Friend Gets Goodbye Email from Fiance

[Korat 0]

want some, slim?

Oh yeah!

I was out of town all weekend and just now got the chance to read all of this. I think I'm going to sit back and munch on this delicious popcorn for a while, watch it develop a little more before I chime in.

Is that real butter or the powder stuff?

(Personally, I like a little Tobasco on my popcorn. And the white cheese powder is pretty good too. I've heard of cinnamon/sugar but never actually tasted it. My little brother sells some chocolate covered caramel corn through the Boy Scouts and it's totally worth the $40 price tag. OK... sorry to get off topic. Pass me the bucket and let's sit back and see how this one unfolds....... good so far, eh?)

It all depends whether Kirk is willing to find out if she is knocked and engaged to someone else or not. Of course the person who robbed and cheated you will want to walk with no hard feelings. I think he too scared to find out and wants to live in his fantasy world.

[Korat 0]

I see that Korat/Paul still hasn't put anything in his profile. OK, enough about Nadya, tell us about you and your fiance'. You say you live in America/Canada, but you write with an accent. Let's talk about you.

What about me?

I am not Russian. LOL

Canadian with American ancestry

Profession Accountant.

No kids at least that I know of

Never been married.

The lady is from Nikolaev, Ukraine.

25 years old, not married, no kids. works in retail store in the middle of city.

I see that Korat/Paul still hasn't put anything in his profile. OK, enough about Nadya, tell us about you and your fiance'. You say you live in America/Canada, but you write with an accent. Let's talk about you.

What about me?

I am not Russian. LOL, when I have too many beers, I write like I am dyslexic.

Canadian with American ancestry

Profession Accountant. (american designation)

No kids at least that I know of

Never been married.

The lady is from Nikolaev, Ukraine.

25 years old, not married, no kids. works in retail store in the middle of city.

[Brad and Vika 129]

Some personal information. That is a good start... gooood. Now, without digressing about any one else, how did you two lovebirds meet? From Russia to Ukraine is quite a distance - so what brought you there?

What is your lady's name? How does her family feel about you? Do you often drink while you post?

[slim 1,533]

Since we're asking questions here, why is it that you think you're able to sponsor a young woman now without messing her all up again?

Did you learn what "not to do" this time around? How much money did you have to send Nadya before you turned her into a party girl? Did you send significantly less to this one? Did you verify that she didn't already have a fiancee and wasn't five months pregnant before you started the K-1/Canadian equivalent papers?

And what kind of a man follows another man onto a totally separate website and starts posting all kinds of negative information about his ex-fiancee all the while patronizing him with, "he's a nice guy but she's a horrible girl because I made her that way."???

And lastly.... do you really think this is going to help you "win" her back?

Just a little advice, buddy - If/when you move to the U.S., make sure you move somewhere like San Francisco or some other tree-hugging-hippy place where people excuse that kind of ####### because if you move somewhere in the MidWest, or (God forbid) anywhere South of the Mason-Dixon line, you're going to get kicked in the nuts anytime you tell that story. I have a size 11 waiting for you here whenever you pass through Cincinnati. So what if the girl did this or she did that or he was wrapped up in the little affair. That's none of your business and it's none of ours either. He posted that they broke it off but were on amicable terms. That's what he wanted to share with us and that's what he did. All this other ####### you're posting here, whether true or not, reminds me of being in 8th grade again when the guy that didn't get the girl he liked started spreading rumors about how dirty she was and how the guy that did get her shouldn't want her anymore.

Wow. You got them both good. Way to go. I think this is a good instance to tell you, "Shut your pie hole." And by the way..... grow up! You've got a new one now, so if you secretly still desire Nadya, then you should explore that first because I would hate to see you on here this time next year attempting to discredit another guy and blacklisting another girl because of the horrible thing that you turned this one into as well. Good luck, and I hope.... goodbye.

[Korat 0]

Some personal information. That is a good start... gooood. Now, without digressing about any one else, how did you two lovebirds meet? From Russia to Ukraine is quite a distance - so what brought you there?

