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Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: India
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I used to do this in school too, right after an exam - I'm sitting here thinking, everything is signed, everything is filled out, everthing was nice and organized - you know like replaying the questions you got right on an exam. Then my stomach completely dropped, I have no proof my SO was there too....other than pics and those are considered secondary, right?

Ok, so I fly all the way too India, I have proof I was there. Yeah, it's his country and all that, but we didn't meet up in his city because it's all strife ridden - we met in Delhi instead. I didn't think to have any of his proof that he was in Delhi and I'm not sure how to get some. We were very old school and used cash for just about everything...ugh, am I worrying for nothing????

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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you have your ticket (right) you have your pics(right) do they show dates, do they show certain places of that area, hotel receipts i think you are fine


TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

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11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

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I used to do this in school too, right after an exam - I'm sitting here thinking, everything is signed, everything is filled out, everthing was nice and organized - you know like replaying the questions you got right on an exam. Then my stomach completely dropped, I have no proof my SO was there too....other than pics and those are considered secondary, right?

Ok, so I fly all the way too India, I have proof I was there. Yeah, it's his country and all that, but we didn't meet up in his city because it's all strife ridden - we met in Delhi instead. I didn't think to have any of his proof that he was in Delhi and I'm not sure how to get some. We were very old school and used cash for just about everything...ugh, am I worrying for nothing????

Cant see any problem at all. My fiance flew into London and i live in Scotland. You have the pics that show you were together. Dont think you need proof that you were in his home town, just his home country.


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Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: India
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Like I said, I have stuff for me...but I have no proof he was in Delhi. He lives in another state and traveled to Delhi to spend time with me and I havent a clue if he has his old tickets. What hotel info I have is in my name, not his...granted every hotel I was in took all guests info, including copies of passport photos. Maybe I could somehow get some sort of letter stating we both stayed in the same hotel at the same time???? Could that work? I know, Im acting all crazy and OCD-ish.

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Like I said, I have stuff for me...but I have no proof he was in Delhi. He lives in another state and traveled to Delhi to spend time with me and I havent a clue if he has his old tickets. What hotel info I have is in my name, not his...granted every hotel I was in took all guests info, including copies of passport photos. Maybe I could somehow get some sort of letter stating we both stayed in the same hotel at the same time???? Could that work? I know, Im acting all crazy and OCD-ish.

Well im sure with all the other evidence that you are providing eg - letters. email, phone calls will show that it was him that you visited. Was it a double room that you booked? How far away exactly does he live from Delhi?


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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Scotland
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I think you should be fine, I don't think the US centers are automatically as suspicious as they can possibly be of our cases :yes: The fact that you went to India, regardless of city, is good. If you have the hotel receipts and they say you had 2 guests there, or double room, or whatever else, then that's great. Send the photos in as secondary evidence as well and write on pencil in the back about what date it was, where you were, etc.

Remember to be as informative as possible in the forms. When you're explaining how you met, explain that your SO flew into Delhi to meet you. There's really no reason you'd lie about all this...and they're going to have the pictures and any other secondary evidence you can choose to send in already too (though it's not required at all). Also, while it's not solid proof, any restaurant receipts, tickets to events/museums, etc., that sort of thing, that you have can also be used as proof.

Don't worry so much :P I think you're good to go.


Summer 2001 - met my Scottish boy

December 18th, 2007 - proposal in Madrid's Botanical Gardens with a duck standing behind him going 'food?'

January 18th, 2008 - I-129F sent to VSC

January 31st, 2008 - received NOA1, issued Jan. 24 :)

February 24th, 2008 - NOA2; omgwtfbbqlolz

February 29th, 2008 - NVC letter sent

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Like I said, I have stuff for me...but I have no proof he was in Delhi. He lives in another state and traveled to Delhi to spend time with me and I havent a clue if he has his old tickets. What hotel info I have is in my name, not his...granted every hotel I was in took all guests info, including copies of passport photos. Maybe I could somehow get some sort of letter stating we both stayed in the same hotel at the same time???? Could that work? I know, Im acting all crazy and OCD-ish.

If you have a plane ticket showing the dates you were there, and if you have pictures showing you two together, then you have no problem. I understand we ALL have to worry about everything, me included. I worry about eveyrthing and second guess and double and triple check and find things to worry about because this is very important to all of us. For me, this is the most important thing I have ever done in my entire life, and for most of you I am sure you feel the same way.

However, you need to think rationally as well and not let emotions and worry cloud your judgment. If you have the proof showing you were in the country, if you have pictures together, if you have some sort of bank transaction showing you charged/spent money somewhere in the country (I am sure you didn't ONLY use cash 100% of the time you were there), then don't worry you have nothing to worry about.

I know a lot of people, including my fiance herself, is going to college (In bangkok) but used her home address. Also, I am going to college as well right now and have a different address but used my HOME address as the primary address.

Don't worry you're fine!

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