Why there are pinays out there who feels so conceited about theirselves once they arrived here in the States?

[Gumbolette 58]

I have been to few states for work purposes and sometimes when I met a filipina as well, considering the time she was just here in the states, (say just 2-6 months) they feel like they've just earn the right to be a b**ch, and some thinks their a$*es don't stink.. I mean, there are so many trying hard to blend-in that quick in the American way ( e.g the way they cloth their selves, the way they talk, interpret things). Just because some girls married a foreigner they evolved too quick. I don't blame other people why they would immediately think that these types of gals really just use their husbands as a ticket to the USA. It makes me aggravated everytime I come across with a fellow pinay who acts like this.

Why can't we just put our feet on the ground and stay humble. CAN SOMEBODY ENLIGHTEN ME WHY THIS HAPPENS???

Edited March 27, 2010 by Cutie_Patootie

[Zen Den 18]

I have been to few states for work purposes and sometimes when I met a filipina as well, considering the time she was just here in the states, (say just 2-6 months) they feel like they've just earn the right to be a b**ch, and some thinks their a$*es don't stink.. I mean, there are so many trying hard to blend-in that quick in the American way ( e.g the way they cloth their selves, the way they talk, interpret things). Just because some girls married a foreigner they evolved too quick. I don't blame other people why they would immediately think that these types of gals really just use their husbands as a ticket to the USA. It makes me aggravated everytime I come across with a fellow pinay who acts like this.

Why can't we just put our feet on the ground and stay humble. CAN SOMEBODY ENLIGHTEN ME WHY THIS HAPPENS???

it could be because they're insecure and the only way to feel good about themselves is to be someone they're totally not.

just be thankful you're not like them

[Gumbolette 58]

it could be because they're insecure and the only way to feel good about themselves is to be someone they're totally not.

just be thankful you're not like them

You hit the nail on its head.

[coraliesolms 47]

I cant comment on your post... but I do want to say.. YOUR BABY IS SUUUUUPER CUTE!!!!

[Gumbolette 58]

I cant comment on your post... but I do want to say.. YOUR BABY IS SUUUUUPER CUTE!!!!

Compliment is very much appreciated.

[Twinkido 0]

I met alot of them. they will never be my friends...(ignore)

it is always good to be HUMBLE all the time......according to them "ang nasa baba itinataas ang nasa taas ibinababa"...uuuummmmm

haha.......bato bato sa langit ang tamaan wag magagalit....

P.S. Your baby is so smart (I watched her videos) would you be interested in making your baby a commercial model? PM me.

[John&Juvy 36]

Anyone have a guts to give even just one name ? I dont LOL . But I know what you meant. Hindi na naman bago to sa ugali ng karamihang pinay na 'to. Kahit nung nasa pilipinas pa naman tayo meron na talagang mga taong ganito. Yung iba nakakain lng ng 3 beses sa isang araw at medyo bato lng yung bahay nila akala nila kaya na rin nila bilhin kapit-bahay nila so ano pa kung nasa US of A na . Sometimes you just gonna embarass for them by the way they act and talk to other pinoy. Sometimes its amussing... But sometimes its annoying. Just let them be and be who you are na lang.

[ravenbow 0]

Its interesting that you mention this..I have seen this myself and am suprised at how some have come here to America and surely changed..I dont of course know what these people were like before they moved here, but I certainly didnt like the way they acted towards me when I approached them. I am sure that they were the exception to the rule, I hope so anyway because i am marrying a filipino and i would hate to see my fiance act like this..

[Gumbolette 58]

Its interesting that you mention this..I have seen this myself and am suprised at how some have come here to America and surely changed..I dont of course know what these people were like before they moved here, but I certainly didnt like the way they acted towards me when I approached them. I am sure that they were the exception to the rule, I hope so anyway because i am marrying a filipino and i would hate to see my fiance act like this..

I didn't want to stereotype filipinas, but the reason I have brought this topic up was, a cousin of mine shared her dismay with this pinay girl whom she met from a FIL-AM community.She happens to be residing in the same city where my cousin is in. The pinay came from not so fortunate family from a Visayan place back in the Phil but when she arrived here, few months after, she started asking her husband material things,(car, expensive clothing, and gadgets)that she really have to call my cousin and brag these things. like, wth? Does she really have to do this?

