Finally we got approved yesterday

[brnidokiegurl 0]

yes it is fact, so again dont anyone count the chicken just yet. I knew of one couple lived together in morocco for a short time and did the visa, NOT they were denied why, they felt not real relationship reason? he didnt have good english well wouldnt we expect this since he was moroccan, so they look at things as they feel and dont have to give a reason other than JUST BECAUSE WE SAY SO

[Nothing1234 2]

BTW, you did change ur tune. I was addressing the "I can't stand them" hater attitude not your choice. I have many friends and relatives that have made the same choice.

You talk out both sides of your mouth in my opinion. I never attacked your choice only your nasty choice of words. I wish you the best of luck. And anyone who knows me on this board knows I'm not hateful nor do I attack a persons choice. Again, your words were hurtful.

I know that. I have read several of your posts and you have always been nice in them.

I appologize if "i can't stand them" offended you or hurt you. Not my intention.

I changed my tone because I realized that people were taking it as something hurtful and that wasn't my point.

Actually, the whole point was to say that taking a dowry, money, or anything else from my husband, and choosing not to have children are not reasons to suspect a fraudulent marriage. Nor is getting married 10 months after divorcing your husband.

And we're not being interviewed in Casablanca, Egypt, Mumbai, or anywhere else where they deal with this day in and out. We're going through the Amsterdam consulate. According to the reviews, it's quite a different atmosphere than other consulates, simply because they know EU citizens have no need or desire to obtain a greencard for fraudulent reasons.

Thank you and I do agree there were two different subjects mulled together.

[notime4haterz 0]

Ladies, I appreciate your input. I hope that when Mike gets his interview, he lets us know what happens. I have not gotten NOA2 yet.

When I do and I reach the interview point, I will let you all know exactly what happened and what was said. Until then, I really am not worried. I was worried initially, not because of fraud, but that there might be a time constraint or limit to applications, the way there is for K-1 visas. Since there are men who have sponsored 2 or 3 K-1's without a problem, then I figured it wasn't a problem for me either.

When I found out that my ex-husband no longer had any status, then it really didn't matter to me anymore. I didn't even know he lost his status until recently.

So in a nutshell, what happens, happens, and I am not losing any sleep over it.

[Milka 0]

Congratulations! :dance: