HELP!! Embassy trouble.. What should we do?

[M and F 3]

Kokeb - I sent you a PM

YES IT HAS My girl is just waiting on the phone call from the embassy. I was sent a letter that my approval was sent on to the embassy. How do you know when it has arrived? This may be the wrong place for this conversation. You can send me a private if you want.

To Orginal Poster: I am applying in Lebanon and have had great success so far. If the old information is the correct one and you fess up, let me know and I may be able to ask some questions for you with the contacts I have there.

[STEPHnRIA 2]

We have a problem. Our 129F has been approved, and my fiance and I are about to submit our papers to the Embassy (DS-156, I-134, etc...). The poblem is....

The age on her passport is different than the age on her birth certificate. This is to say that over 10 years ago when she was seeking employment abroad the agency she went through knew she was too young to legally be sponsored to work in the country, and so they obtained a passport for her that had her as being 4 years older. So now she is still working in the country and we are about to give our completed paperwork to the Embassy there, but don't know what to do about this situation. Wanting to be completely honest we've only used her real age from the beginning and a copy of her birth certificate is provided to support it. But, her passport still has the wrong age on it.

What con we do? Do you think we should just submit everything we have, wait for the embassy to ask about the descrepancy, and try to explain the situation? Or are we destined for denial because of this? What can we do??

Is your fiancee from Philippines?

[freetv 7]

If your story is indeed real the only thing you can do is hope that the officer doesn't realize your current fake year in the passport. But they often look at them pretty close.... so what I am saying is that it will be denied if you do nothing, and if you try to do something your prob going to get shipped home.

[thongd4me 69]

Is your fiancee from Philippines?

If you look at the OP's profile, there is ZERO information about ANYTHING and NO timeline as well.

Why anyone would want to respond to that is beyond me.

Look at how long he/she/it has been a member...

Look at how many posts (2 in last 6 months but 10 pages of posts that can't be viewed).

No disrespect to anyone, but this looks to me like "enabling."

(from wikipedia)

Enabling is a term with a double meaning.[1]

As a positive term, it references patterns of interaction which allow individuals to develop and grow. These may be on any scale, for example within the family,[1] or in wider society as "Enabling acts" designed to empower some group, or create a new authority for a (usually governmental) body.

In a negative sense, enabling is also used in the context of problematic behavior, to signify dysfunctional approaches that are intended to help but in fact may perpetuate a problem.[1][2] A common theme of enabling in this latter sense is that third parties take responsibility, blame, or make accommodations for a person's harmful conduct (often with the best of intentions, or from fear or insecurity which inhibits action). The practical effect is that the person themselves does not have to do so, and is shielded from awareness of the harm it may do, and the need or pressure to change. It is a major environmental cause of addiction.[3]

[SunDrop 59]

Do you think you'll get in trouble if you post your real timeline here or something?

I would worry in their position. The USCIS do lurk on VJ, allegedly, and just how many Sudanese/Eritrean nationals you reckon there are petitioning through Saudi/ Lebanon for a K1 right now? I'd hazard a big fat 1 petition either way.

[SuperDuper! 230]

Amigo,

You've been lurking around for a long time, much longer than I've been here.

You give absolutely no personal information and you have no timeline.

You want everybody to drop everything and empathize.

You have 10 pages of posts but none except 2 (February 2009 and today) can be viewed.

I'm willing to believe you are for real but you give no real proof.

I'm not a CO, just a VJ friend wanting to know a little more.

Troll

If this post violates the TOS in any way, I invite the mods to delete it and no hard feelings

[SuperDuper! 230]

Is your fiancee from Philippines?

If you look at the OP's profile, there is ZERO information about ANYTHING and NO timeline as well.

Why anyone would want to respond to that is beyond me.

Look at how long he/she/it has been a member...

Look at how many posts (2 in last 6 months but 10 pages of posts that can't be viewed).

No disrespect to anyone, but this looks to me like "enabling."

(from wikipedia)

Enabling is a term with a double meaning.[1]

As a positive term, it references patterns of interaction which allow individuals to develop and grow. These may be on any scale, for example within the family,[1] or in wider society as "Enabling acts" designed to empower some group, or create a new authority for a (usually governmental) body.

In a negative sense, enabling is also used in the context of problematic behavior, to signify dysfunctional approaches that are intended to help but in fact may perpetuate a problem.[1][2] A common theme of enabling in this latter sense is that third parties take responsibility, blame, or make accommodations for a person's harmful conduct (often with the best of intentions, or from fear or insecurity which inhibits action). The practical effect is that the person themselves does not have to do so, and is shielded from awareness of the harm it may do, and the need or pressure to change. It is a major environmental cause of addiction.[3]