What is your lady's name? How does her family feel about you? Do you often drink while you post?

Name is mentioned above Irina

Met her Nikolaev.

I am not from Russia, but Canada

Her family so far likes me. Father is away often so never met him yet. It is different in Canada, I have to invite via tourist visa, there is no Fiance Visa. So I have to build her passport so she can visit or else marriage in Ukraine then bring her over. I knew one man who did this and his marriage last only 2 weeks in Canada. Once they land in Canada, they can apply landed immigrant status which is equivalent almost to citizenship. Like I said, the American system is superior, so I need to find the rules about myself being in the USA and bring someone over.

No, not really, just more dyslexia

[Bobalouie 0]

I dont know why, but I smell fruitcake. Anyone else smell that?

[sara..... 371]

Hmmm, I wonder if it's MOX.

It was not mox. I can, however, report that Nadya and I have recently had a mutual parting of ways, but there's nothing sordid or abrupt about it, and we remain fast friends. I've held off on saying anything because Nadya's ex boyfriend/stalker lurks here, and saying anything would have only encouraged him to re-start harassing her. But he's managed to figure it out, so I can at least share with you all that we won't be completing our VJ.

I do want to thank everyone for their support, especially those few of you who I did share the situation with, and who were so incredibly supportive. I made some great friends, and had some good times. Best of luck to everyone here. I'm sure I'll drop in from time-to-time to offer my voluminous wisdom and crass, baseless attacks, so you're probably not rid of me quite yet. Besides...I know this girl in Moscow...

ohhhhhhhhh mox im sorry.......i had no idea

[Ana&D 0]

I dont know why, but I smell fruitcake. Anyone else smell that?

Major stalker alert

[Bobalouie 0]

Ok Korat/GiGii...You know its against the TOS to have multiple logons, yes?

[GiGii 4]

Ok Bobalouie, you know it's against TOS to accuse people falsely?

[Bobalouie 0]

Well GiGii, I guess we will find out!

[Brad and Vika 129]

Ugly.

[Korat 0]

I dont know why, but I smell fruitcake. Anyone else smell that?

Bobaloiue, I heard in the south they love conspiracy theories. Knock yourself out. Think what you want.

But the fact is that Nadya's is pregnant and she has been using men for financial gain for 5 years.

You can ask anyone YO to see her and they will tell you that she is pregnant. I have witnesses who can list the letters she wrote asking for money from the website fiance.com and when I had her removed from this site, she was livid. She wasn;t even writing her own letters, but the scamming agency was writing the letters. Mox knew this.

But hey, you will never believe me so really why bother trying to explain to you.

[Korat 0]

Ugly.

Yes, you are right. I decided to air the truth so that this woman never destroys another life.

What part of Ukraine is your fiancee from?

It is a beautiful country and I was scheduled to go back this August, but due some complications, I cannot.

I had discussions with some members of the National Bank of Ukraine and some elite expats when I was in Kiev. Ukraine just scares me as an economy. The price of property is almost triple than an Average American apartment and still has the bad qualities of stench and decay.

[slim 1,533]

What happened to the post where you "answered" all my questions and then spelled it out again? I read it earlier today but didn't have time to reply. Did you delete it after realizing you contradicted yourself or did you have to get rid of it because one of the lies didn't jive with another?

Either way, I wish it was still on here. I was ready to reply and do a little cutting and pasting of your previous posts where you plainly said one thing and then later, in response to what I asked, said another. Oh well.

One last question.......

Are you doing this because what she did just wasn't right and you really hope nobody else gets "suckered" like you did or did she break your heart and now you have to have spiteful revenge? Or, are you really thinking that after no one else in the whole world will e-mail or talk to her you'll be there to be a shoulder for her to cry on and ultimately will get her back? Does your fiancee now bear a resemblance to her? After all, you can customize your search to get a 5'7" brunette. Explore the motivation for your actions just a little bit. Be honest with us (and more importantly, yourself) because it's not hard to see what's going on here.

I guess that was like 5 questions and a few statements. Doesn't really matter much becuase it's not like we're really worried much about authenticity here.