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A good marriage takes two people to work it out.

A good marriage does take work and it takes both people to work on it. And for some people it is possible to move past cheating, and to become a stronger couple. I'm not saying it's right for everyone, but it does happen successfully.

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Stupid question!

NOPE not at all..I think the OP was just curious how other people react to it if their bf/gf or spouse cheated on them since every one is different.

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A good marriage does take work and it takes both people to work on it. And for some people it is possible to move past cheating, and to become a stronger couple. I'm not saying it's right for everyone, but it does happen successfully.

It is called dysfunctional relationship. cheating your spouse over and over is not going to be the relationship stronger. perhaps you are in denial...and it is hard for you to let her go and chose to stay in unhealthy marriage instead. Some people are just lazy to start over and to find the right person who treated them with respect. :innocent:

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1st, i would let her go without hesitation, no second chance, no no no.. and i would let her family know that she cheated on me i'm not gonna lay my hands on her, i don't beleive in hurting women its against my principle....2ndly, I would put a hurt on the guy bad enough that he won't even think one bit about having an affair with someone else's woman EVER (if his bigger???not a problem, I'll take on ANY man wether his 300 lbs or 400lbs using my smarts of course more likely i'll probablyright behind him with my stun gun and do my business.....(rough em up a little bit and shove a broken corona bottle up his ####)Not gonna resort to killing though cause it's against my principle...finally, i'll do my time if i get caught when i get out i'll relocate far away maybe Philippines and move on with my life.....

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1st, i would let her go without hesitation, no second chance, no no no.. and i would let her family know that she cheated on me i'm not gonna lay my hands on her, i don't beleive in hurting women its against my principle....2ndly, I would put a hurt on the guy bad enough that he won't even think one bit about having an affair with someone else's woman EVER (if his bigger???not a problem, I'll take on ANY man wether his 300 lbs or 400lbs using my smarts of course more likely i'll probablyright behind him with my stun gun and do my business.....(rough em up a little bit and shove a broken corona bottle up his ####)Not gonna resort to killing though cause it's against my principle...finally, i'll do my time if i get caught when i get out i'll relocate far away maybe Philippines and move on with my life.....

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