCMC, the first dog is on me! While there, I saw THREE pooch restaurants right by each other. You buy the beers and I'll load us up with eats! LOL

LOL!!! you know I am an animal lover, so that wont happen, but if you do move here I will buy the first round of beer, I will stick with tea or a mixed drink though as I dont really drink beer

[andy777 0]

Hey, we are on the same boat and I know exactly how u feel.I been there will u when both of our wife got denied by the CO.Just be prepare this time bro. My wife will have her interview a week after yur wife. Right now we just prepare for all of knuckle ball the CO will throw at my wife. Hope this time both of our wife will get pink. The sun will always shine after a big storm.

[feelinglucky 1]

Kevin said the second time was pretty smooth for him, and it was also for me, I think it was only smooth because we were prepared for the interview and knew the answers.....not like the first time when we didnt know anything. Your file is already set with the consulate, all you guys need to do is make sure your fiancee knows the core questions about you, and if the they throw any curve balls just aim for the fences. Crossing my fingers on both hands for each of you

2x2y2z and andy777. Good Luck and stay confident for you SO

Edited June 5, 2010 by feelinglucky

[luckytxn 2,263]

Hey, we are on the same boat and I know exactly how u feel.I been there will u when both of our wife got denied by the CO.Just be prepare this time bro. My wife will have her interview a week after yur wife. Right now we just prepare for all of knuckle ball the CO will throw at my wife. Hope this time both of our wife will get pink. The sun will always shine after a big storm.

Just wanted to say that I will say a prayer for you both and God bless and good luck. I do feel that the second time around there will joy and happiness. Take care.