Will divorce and I-175 waiver

[kayle 0]

I came on K1 in Nov 2008, married in Feb 2009 (2 days before 1-94 expires). Sadly, 3 weeks after that, I found he cheated. Our relationship was back and forth, cut my long ordeal short, my last finding was recent May 1 and still denied. It looks like he will not give up his unpardonable nature. It's heart wrenching but I guess divorce would be the answer and I will have to do I-175 waiver.

I have basically everything (except children with him) to show that our marriage was entered in good faith. I am going to ask him for an Affidavit, I guess his main reason would be "incompatible and irreconcilable differences" (yea save face). If I will have to interview, I could clarify my effort to salvage the marriage, or even how he started cheating and still doing it. On my part, I should also include my own Statement detailing our relationship. But I don't know how to start with, or how should I express. Can someone help me with the format?

Any kind of help/advice/encouragement is much appreciated.

[Nicole-N-Nattoy 24]

This is heart breaking. Why would he do such a thing? You worked so hard to be with him.

Now he just throw it all away. I don't have any answers for you, but I will say I'm glad

ur divorcing him and not putting up with that treatment. Don't get to down because u were

brave enough to give love a try. I pray God will bless you with a man who won't treat u that

way beacuse you deserve the best. Thankfully you don't have children together. I've been

cheated on and I know how bad that hurts, but the good news is you can learn from the pain

and it will make your future better. Best Wishes to you!

[TracyTN 237]

You mean a waiver for the I 751 (removing conditions), not an I 175 (which I've never even heard of) - is that right?

There is a 'pinned' topic at the top of this forum dedicated to this very subject. Also look at the guide on this site for removing conditions.

I've not heard of people enclosing a 'statement' detailing the turn of events. Normally you would just send in plenty of proof of a valid relationship/marriage and if they want or need more, they'll ask for it - either at an interview or in the form of an RFE.

[kayle 0]

Thanks for those kind words.

Information and knowledge gives me the strength to face tomorrow.

This is heart breaking. Why would he do such a thing? You worked so hard to be with him.

Now he just throw it all away. I don't have any answers for you, but I will say I'm glad

ur divorcing him and not putting up with that treatment. Don't get to down because u were

brave enough to give love a try. I pray God will bless you with a man who won't treat u that

way beacuse you deserve the best. Thankfully you don't have children together. I've been

cheated on and I know how bad that hurts, but the good news is you can learn from the pain

and it will make your future better. Best Wishes to you!

[kayle 0]

Yes, it is for Remove Condition.

Thank you, I will continue to research here.

You mean a waiver for the I 751 (removing conditions), not an I 175 (which I've never even heard of) - is that right?

There is a 'pinned' topic at the top of this forum dedicated to this very subject. Also look at the guide on this site for removing conditions.

I've not heard of people enclosing a 'statement' detailing the turn of events. Normally you would just send in plenty of proof of a valid relationship/marriage and if they want or need more, they'll ask for it - either at an interview or in the form of an RFE.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

I came on K1 in Nov 2008, married in Feb 2009 (2 days before 1-94 expires). Sadly, 3 weeks after that, I found he cheated. Our relationship was back and forth, cut my long ordeal short, my last finding was recent May 1 and still denied. It looks like he will not give up his unpardonable nature. It's heart wrenching but I guess divorce would be the answer and I will have to do I-175 waiver.

I have basically everything (except children with him) to show that our marriage was entered in good faith. I am going to ask him for an Affidavit, I guess his main reason would be "incompatible and irreconcilable differences" (yea save face). If I will have to interview, I could clarify my effort to salvage the marriage, or even how he started cheating and still doing it. On my part, I should also include my own Statement detailing our relationship. But I don't know how to start with, or how should I express. Can someone help me with the format?

Any kind of help/advice/encouragement is much appreciated.

Your statement will be useful as a summary of the evidence you provide, or to help explain anything about the evidence that might not be clear, but above all else you need evidence and not simply your own statement. The evidence needs to prove you actually lived together as a married couple, and that you shared a home and responsibilities as a married couple would do. They want to see things like joint bank accounts, joint tax returns, both names on the lease or title of the home, both names on bills, joint insurance policies, etc. Statements from 3rd parties who have knowledge of and can attest to the validity of the marriage can also be submitted (this means statements from someone OTHER than you or your husband). They also like to see evidence of a marital relationship, like pictures of family vacations, holidays, or special events.

You can format your statement any way you like, since it's not required and not considered primary evidence.

[kayle 0]

Alright, I should focus on the primary evidence as married couple. A statement in chronological order and attach all exhibits.

Thank you.

Your statement will be useful as a summary of the evidence you provide, or to help explain anything about the evidence that might not be clear, but above all else you need evidence and not simply your own statement. The evidence needs to prove you actually lived together as a married couple, and that you shared a home and responsibilities as a married couple would do. They want to see things like joint bank accounts, joint tax returns, both names on the lease or title of the home, both names on bills, joint insurance policies, etc. Statements from 3rd parties who have knowledge of and can attest to the validity of the marriage can also be submitted (this means statements from someone OTHER than you or your husband). They also like to see evidence of a marital relationship, like pictures of family vacations, holidays, or special events.

You can format your statement any way you like, since it's not required and not considered primary evidence.

[kayle 0]

I believe part of the marriage evidence would be same during AOS filing.