First of all, we should feel thankful and very lucky for having the opportunity on meeting our husbands who happens to be from United States. We can't deny the fact that there are a lot of people who are dreaming to be engulf here in the land of milk and honey. But if we abused, and brag this opportunity that was given to us, God will never be happy and He will surely send us back to where we came from.

Edited March 27, 2010 by Cutie_Patootie

[marklovetina 52]

:thumbs: :thumbs:

sa lahat ng sinabi nyo....

agree pagkadaming pinay na ganyan hehehe... :devil:

[frostysoftyeaton 6]

Hay may mga kilala din akong ganyan. Kala mo kung sino..hay lahat nalang na meron ipinagmamalaki. 1 year and 8 months na ako dito sa USA pero 4 pa lang nakikilala ko na pinay. I don't hang out with them. I think kapag nakakakilala ako ng Pinay eh that will be the first and the last meeting. They will even inviting me to go shopping but unfortunately I hate shopping and I am a home body person. Ayaw ko ding mag-attent sa mga gatherings because of this reasons mentioned by the OP. Mas masaya pa ako kapag si hubby at ang baby namin ang kabonding ko.

[Loolie 56]

I have been to few states for work purposes and sometimes when I met a filipina as well, considering the time she was just here in the states, (say just 2-6 months) they feel like they've just earn the right to be a b**ch, and some thinks their a$*es don't stink.. I mean, there are so many trying hard to blend-in that quick in the American way ( e.g the way they cloth their selves, the way they talk, interpret things). Just because some girls married a foreigner they evolved too quick. I don't blame other people why they would immediately think that these types of gals really just use their husbands as a ticket to the USA. It makes me aggravated everytime I come across with a fellow pinay who acts like this.

Why can't we just put our feet on the ground and stay humble. CAN SOMEBODY ENLIGHTEN ME WHY THIS HAPPENS???

so far more than a year na ako dito sa hawaii pero never pa naman ako naka encounter ng ganyan... when I was working marami akong kasamahang pinay pero they were simple makapinoy ang dating din kahit ilang years na sila dito nakatira. I guess it depends na lang sa iyo if you want to be friends to a person like that. I dont hang out with filipinos here i didnt even try to find filipino friends here...why i didnt because i dont need them...I have my hubby why would i look for somebody else to make me happy...though no man is an island but you gotta choose good friends so you wont have to make such complaints like that anymore. Iba-iba naman kasi ang mga tao...kaya pag tuunan mo na lang ng pansin ang sarili mo na di maging tulad nila.

God bless you.

[Old Dominion 26]

ummm...watch the language here. Not so many understand Tagalog

[rheanick 42]

I didn't want to stereotype filipinas, but the reason I have brought this topic up was, a cousin of mine shared her dismay with this pinay girl whom she met from a FIL-AM community.She happens to be residing in the same city where my cousin is in. The pinay came from not so fortunate family from a Visayan place back in the Phil but when she arrived here, few months after, she started asking her husband material things,(car, expensive clothing, and gadgets)that she really have to call my cousin and brag these things. like, wth? Does she really have to do this?

First of all, we should feel thankful and very lucky for having the opportunity on meeting our husbands who happens to be from United States. We can't deny the fact that there are a lot of people who are dreaming to be engulf here in the land of milk and honey. But if we abused, and brag this opportunity that was given to us, God will never be happy and He will surely send us back to where we came from.

Maraming pinay na ganyan. Couple of my filipina friends did encounter those type of filipinas. I just told my friends not to talk to them.

And if you encounter those type, they are typically INSECURE PEOPLE. For your own sanity, dont bother waste your time with them.

[roseTX 0]

hahahahahaha,, naka relate tuloy ako sa topic nato,, i experienced this myself,,me and my husband attended the wedding of my neice here in US of A,,, the made of honor of my niece is a filipina too who married a american guy,,,, in the dressing room,,, me and my neice and the made of honor are only there,,, since we are all both filipinas in the room,,,i assume we speak our filipino language but this made of honor really speak english all the time and take note she is trying to pronounce it in american way,,, i talk to her in visaya way and she responded me in english,,i really want to knock her head and said hello we are all filipina here you don't have to speak english duh,,,i am really pissed off,,i believe no matter where we go we should not forget of what we are,,,